Could life get any worse??

[GarysBride]

Sorry I just have to vent here. This month so far has already been horrible! and its only the 6th!!!! First on Dec 1st I was let go form my job due to them having budgeting issues This makes me so sad and I cried all weekened becuase I LOVED my job! Second THE WEDDING IS ONLY 16 DAYS AWAY!!! The shoes I had ordered for the wedding are too small. I cant find BMs jewelry ugh wedding stress! AND to top it all off......... I got pulled over today for running a red light! ALSJALSKJDFSDAHFGENFHVF WTF! also my close friend got into a major accident last night. I just feel I''m at the end of the rope!

I think I need a hug....

 

[hopefulheidi]

Goodness...

On the upside, sounds like things can only get better!

I am so sorry about all of the unnecessary drama. Wish there was something we PSers could do to help but know that we''re thinking of you and hoping that things start looking up QUICKLY!

 

[diamondseeker2006]

Bless your heart! You simply have too many stressful things going on at one time. Try to focus on enjoying your wedding and worry about the job later. I think it is rotten they did that right now, though! {{{hugs}}}

 

[snlee]

I''m sorry to hear this! Things WILL get better! Hang in there. Big hugs to you.

 

[misysu2]

I''m so sorry to hear things aren''t going well! Things are going to get better though- AND you''re going to have a BLAST when your wedding rolls around! Don''t stress about that!

Keep your head up, and remember, us PSers are here for you!

 

[GarysBride]

thanks everone i just need to breathe and really think about some stuff

 

[musey]

Yes, it could get much, much worse!! Try to count your blessings!!!

Is there anything we can help with--shoes or jewelry search?

 

[CrownJewel]

Hey GarysBride,
I hope today has gotten a little better! I''d love to help you find shoes or jewelry (not much going on at work today!). In the meantime, here''s a VIRTUAL HUG!

 

[surfgirl]

Sweetie, take a day off and go take a rest! Relax and don''t do anything wedding related. Just RELAX. You dont want to be stressed out on your wedding day. If you cant find BM jewelry let them BMs wear their own stuff. No biggie, right? Cant find wedding shoes? Go to David''s Bridal, they have a ton of shoes IN STOCK and you''ll find something, trust me. Okay, so they wont be Manolo''s but nobody''s going to see your shoes anyway. Relax. Get a massage. Do something for you to chill out for one day...

 

[Gypsy]

WOW. I''m so sorry GB!

Your job and your freind''s accident are by far the most upsetting, and big hugs to you about those.

Maybe we can help with finding jewelry and new shoes though? Anything to help, you just need to ask.

(((HUGE HUGS)))

 

[Sabine]

Just wanted to let you know I''m thinking about you and hoping that things are looking up already!

 

[GarysBride]

oh my gosh thanks everyone for the Hugs I really needed that my friend who got in the accident is doing fine the car is more totaled then she is... I was able to get a court date to dispute my ticket so thats good! The lady at the window was so sympathetic after hearing my whole month so far she came out from behind the window and hugged me! I was able to get a new job which I''m so excited about! and I think I found some potential shoes but hopefully there not OOS. No luck with the jewels yet I also don''t know what to get my BMs as gifts or how to make my MOH stand out jeesh! so much to think about at least this day went a lot better then yesterday! thanks again everyone

Im looking for peep toe ballet flats the ones I found were silver and cute but I dunno if they will look good underneath my dress......

 

[Gypsy]

SO glad things are going better honey. Post the dress and we'll let you know... especially if you've got pics of the shoes too.

 

[SuLi]

I am so sorry to hear about the rough time that you''ve been having lately. I hope that things will take a turn for the better soon. Keeping my fingers crossed! Good luck, and hang in there!

 

[GarysBride]

It wont let me post my dress And I dont know why! I dont have a picture of the shoes either! I know I''m no help at all....

 

[FacetFire]

I am so glad that things are looking up. And I am SO impressed that you already got another job. Congrats! It always seems to take me forever to find a new job. To post your dress, try naming the file something very strange, because if it''s a common name, it may have already been used when someone else uploaded a file. That seems to be my most common issue when posting...either that or the photo might need to be sized down.

 

[Steel]

I am very sorry you are having a bad run of luck. Esp. about your job.

Try to find a moment to do something you enjoy - cup of coffee out, walk in the park, read a chapter of your book, get a pedi/mani; whatever - but just for you and ideally on your own.

This may not help, but DH and I always remind each other of this when life turns crap: Take a moment and keep your head, especially on the roads [sorry to be blunt, but nobody wants to visit their FI in the hospital before the wedding, or worse...].

None of 'it' really matters as long as you keep yourself and loved ones safe, the rest going well is just gravy.

Please be careful, esp with your wedding coming up, take some time and relax.

If something doesn’t go to plan, just move on.

I am sure it will all be ok, things just take their own good time

 

[ladyciel]

Here''s the pic of your dress you posted previously:

As for the shoes - have you looked to see if there''s a photo online of them anywhere? Maybe at zappos.com or endless.com?

 

[GarysBride]

Date: 12/8/2007 10:46:03 AM
Author: ladyciel
Here''s the pic of your dress you posted previously:

As for the shoes - have you looked to see if there''s a photo online of them anywhere? Maybe at zappos.com or endless.com?

Thank you so much for posting the picture ladyciel! Im going to check zappos and endless right now thank you so much! My FH is a CSE you would think I could just ask him to figure out why the photo wont work and he could fix it in a split second, but alas I cant have him show me up with his computer skillz!

Thank you so much

 

[GarysBride]

Date: 12/8/2007 10:09:24 AM
Author: Steel

I am very sorry you are having a bad run of luck. Esp. about your job.

Try to find a moment to do something you enjoy - cup of coffee out, walk in the park, read a chapter of your book, get a pedi/mani; whatever - but just for you and ideally on your own.

This may not help, but DH and I always remind each other of this when life turns crap: Take a moment and keep your head, especially on the roads [sorry to be blunt, but nobody wants to visit their FI in the hospital before the wedding, or worse...].

None of ''it'' really matters as long as you keep yourself and loved ones safe, the rest going well is just gravy.

Please be careful, esp with your wedding coming up, take some time and relax.

If something doesn’t go to plan, just move on.

I am sure it will all be ok, things just take their own good time

Thank you so much for these encouraging words steel. I do really just need to slow down Its more important to just keep my head in one place I esp don''t want to be visiting anyone in the hospital! I actually told FH that he is not allowed to go snowboarding before the wedding at all just because that would be one of those freak accidents and I wont be able to handle it!!! lol I was able to find a great job doing something that I love... working with Horses!
thank you once again, jeez what would I do without my fellow PS''ers??

 

[GarysBride]

well I found these there the closest to what I saw except there not peep toe
shoes

 

[FacetFire]

Those shoes are SO SO SO cute! I love them! I think silver shoes go great with a white dress!

 

[Gypsy]

oH i LOVE ThOSE. Whew! Cat left the laptop.

I think with a peep toe they will be perfect for your gown!!!