Custom E-Ring with Amethyst?!

[stone-cold11]

Seem like we have scared off the OP?

 

[coati]

Welcome to PS aestival!

I second Imdanny's advice about having her design the ring or you both choosing it together. I think it's cool that she wants something unconventional, and I know several women who wear really unique engagement rings. They were part of the design process, and they adore their rings. If she loves purple, then purple sapphire is a great choice per Gypsy's recommendation.

Lots of great custom designers have been reviewed on ps, so do some research and gather some images-a great designer can craft her heart's desire. Also, if there are some small artisanal jewelry boutiques in your area, visit them, and have her try on some pieces. A ring on the hand is a far cry from a photograph, so it's good to have her try on many styles.

Good Luck!

 

[coati]

Just an idea...something like this would be gorgeous with a diamond center and purple sapphire on the sides...

Cathy Waterman ring-for inspiration.

 

[motownmama]

Pardon everyone, but OP only asked (1) what mat'l could this be made from and (2) rec. on vendors.

 

[LD]

It doesn't matter whether we like the ring or not!!!

Actually I think it's highly unusual and can see how it would appeal to somebody who doesn't want the "norm". So I say go for it! However, don't use Amethyst - even tension setting them around the band will be problematic and then you have the future wear issues. Go with purple sapphires which are much hardier.

One other suggestion ........ if you have even a small hint that your GF may not like the ring, why don't you do something unique and propose with a candy shape ring? If she says "yes" then you can have the fun together of designing something special and a one of a kind.

 

[Gypsy]

Love that Cathy Waterman. Second Ettiene Perret. Nice man, lovely designs.

Agree that the Op only asked for vendor and metal suggestions, but on the other hand when you see someone about to jump off a cliff... every once in a while you gotta say... eh, that might hurt, ya know?

I sincerely believe that if your lady wants to be picky she should put her money where her mouth is and take things to the next logical step. Now, the next logical step is not: "Hey, read my mind! If you don't read it, I'll dump you!"

The next logical step is, "Ya know, I have an idea of my likes and don't likes, how about we do this thing as a couple so we can both be sure that our investment of time and money has the best return."

Ya know?

 

[clgwli]

I do realize that the OP didn't ask about amethysts in the post, but with the title like that I had to jump in. I really didn't want someone to suffer the same heartbreak I did. If someone had said to me nicely that amethyst is too soft for daily wear I would've thought about going to a purple sapphire. But no one did and I was too stupid to think about that (even though I knew how soft amethyst is). So now my original e-ring was scrapped because I didn't bother to go with good stones or a thick enough shank on the platinum ring. It didn't take long for my ring to be damaged badly.

So I admit I was really trying o save the OP's intended some heart ache. I feel bad that he seems to have been scared off. The rest of the design is really cool to me though and if his intended loves this style then I am all for it!

 

[rosetta]

if that's the design your GF wants, then that's what she should get. but yes, you do need a harder purple stone: sapphires are best.

but PLEASE be sure that's the design she wants.

come back OP: we can still help you!

 

[antelope1]

Seem like we have scared off the OP?

Or something else scared him off.

 

[Natylad]

Love that Cathy Waterman. Second Ettiene Perret. Nice man, lovely designs.

Agree that the Op only asked for vendor and metal suggestions, but on the other hand when you see someone about to jump off a cliff... every once in a while you gotta say... eh, that might hurt, ya know?

I sincerely believe that if your lady wants to be picky she should put her money where her mouth is and take things to the next logical step. Now, the next logical step is not: "Hey, read my mind! If you don't read it, I'll dump you!"

The next logical step is, "Ya know, I have an idea of my likes and don't likes, how about we do this thing as a couple so we can both be sure that our investment of time and money has the best return."

Ya know?

Gypsy...i really like you and they way you're thinking...ya know?

 

[Brown.Eyed.Girl]

Let me first say a big THANK YOU to all of you as I have learned a lot from this forum over the past couple of months!

The reason why I decided to create my first post today is because there were some interesting progress over the past few days. Long story short, my gf told me explicitly last week that a conventional e-ring will result in a "NO" (she even sketched a solataire emerald cut w/ thick band and called that 'hideous'!). So after doing hours of idea digging again, I came across the following 'concept ring'.

I find this ring very unique and appreciate the colour combination. My gf has slender fingers (approx size 4.5) so the band can't be as thick as depicted. I am looking at getting a RB around 0.8 to 1.0 ct, but not that many side stones (you can see there are about 10 amethysts on each side). I have a couple of questions that would appreciate guidance:

1) Ideally, a black titanium or tungsten material would be nice for the band, but I read on one of the posts the material is too strong to make the configuration. Is there such a material called black gold that can be used instead?
2) Any suggestions as to which vendor would be willing to take on this project?

Thanks and look forward to all your input.

I would be very concerned that what you think is is non-conventional and what she thinks is non-conventional is drastically different. I would do more research - since she really doesn't want something traditional, I would involve her in this process to a large degree, asking her what her ideal ring is in terms of center stone (if she wants one) and setting. Enjoy the process as a team and go from there!

 

[Gypsy]

Love that Cathy Waterman. Second Ettiene Perret. Nice man, lovely designs.

Agree that the Op only asked for vendor and metal suggestions, but on the other hand when you see someone about to jump off a cliff... every once in a while you gotta say... eh, that might hurt, ya know?

I sincerely believe that if your lady wants to be picky she should put her money where her mouth is and take things to the next logical step. Now, the next logical step is not: "Hey, read my mind! If you don't read it, I'll dump you!"

The next logical step is, "Ya know, I have an idea of my likes and don't likes, how about we do this thing as a couple so we can both be sure that our investment of time and money has the best return."

Ya know?

Gypsy...i really like you and they way you're thinking...ya know?

I may know. Do YOU know? Thank you! LOL.

 

[bright&shiny]

I agree with sapphires - but will say from experience, titanium scratches everything, and I mean EVERYTHING: Leather, Stove tops, glass tables, windows, car door handles..... not that I'm speaking from very expensive experience or anything... ahem..... :err:

On the matter of selecting the right ring - does your intended want to be surprised? Perhaps she would be thrilled with a proposal - and a date with a jeweler to design the perfect ring. It's a daunting task to divine what someone will love. Even I have been sure of what I wanted only to be surprised that something else I never would have selected was more beautiful (as was the case with my engagement ring).

Good luck! I think there is a very nice quality to the ring - perhaps in a brushed white gold - or rose gold.... Whatever you do - enjoy it. This is such an exciting time!