Tigerlilyrosepetal
Shiny_Rock
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- Feb 16, 2021
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Hi,
This is such a touchy subject and I am hesitant to say my opinion because I don’t want to hurt feelings, so please understand that first. I’m just giving my thoughts since I think the lab v natural debate is so interesting! I got married in 2003 and could never afford a rock like I so badly wanted then, and for many years after we were married. For me personally, what makes me feel that a diamond is worth wearing on my finger is that I know I paid a lot of money for it! Yes-I said it!! And that I worked very hard to earn it! After about ten years of marriage I was able to buy a very crappy stone and then have been upgrading every chance I could get over the years.
So my value system is maybe different from the younger generation. The best I could do was a 1.5 F stone after May years of marriage-and then the lab world opened up.
I have bought two nice labs since, but honestly they just don’t make me feel like they are special because they were so cheap. They are beautiful, identical, and I love them in their own way. However,I have noticed that I don’t find I value them nearly as much. I wear them because they are pretty and I wouldn’t mind losing them, but they just don’t have the same value and appreciation as a natural stone, in that the natural stone was a very big financial sacrifice for me and I’m proud of that.
Everyone can think differently and I’m cool with your opinions too I do think that the labs will go the way of the Cz and mossisanite though, just due to over-supply and continuing falling prices. I think people won’t put value as much in the lab if it were worth less money and I think that due to an ability to produce as many as possible, the prices will fall. I also know I’ve already tried to trade my labs and some naturals in for a trade and the jewelers I spoke with were completely not interested in the labs whatsoever either, telling me they had no value. This too makes me leery of buying any more labs.
This is such a touchy subject and I am hesitant to say my opinion because I don’t want to hurt feelings, so please understand that first. I’m just giving my thoughts since I think the lab v natural debate is so interesting! I got married in 2003 and could never afford a rock like I so badly wanted then, and for many years after we were married. For me personally, what makes me feel that a diamond is worth wearing on my finger is that I know I paid a lot of money for it! Yes-I said it!! And that I worked very hard to earn it! After about ten years of marriage I was able to buy a very crappy stone and then have been upgrading every chance I could get over the years.
So my value system is maybe different from the younger generation. The best I could do was a 1.5 F stone after May years of marriage-and then the lab world opened up.
I have bought two nice labs since, but honestly they just don’t make me feel like they are special because they were so cheap. They are beautiful, identical, and I love them in their own way. However,I have noticed that I don’t find I value them nearly as much. I wear them because they are pretty and I wouldn’t mind losing them, but they just don’t have the same value and appreciation as a natural stone, in that the natural stone was a very big financial sacrifice for me and I’m proud of that.
Everyone can think differently and I’m cool with your opinions too I do think that the labs will go the way of the Cz and mossisanite though, just due to over-supply and continuing falling prices. I think people won’t put value as much in the lab if it were worth less money and I think that due to an ability to produce as many as possible, the prices will fall. I also know I’ve already tried to trade my labs and some naturals in for a trade and the jewelers I spoke with were completely not interested in the labs whatsoever either, telling me they had no value. This too makes me leery of buying any more labs.