Anastasia
Shiny_Rock
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- Mar 23, 2005
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Re: Did/Do your parents prefer a gender with your future bab
Ah, where to even start with this situation.
Your mother in law is WAY WAY WAY out of line on many levels here. I know that you are living with her, but that doesn't mean that you need to put up with this behavior. She needs to be told, in no uncertain terms, to lay off on all of the baby talk. For goodness sake, her son isn't even in the country, and she is naming, delivering and demanding the gender of his baby.
She clearly has issues with boundaries. I am a pretty private person by nature, and hearing all of this baby talk from my mother in law would really bother me. I would not have her deliver the baby either. I can just see her talking to all of the friends and family about the intimate details of your baby's birth.
I would sit her down and tell her that having a baby is a private and personal decision, and that all of her talk of names and genders is really stressing you out. I would continue to deliver this message until she gets it.
Good Luck.
Ah, where to even start with this situation.
Your mother in law is WAY WAY WAY out of line on many levels here. I know that you are living with her, but that doesn't mean that you need to put up with this behavior. She needs to be told, in no uncertain terms, to lay off on all of the baby talk. For goodness sake, her son isn't even in the country, and she is naming, delivering and demanding the gender of his baby.
She clearly has issues with boundaries. I am a pretty private person by nature, and hearing all of this baby talk from my mother in law would really bother me. I would not have her deliver the baby either. I can just see her talking to all of the friends and family about the intimate details of your baby's birth.
I would sit her down and tell her that having a baby is a private and personal decision, and that all of her talk of names and genders is really stressing you out. I would continue to deliver this message until she gets it.
Good Luck.