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And I’ll add, I’m a strong believer in getting the best quality you can afford for your jewellery staple wardrobe.
Get a nice pair of diamond studs, a quality watch (if you wear watches) a good necklace, bangle or bracelet and a Right hand ring. Youll wear them more often and enjoy them better.
Its better to have 1 or 2 pairs of beautiful earrings that you love than a drawer full of “so so” earrings that are ok but nothing special.
I always buy pre loved because I feel the biggest “hit” was taken by the original buyer. Sure it’s nice to have the shopping experience and having brand new and sparkly but I’m a value for money girl.
i figure if I can buy it for a fair price I can enjoy it and if I decide to upgrade or buy something else, hopefully I can get almost as much as I paid.
Exceptions are my engagement and wedding ring.
Loving this discussion!
Nothing is as expensive as a brand new piece, never being worn... oops! I have definitely done this!
I like the idea of looking at things from a cost per wear angle. Then it matters less how much you paid, how much you can sell for, and focuses on daily enjoyment
@RosieR tell me about this VCA piece!
Oh it’s nothing crazy fancy. It’s the frivole single flower diamond bracelet. It’s a lot of money for such a small carat weight, but the craftsmanship is beyond, it will stack beautifully with another bracelet I have to wear most days. https://www.vancleefarpels.com/eu/e...e/vcarp24100-frivole-bracelet-mini-model.html
Sometimes I’m interested in jewelry more for its value than for me just having a nice thing to wear. And sometimes I want something (like large lab diamond studs) that will NOT be holding its value, but I would wear all the time.
What are you like?
Well--I'm in my 60's so long term value is a relative term-lol.
We have 6 kids and none are really into jewelry so passing it on is not a consideration. Except for my Mom's engagement diamond---that will go to my oldest niece.
no, i view it as a disposable purchase like clothing, bags, accessories, vehicles. i know there are ways to think about it as an investment or make sure you at least don't lose money if/when you resell. i do always try to seek out a good value when i make a major purchase however, and look to pre-loved first. But, if it's something that will be worn often, it's more expensive imho to compromise on not getting the exact thing you want in the long term because you can go down the path of trying over and over again to "fix" it.
I think many of us PSers, myself included, have found this out the hard way! “Buy the last one, first!” Instead of getting close and missing the mark and being dissatisfied... etc.
My DH was smart and took that approach for my ER!
I generally assume diamonds, purses, other luxury things "depreciate" 50% the moment you use it or open the box. 50% is better than 0% though, and you can definitely pass jewelry on to others.
As such, depreciating assets are not investments. You want appreciating assets for investments (stocks, real estate, etc.)
Diamonds and luxury things are meant for enjoyment. My mom always told me, if it can't be ruined, stolen, lost, etc. than you can't afford it. That lesson has stuck with me to this day.