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I had to laugh, ''cause DH will often admire his ring and my rings and get all goofy about them.Date: 6/6/2008 1:20:16 PM
Author: Independent Gal
DH loves his wedding band. Ours match (both thin platinum bands) and neither of us ever takes ours off. Sometimes we hold our hands together and say ''look! we''re same-ys!'' ... you know because at heart we''re 9 years old.
Hi NE - Yay for mountaineers and rock climbers!!!!!Date: 4/11/2008 7:30:47 PM
Author:NewEnglandLady
Growing up, I never saw my father take off his wedding band. In fact, I don''t know if it even comes off anymore! My father is a farmer and often works on machinary--I''ve urged him to take off his ring when he''s working on a tractor for safety reasons, but he''ll have none of it. My mom is the same way--they both have very simple, thin gold bands (farmers are poor) that are worn within an inch of their lives!
My FIL has never worn his wedding band--he said he took it off the minute they left city hall and hasn''t worn it since. What can I say, the man doesn''t like any jewelry.
When we were shopping for D''s wedding band I asked him if he was going to wear it or if it was just for the ceremony--I didn''t want to spend a ton on a platinum band if it was going to be on his hand for 15 minutes and never see daylight again. He said he didn''t think he''d wear a ring, but he wanted platinum, anyway, so we''d have matching bands. Of course. I didn''t really think twice about it--I didn''t care if he wore it or not.
Strangely enough, though, he''s very attached to his ring. He doesn''t wear it if he''s on a mountaineering expedition and neither of us wear them when we are rock climbing, but he says that he feels naked without it and prefers wearing it to not wearing it.
So I''m curious--for the men, do you all wear your rings? And for the women, do your husbands wear their wedding band all the time? None of the time? Sometimes?
Date: 6/6/2008 1:20:16 PM
Author: Independent Gal
DH loves his wedding band. Ours match (both thin platinum bands) and neither of us ever takes ours off. Sometimes we hold our hands together and say ''look! we''re same-ys!'' ... you know because at heart we''re 9 years old.