iota15
Brilliant_Rock
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Okay. Whew. This might be unpopular but here it is anyway:
If your girlfriend wants a honking ring, bigger than ANY of her girlfriends, 2.5 is going to look "small" (relatively), even with a halo. It's not small by ANY MEANS for what the average North American can afford... but if you're making 225K a year, I assume at least some of your social network is also making that kind of dough.
With that kind of a salary, you can probably be assured that at some point, one of your buddies is going to pull out a 3, or maybe even a 4 ct ring. Now 2.5 with a halo may look HUGE (which it really is in the greater view of things) to many ladies here, but I know in certain circles, this is just somewhat above average/somewhat on the larger side... but not big.
When you're used to seeing ginormous jewels on women (colored stones, emeralds, Lady Di's sapphire, etc.), 2.5 carats, even in a halo looks small (even though it's a diamond). I don't think, in real life, "wow (eye popping out) that is really big - almost cocktail like, but I know it's real", which seems like what your gf is after, until it hits at least 3 on a small finger, and 3.5 on a larger one. I'm not saying that's necessarily the best look either, but well, to each their own, and also, to each their own social circles.
If you don't think 2.5 is big, it's likely your lady won't either. (To be honest, I don't even know if 3 will cut it but your lady might like to advertise that magic 3 mark and although it's just a bit bigger, it is, well, a bit bigger.). Maybe the question is whether you want to buy her or yourself into some kind of crazy competition to satisfy her insatiable wants.
What are your requirements? Perhaps we can help you find a beautiful, but large looking stone in a budget you find reasonable. Not all 2.5 carats look the same size - some are bigger looking, and some are smaller because carat refers to the weight of the stone.
If it helps, I have a 4.25 finger. I tried on a 2.5 ct rectangularish radiant but it had the face-up size of a 3 carat (approximately 75 sq. mm's - obtained by multiplying the length and width ratios). I thought it actually "looked big" at that size, probably getting to "too big" but I was swooning. That particular stone however was poorly cut so it lacked the sparkle factor. When I came to my senses, I opted for something smaller, and to my eyes, prettier.
If your girlfriend wants a honking ring, bigger than ANY of her girlfriends, 2.5 is going to look "small" (relatively), even with a halo. It's not small by ANY MEANS for what the average North American can afford... but if you're making 225K a year, I assume at least some of your social network is also making that kind of dough.
With that kind of a salary, you can probably be assured that at some point, one of your buddies is going to pull out a 3, or maybe even a 4 ct ring. Now 2.5 with a halo may look HUGE (which it really is in the greater view of things) to many ladies here, but I know in certain circles, this is just somewhat above average/somewhat on the larger side... but not big.
When you're used to seeing ginormous jewels on women (colored stones, emeralds, Lady Di's sapphire, etc.), 2.5 carats, even in a halo looks small (even though it's a diamond). I don't think, in real life, "wow (eye popping out) that is really big - almost cocktail like, but I know it's real", which seems like what your gf is after, until it hits at least 3 on a small finger, and 3.5 on a larger one. I'm not saying that's necessarily the best look either, but well, to each their own, and also, to each their own social circles.
If you don't think 2.5 is big, it's likely your lady won't either. (To be honest, I don't even know if 3 will cut it but your lady might like to advertise that magic 3 mark and although it's just a bit bigger, it is, well, a bit bigger.). Maybe the question is whether you want to buy her or yourself into some kind of crazy competition to satisfy her insatiable wants.
What are your requirements? Perhaps we can help you find a beautiful, but large looking stone in a budget you find reasonable. Not all 2.5 carats look the same size - some are bigger looking, and some are smaller because carat refers to the weight of the stone.
If it helps, I have a 4.25 finger. I tried on a 2.5 ct rectangularish radiant but it had the face-up size of a 3 carat (approximately 75 sq. mm's - obtained by multiplying the length and width ratios). I thought it actually "looked big" at that size, probably getting to "too big" but I was swooning. That particular stone however was poorly cut so it lacked the sparkle factor. When I came to my senses, I opted for something smaller, and to my eyes, prettier.