I agree with Deco. We also sent STDs a year in advance. All of DH''s family/friends had to travel. People who really want to be there were. Many did not attend. We even DELAYED our honeymoon a week to go to his friend''s wedding the weekend after ours. I understand them not coming to our''s but we never got a card congratulating us or even a thank you card for their gift.Date: 5/8/2007 3:31:21 PM
Author: decodelighted
It''s funny how people CAN ''afford'' what they WANT to do ... but all of a sudden CAN''T ''afford'' less fun things.
I''m not saying your wedding isn''t gonna be fun ... but it''s more formal & obligatory than a hijinks filled week in Vegas, c''mon!
Ya really learn a lot about everyone around you during wedding planning. FI''s & DH''s aren''t exempt. Not much you can do but sympathize ...