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Finally Pulled the Trigger on My Dream Ring – Show Me Your Toi et Moi Designs!

DaisyL

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After two years of lurking and learning from this amazing community, I finally designed my perfect toi et moi ring with Jordan at Debebians – and I’m obsessed!

Specs:

  • Center Stones: 1.2ct elongated cushion cut Montana sapphire (teal) + 0.8ct old mine cut diamond (K color, SI1)
  • Setting: 18k yellow gold with milgrain detail
  • Inspiration: Victorian “mine and thine” symbolism
Why I’m Sharing:

  1. To thank you all – your posts taught me about light performance (never would’ve considered that teal sapphire’s windowing without this forum!)
  2. To ask: How do you style mixed-metal stacks with yellow gold? My wedding band is platinum and I’m struggling to make them cohesive.
  3. To see your toi et moi rings – especially if you’ve got colored stone combos!
PSA for newbies: The Pricescope diamond search tool saved me $1.8K compared to local jewelers’ quotes. Worth the membership alone!

Fun drama: My mom hates the asymmetry (“Why not just get a normal solitaire?”) so I need your gorgeous examples to convert her

Can’t wait to geek out about prong styles and stone ratios with you all!
 
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