woofwoof|1403814848|3701637 said:
Hey everyone, I've picked out a diamond which will be arriving very shortly. It's a 3.37 carat D-color Internally Flawless.
If anyone is ever in the position of looking for a fancy diamond in the future, I'd recommend that patience was definitely a virtue in getting what I thought was one of the better prices. I've had my eye on the entire inventory of available diamonds that fit my search criteria, across multiple different websites (Gemfind, Diamondse, Pricescope and more), and finally purchased only when I found a shape I was really happy about.
Once again, thanks for everybody's suggestions along the way.
OP here. I managed to find this thread and guess my old password! I was enjoying seeing the different forum opinions that led me to the final ring, the 3.37 D-IF heart diamond that I took to Victor Canera to set. Here's a picture - only seven years later! So here is a longer update!
Overall, it is one of the best purchases I have ever made. It brings me so much joy every day because it brings her so much joy. She LOOOOOVES it. She loves hearts and she loves this cute fatty heart. It is has been worth every penny. When asked about the ring, she talks about how I did all the research and legwork and surprised her, which makes it more special to her than if she had dragged me by the ears and told me what she demanded. And I couldn't have done it without this forum. I remember seeing a D-IF at Cartier for $300k at one point and this forum helped me understand that paying extra was unnecessary here. And of course I think Victor did a better job than anything else I've ever seen anyway.
In the years we have had the ring, it gets a fair amount of attention. Not - somebody stops you in the street attention - but more once someone notices the ring, it is funny because you notice they keep staring. We have friends, some who are sales associates who work in places where customers have significantly larger more extravagant rings, who tell us that it's one of the best pieces they have ever seen. It's much rarer to see a flawless colorless than it is to see a huge SI2 they have told us.
Another of our friends who I remember being adamantly anti-halo ultimately got a halo for their own ring.
When we go shopping in nicer boutiques, she will occasionally be asked more about the ring as well over a chorus of oohs and aahs. This happens in VCA, HW, Graff, Leviev, etc too so part of it is that salespeople are good at their jobs but when we get messaged months later because they want to pass to their boyfriend tips on what I did, I beam with pride.
We have had several interactions where somebody told her "Wow, just imagine if that were the real thing!". Or "oh honey, my boyfriend got me a big CZ starter ring too". We just chuckle because it doesn't feel wise to explain to a stranger that it's actually a real diamond.
Frankly I hardly remember a week going by without somebody somewhere commenting to her about the ring. How I must be a great catch lol (I could be a terrible person but because I can buy expensive nice things, who cares!). Others talk about how it's such a unique shape. Or how it is such a perfect heart because of the symmetry. We laugh about how one of her friends says if we ever separate that she needs to be sure to keep that rock. LOL. Overall it's been a source of great joy to me. And to her of course.
Anyway, thanks again to everyone who helped in 2014.
Next up - where should I go looking for a perfect Columbian emerald? I've seen a hundred different ones at this point, from all the top brand name jewelers, and I know it's unfair to compare to a diamond, but they are just generally have so many inclusions. Or they are some ugly shade of light green. Where else should I be looking? My budget is a healthy one lol. Thanks in advance!
OP here. I managed to find this thread and guess my old password! I was enjoying seeing the different forum opinions that led me to the final ring, the 3.37 D-IF heart diamond that I took to Victor Canera to set. Here's a picture - only seven years later! So here is a longer update!
Overall, it is one of the best purchases I have ever made. It brings me so much joy every day because it brings her so much joy. She LOOOOOVES it. She loves hearts and she loves this cute fatty heart. It is has been worth every penny. When asked about the ring, she talks about how I did all the research and legwork and surprised her, which makes it more special to her than if she had dragged me by the ears and told me what she demanded. And I couldn't have done it without this forum. I remember seeing a D-IF at Cartier for $300k at one point and this forum helped me understand that paying extra was unnecessary here. And of course I think Victor did a better job than anything else I've ever seen anyway.
In the years we have had the ring, it gets a fair amount of attention. Not - somebody stops you in the street attention - but more once someone notices the ring, it is funny because you notice they keep staring. We have friends, some who are sales associates who work in places where customers have significantly larger more extravagant rings, who tell us that it's one of the best pieces they have ever seen. It's much rarer to see a flawless colorless than it is to see a huge SI2 they have told us.
Another of our friends who I remember being adamantly anti-halo ultimately got a halo for their own ring.
When we go shopping in nicer boutiques, she will occasionally be asked more about the ring as well over a chorus of oohs and aahs. This happens in VCA, HW, Graff, Leviev, etc too so part of it is that salespeople are good at their jobs but when we get messaged months later because they want to pass to their boyfriend tips on what I did, I beam with pride.
We have had several interactions where somebody told her "Wow, just imagine if that were the real thing!". Or "oh honey, my boyfriend got me a big CZ starter ring too". We just chuckle because it doesn't feel wise to explain to a stranger that it's actually a real diamond.
Frankly I hardly remember a week going by without somebody somewhere commenting to her about the ring. How I must be a great catch lol (I could be a terrible person but because I can buy expensive nice things, who cares!). Others talk about how it's such a unique shape. Or how it is such a perfect heart because of the symmetry. We laugh about how one of her friends says if we ever separate that she needs to be sure to keep that rock. LOL. Overall it's been a source of great joy to me. And to her of course.
Anyway, thanks again to everyone who helped in 2014.
Next up - where should I go looking for a perfect Columbian emerald? I've seen a hundred different ones at this point, from all the top brand name jewelers, and I know it's unfair to compare to a diamond, but they are just generally have so many inclusions. Or they are some ugly shade of light green. Where else should I be looking? My budget is a healthy one lol. Thanks in advance!
OP here. I managed to find this thread and guess my old password! I was enjoying seeing the different forum opinions that led me to the final ring, the 3.37 D-IF heart diamond that I took to Victor Canera to set. Here's a picture - only seven years later! So here is a longer update!
Overall, it is one of the best purchases I have ever made. It brings me so much joy every day because it brings her so much joy. She LOOOOOVES it. She loves hearts and she loves this cute fatty heart. It is has been worth every penny. When asked about the ring, she talks about how I did all the research and legwork and surprised her, which makes it more special to her than if she had dragged me by the ears and told me what she demanded. And I couldn't have done it without this forum. I remember seeing a D-IF at Cartier for $300k at one point and this forum helped me understand that paying extra was unnecessary here. And of course I think Victor did a better job than anything else I've ever seen anyway.
In the years we have had the ring, it gets a fair amount of attention. Not - somebody stops you in the street attention - but more once someone notices the ring, it is funny because you notice they keep staring. We have friends, some who are sales associates who work in places where customers have significantly larger more extravagant rings, who tell us that it's one of the best pieces they have ever seen. It's much rarer to see a flawless colorless than it is to see a huge SI2 they have told us.
Another of our friends who I remember being adamantly anti-halo ultimately got a halo for their own ring.
When we go shopping in nicer boutiques, she will occasionally be asked more about the ring as well over a chorus of oohs and aahs. This happens in VCA, HW, Graff, Leviev, etc too so part of it is that salespeople are good at their jobs but when we get messaged months later because they want to pass to their boyfriend tips on what I did, I beam with pride.
We have had several interactions where somebody told her "Wow, just imagine if that were the real thing!". Or "oh honey, my boyfriend got me a big CZ starter ring too". We just chuckle because it doesn't feel wise to explain to a stranger that it's actually a real diamond.
Frankly I hardly remember a week going by without somebody somewhere commenting to her about the ring. How I must be a great catch lol (I could be a terrible person but because I can buy expensive nice things, who cares!). Others talk about how it's such a unique shape. Or how it is such a perfect heart because of the symmetry. We laugh about how one of her friends says if we ever separate that she needs to be sure to keep that rock. LOL. Overall it's been a source of great joy to me. And to her of course.
Anyway, thanks again to everyone who helped in 2014.
Next up - where should I go looking for a perfect Columbian emerald? I've seen a hundred different ones at this point, from all the top brand name jewelers, and I know it's unfair to compare to a diamond, but they are just generally have so many inclusions. Or they are some ugly shade of light green. Where else should I be looking? My budget is a healthy one lol. Thanks in advance!
Yes i was rooting for you to get the heart ! (Ok im biased because i love my heart shaped stone, even though it is much smaller lol).
Im glad you both still love it & get compliments!