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Allison D.|1300949860|2878746 said:PS is considerably different because the community's 'recommendations' are influenced by the impact on the customer, especially when it comes to the fifth C - cost. If everyone had unlimited funds, it would be great to sit here and extoll the virtues of Kobe beef, but when not all budgets will support Kobe beef, something's gotta give, right? Beyond that, there are some people who just don't GET the masses fawning over Kobe beef because they truly do prefer a nice cheeseburger.
Precisely. And some Kobe beef lovers can't understand cheeseburger POV. Thankfully, for those who enjoy both, we have Kobe beef burgers (available with foie gras topping here). And, to the point, maybe I can get ten people excited by that - but if they have never tasted kobe beef and foie gras in-person we must realize our descriptions can reach a certain level, but after that it's up to their taste buds.
Since there is no way to 'legislate' or standardize preferences that will universally apply to all, it's hard to consider PS a 'grading system'. There may be times when people do indeed say "good enough", but that's often based on sensitivity to the poster's OWN stated values and priorities, and it's really not the place of the community to tell him why he should prefer something else.
To me, PS is more of a virtual neighborhood where people can solicit opinions. It makes sense that if I were to poll the 8 neighbors on my street about who their preferred landscaping providers are, their recommendations would be influenced by their buying values (cost, time to complete the job, variety of plants, professionally dressed employees, etc.) and who they happened to use. If I ask for their opinions, I do recognize their responses may weight things that aren't important to me and I'd adjust the weight of those recommendations to me accordingly. I also realize their experiences are limited to those they've used and may not include other great providers.
In many cases here it's also influenced-by what is repeated here time and again. Take the "PS-attitudes" regarding fluorescence, perception of lab-standards, "H&A" and "Ideal" themes, recommended angle ranges, etc. While I don't think this is negative (since most widely-adopted positions are reasonably defensible) it does reflect a pattern of repetition until dissenting views are lost or even trampled. In the neighborhood sense, it would be like a new neighbor moving in, saying "hey I have a landscaper named Bob with lovely white lilacs" and having the "established" folks ignore Bob completely, recommend the neighborhood-approved landscapers and say there's no reason to go with white lilacs since off-white lilacs are cheaper and no one can tell the difference anyway (apologies to flower lovers if I butchered all that)... Hey, those neighbors may be giving sound advice but it does not foster growth, it just repeats a (limited) system that has proven safe and economical.
Likewise, there are several folks on PS who prefer better clarities, better colors, and better makes, but that may not be important in the values of the poster asking.
PS mission statement wasn't to cultivate cut-nuts, though that certainly was a predictable side effect of the learning curve. It's was to create a place where people could get meaningful data to inform their buying choices, not to tell that the only right buying choice is the one Skippy would choose (apologies to Skippy for being the example study this time). In fact, most times, PSers explain *why* they each prefer something, and that will help an inquirer determine if that's a valid reason for him, too.
Well-said and agreed, with the stipulations above.