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I can wait! I''m patient!Date: 4/26/2010 12:19:29 PM
Author: gwendolyn
Oh yeah! *facepalm* Totally forgot to get photos of my gorgeous shoes peeking out from under my dress, or a ring shot (although a friend got a pretty fab one, but my camera is being stupid and won''t upload things onto my computer at the mo'').
This is just one of the many benefits of having a second wedding, though!We''re having more photos taken of us then (me in my dress, J in his suit) because we didn''t really have time to do more than 5 minutes this time, since J''s mother called everyone in to sit for dinner only a couple of minutes after we went outside to take some photos.
So we''ll just have to do a shoe shot and a ring shot at the US wedding! You will have to be patient, though; that one''s not until May 30th.
And in all seriousness, thank you for your posts about the in-law situation. Because there was a bit of a gap between J and I in relation to his family (most notably his mother), I did not feel like it would have been a good idea to stand firm and tell her (more or less) to stuff it because it might have put a wedge between J and I. But now we are 100% on the same page (as much as it hurts us both), and I can live with myself with my choices, knowing I did absolutely everything in my power to keep the peace and remain respectful of his family. And from now on, it''s entirely our choice whether we interact with them or not, and on what terms, and how often. We will not be staying over at their house any longer as I would not feel comfortable under their roof, but we may one day yet go up for a visit, stay at a hotel and meet up with them for a meal or two. Who knows. For now, however, I am very content with lots of space.