piratecaptain
Rough_Rock
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BeeCushion|1359783512|3370296 said:I just had a thought to add.... I've been following your threads and understand that your gf does not want to sacrifice on color. However, have you considered the following scenario....
IIRC, you posted about an EGL diamond in another thread. I think it might have been F color? Can't remember the clarity. Well, knowing what you know about EGL vs GIA you will agree that an EGL F could very possibly be a GIA H, I, J... So I guess I just don't understand why your gf would not be willing to go lower in color. I would bet that if you two saw ideal cut stones side by side in the G-J range and didn't know which was which, you'd be hard pressed to pick the colors correctly. Now please don't be offended because maybe you are really color sensitive and could tell.... But I just REALLY think you should consider a lower color because then you'd be much more likely to find a lovely stone in the size she wants. It just makes no sense to me that an EGL F would be OK, but a GIA below H would not because it could essentially be the same stone! Honestly, I'd even say buy a gorgeous GIA I or J, send it to EGL for a cert and it will come back with an acceptable color grade![]()
Just my two cents.... Please don't take it the wrong way because I really just want to see you guys get something amazing and in budget and as close to the size she wants... Esp since you've been searching for soooooo long!
ETA: FWIW, the color of the asscher in my avatar is an L!!!!!![]()
The reason that we were considering the "F" EGL stone was that we sat it side by side with some lower colored GIA stones, and it was really in the G/H range of a GIA. It wasn't as low as an "I" (which we also sat it beside). I think it's just that the EGL stone is one that was not graded quite as loosely in color as many EGLs. I would be fine with that stone, but it's just not as clear as I would like. It's graded as an SI1 in clarity, but, frankly, it's probably more of an SI3/I1.
It's not about the letter grade per se. If I could find a "J" that really didn't have much color at all, I'd definitely consider it. It's just that we haven't found one like that. "J" stones generally give off too much color for her liking (she's very sensitive to color -- not so much to clarity, especially if it's something on the edges/bottom).
You have a very pretty stone in your picture, but she would send it back in a heartbeat because of the yellow color. (Even without knowing it was an "L," she would think it was as yellow as the little smiley faces on here, though it obviously isn't . . .)