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Shiny_Rock
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Hi, reintroducing myself
- Thread starter 16ocean
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I'm sure you're still at the edge of your seat waiting for your SO to propose. Hopefully it will be soon!! The holidays are a good time for engagements. ***continuing to send dust your way***
16ocean
Brilliant_Rock
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Thank you both MP and IBKK for the congrats and the continued **dust**
I too agree Christmas is a lovely time to be engaged . . . . .
We went to Vegas this past weekend for a concert it was a great time. His parents are having a 50th wedding anniversary on the east coast and tonight the BF was bringing up tickets . . . and beginning to talk abt the "time/days" to take off work.
I was like "yea, sounds great!" to what he was suggesting (flying in and out of Savanna and then a day or two in Savanna just the two of us) how can that not be totally fun "but we have to think abt our marriage too and a time and budget for that"
He said "well I have to propose first"
I said:
"yea"
"we have been dating for over two years and" -then I can't remember what I said- something along the lines of I am ok w/ waiting but the easiest way for me to wait is if I have a time line or a start and end point.
he said something abt not wanting a firm time line
I said something abt it will be a new year in 2016 so I will be reassessing and thinking abt my life . . .
he said something like: "do we have to discuss this now?"
I said "of course not but can we talk abt it within the week?"
he said yes or yea
we weren't arguing or yelling
I feel like crying after I read this typed up . . .bz so many of my relationships have ended . . .
He treats me so well . . . but I do want to build a life together. I don't know what in me is not satisfied in a committed monogamous relationship why when I search my heart do I want a marriage?
I too agree Christmas is a lovely time to be engaged . . . . .
We went to Vegas this past weekend for a concert it was a great time. His parents are having a 50th wedding anniversary on the east coast and tonight the BF was bringing up tickets . . . and beginning to talk abt the "time/days" to take off work.
I was like "yea, sounds great!" to what he was suggesting (flying in and out of Savanna and then a day or two in Savanna just the two of us) how can that not be totally fun "but we have to think abt our marriage too and a time and budget for that"
He said "well I have to propose first"
I said:
"yea"
"we have been dating for over two years and" -then I can't remember what I said- something along the lines of I am ok w/ waiting but the easiest way for me to wait is if I have a time line or a start and end point.
he said something abt not wanting a firm time line
I said something abt it will be a new year in 2016 so I will be reassessing and thinking abt my life . . .
he said something like: "do we have to discuss this now?"
I said "of course not but can we talk abt it within the week?"
he said yes or yea
we weren't arguing or yelling
I feel like crying after I read this typed up . . .bz so many of my relationships have ended . . .
He treats me so well . . . but I do want to build a life together. I don't know what in me is not satisfied in a committed monogamous relationship why when I search my heart do I want a marriage?
16ocean
Brilliant_Rock
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samanthaxo
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