Catmom your band is so cool!
For what it's worth "tradition" dictates you wear your ER on your right hand during the wedding. The groom puts a WB on a bare ring finger and after the ceremony you move the ER to your left hand. Personally I did this. I know people who've never removed their WB (plain I imagine), but take the ER off to clean, sleep, swim or whatever. I'm by no means suggesting this is THE way - just sayin'
Catmom your band is so cool!