TravelingGal
Super_Ideal_Rock
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- Dec 29, 2004
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I agree that it shouldn''t be taboo, but I understand for many it is a sensitive topic. My cousin asked me the other day how much my ring will cost, and I told her nicely that it wasn''t for me to say. She protested, and said "but we tell each other everything!" I told her that my bf was buying it, I was marrying him, and therefore wanted to respect his wishes not to go announcing what the ring had cost us.
So normally I AM sensitive about it, but I am happy to share here. I probably wouldn''t go into exact dollars, but would share a range. I must admit that a post that I found most helpful was one awhile back where someone was looking at a cushion and posted the specs and the exact price. It made me realize that we could possibly afford a one carat nice cushion, where we couldn''t afford an ideal RB or square H&A of that size/weight. I hadn''t even though of doing a search for cushions on diamond sites until I ran into that post, and ultimately a cushion is what we went with.
I guess I am willing to share here because in real life, I am far more apt to share how much it is with someone who is looking to buy a diamond and doing research over someone who just wants to know how much my diamond costs for the hell of it. So even here, i would answer the question depending on how it was phrased...which I guess is the point many are trying to make.
So normally I AM sensitive about it, but I am happy to share here. I probably wouldn''t go into exact dollars, but would share a range. I must admit that a post that I found most helpful was one awhile back where someone was looking at a cushion and posted the specs and the exact price. It made me realize that we could possibly afford a one carat nice cushion, where we couldn''t afford an ideal RB or square H&A of that size/weight. I hadn''t even though of doing a search for cushions on diamond sites until I ran into that post, and ultimately a cushion is what we went with.
I guess I am willing to share here because in real life, I am far more apt to share how much it is with someone who is looking to buy a diamond and doing research over someone who just wants to know how much my diamond costs for the hell of it. So even here, i would answer the question depending on how it was phrased...which I guess is the point many are trying to make.