ephemery1
Brilliant_Rock
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I agree with this too... I truly believe that marraige is a choice, not something pre-ordained or destined to be. You fall in love with someone who just feels right, then you make a mutual decision to commit yourselves to each other. But it is SO important to recognize that there are other people out there who will be attractive to you (emotionally, physically, or otherwise) over the years... and that''s what makes your vows so significant. You are not standing at the altar saying "I''m marrying you because you are the only one out there for me"... you''re saying "you are the one I have CHOSEN to honor and respect and love enough to forego all the others". I kinda think that''s even more beautiful...Date: 12/13/2006 1:38:07 PM
Author: dtnyc
I am w/ sumbride- I think that there is more than just one person out there for everyone.
