Italiahaircolor
Ideal_Rock
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- Dec 16, 2007
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Within the first month my husband and I started dating he casually mentioned that he was on Blue Nile looking for diamonds. It kind of threw me, to be honest, I always figured that for a guy the process was a slow burn, not a flash fire.
From that point on, we really discussed getting married...what our expectations were and what not. I had been engaged before, so I had a lot of things to go over with him.
As it turned out, we got engaged on our 3 month anniversary. Clearly, we weren't messing around. It was fast, like whiplash fast, but it was *right* for us. Now, we've been married for going on 4 years...we're happy, successful as a couple, and 100% on the same page.
I personally don't believe there is a right vs. wrong time to start the talk. As a matter of fact, I think the sooner the better. It's so important for a couple to be on the same page, especially as you get older, knowing where you're going and what you're looking for is pivotal.
From that point on, we really discussed getting married...what our expectations were and what not. I had been engaged before, so I had a lot of things to go over with him.
As it turned out, we got engaged on our 3 month anniversary. Clearly, we weren't messing around. It was fast, like whiplash fast, but it was *right* for us. Now, we've been married for going on 4 years...we're happy, successful as a couple, and 100% on the same page.
I personally don't believe there is a right vs. wrong time to start the talk. As a matter of fact, I think the sooner the better. It's so important for a couple to be on the same page, especially as you get older, knowing where you're going and what you're looking for is pivotal.
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