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Yesterday afternoon my hubby and our next-door neighbor, “Alex,” left to go on a 10-day motorcycle/camping trip. Our neighbor especially had been looking forward to it: Within the past four months or so he had lost both of his parents, had to clean out their condo, and negotiated with the reverse mortgage company to buy the condo his parents had been living in. Last night my husband called to let me know that Alex had been seriously injured when a truck coming from the opposite direction swerved into his lane an a rural road. Fortunately, a medic on his way home from work stopped to help them within a few minutes of the accident. An ambulance arrived a few minutes later and transported him to a nearby medical helicopter that transported him to a regional hospital. He has several broken bones, the most serious being his pelvis. He’s in ICU due to blood loss from those broken bones (who knew?). He’ll probably be in that hospital - a two hour drive from here - for three or four days, and his wife just found out she can’t visit him there due to Covid restrictions. She is absolutely beside herself.
I’m so grateful the accident wasn’t worse, as it could easily have been. And of course I’m grateful that my husband was there to help, and that he wasn’t hurt.
An update on our neighbor’s condition: his pelvis was shattered. What was expected to be a three-hour surgery to put it back together ended up taking six hours, but they think it was successful. He’ll be in a wheelchair for six weeks or more, and there will be lots of therapy and hard work involved, but he should make a full recovery.
When I wrote my original post, we were on our way to “the scene of the accident “to pick up Alex’s gear. The accident happened on a rural road with widely spaced houses, but fortunately it happened near one of those houses and the owners came rushing out to help as soon as they heard the impact - and then they invited my hubby to spend the night at their house, and they offered to keep Alex’s gear at their house until someone could pick it up.
So we went to pick up Alex’s gear from these kind folks and they invited us inside to chat for a while. As they re-counted their version of the night of the accident, we realized how very fortunate Alex was. I already heard from my hubby that a medic on his way home was at the scene within a minute after Alex was here. The neighbors told us that even though this is a dead end road, and a very small community, they did not recognize the medic and they have no idea who he was. He didn’t stick around to chat after the ambulance left. The second fortunate thing is that EMT for the local volunteer fire department lived lives within a mile of where the accident was, and it just so happened that he had taken the firetruck home with him at night instead of his car as is usual - so he was there with equipment almost right away too. And because the heliport for the local medivac had recently been moved to a fairground just a mile or two from the accident site, Alex was in the air within ten minutes of the accident - and at the regional trauma center within half an hour.
Alex and his wife had been scheduled to go to Hawaii next week for a long-overdue vacation. She’s been able to re-book everything for next spring - a great incentive for Alex to work hard on his recovery!
Wow! I've always found strawberry ice cream to be disappointing. But this looks amazing!
Thank you! I’m not in CT but close and do find myself there sometimes. As an Ice cream lover it can’t hurt to know where to go!@Lookinagain, I wasn’t going to because I thought it wouldn’t be relevant to most but…sure!
Hey , what happened to my " good for her teacher quit " thread? did you guys say something nasty?
He was fortunate despite the accident. Could have been so much worse. Glad the surgery went well and was successful Sending Alex best wishes for a complete recovery. I agree that trip to Hawaii is a big incentive for him to work hard on his PT for a full recovery.
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Well, we made it on our trip to South Dakota. My plan was a week and up to two weeks based on how Grandma was feeling but pack meds and essentials for three weeks in case of COVID delays. Well, Grandma heard three weeks of pills and got it stuck in her mind that we are here for three weeks. I have been extending our return date bit by bit based on how she is feeling. Not what I had in mind, but she is really enjoying herself and it is clear she probably won't be able to make it again so this really is her last time home and last time seeing many in her family. I am tired, sore, swollen in the humidity, and want a hot shower more than anyone can know but it is worth it. Such amazing memories being made. So many smiles from her. Now to just hope we don't end up in a mess by staying with no extra meds!
Just a thought but would it be possible for her to call her doctor and explain, then pick up a smaller amount of her meds at a local pharmacy to tide her over?
Me too