I have finally set my spinel and I'd like to thank pricescope for leading me to AJS where I got the spinel and Michael E. who made the setting (14K Stullers WG, which is beautiful, affordable, and perfect for allergy-prone people like me). Michael E. is wonderful to work with. I highly recommend him (he managed to make a delicate comfort-fit band, which is extremely comfortable, and the scroll truly keeps the ring from spinning).
Here are Michael E.'s glamour shots, which capt the neon colour quite well, I will post hand shots later this week (If I can manage to capt the colour. My camera makes it look purplish... It's a deep neon pink, if that makes sense, which lights up in sunlight because of the fluor).
This is my first fine gemstone project so thanks again everyone!