gwendolyn
Ideal_Rock
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Just wondering, because every now and then I come across comments that sound like relationships that are difficult are not healthy, or wrong, or ''you could do better'' sorts of situations. They usually make me wonder a bit about my relationship, because I don''t think it''s an especially easy relationship. Mostly this stems from the fact that he''s from another country than I am and there''s always some element of feeling pulled in two different directions. With more time to adjust to living in another country, this feeling may very well lessen, but it does sometimes make me wonder...
Then again, I *then* find myself reminding myself that if this wasn''t worth it, there''s nothing holding me here in England, since almost all of my friends and my family live in the US, where I''d make more money and have a less expensive cost of living than here in London...so then I just think I''m over-thinking things.
So, what do you all think? Do you think that there''s usually something wrong with a relationship that isn''t ''easy''? Feel free to comment on my situation or other examples if you have them!
Then again, I *then* find myself reminding myself that if this wasn''t worth it, there''s nothing holding me here in England, since almost all of my friends and my family live in the US, where I''d make more money and have a less expensive cost of living than here in London...so then I just think I''m over-thinking things.
So, what do you all think? Do you think that there''s usually something wrong with a relationship that isn''t ''easy''? Feel free to comment on my situation or other examples if you have them!