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MMtwo

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My sweet boy was just diagnosed with kidney failure and probably renal cancer.
The news is so sad I just need to lay the weight somewhere. I hope you don't mind if I write about him here.

Jazzy is ten and my little sweet-tempered, beautiful Balinese companion. He came into a house with severe pet allergies (hubby) but managed to be low enough in allergens that my husband was able to live close to a cat for the first time. Jazzy quickly stole his heart and he has said a hundred times how glad he was I pushed for a "hypoallergenic" cat. Jazzy (until a week or so ago) would wake me up on the sofa with quiet meows to go to bed. He both wanted me to go to bed, but was polite enough to wake me quietly. Occasionally, I would also get a "tap-tap" if I was sleeping soundly.

My furniture doesnt have a scratch, but he has shredded several wave scratchers. Such a good boy. He is such a smart cat.

In time, we had a whole sleep routine built, where I would be herded to bed by Jazzy, and get into bed. Hubby would lay down and I would "present the arm". Mainly, lay my arm down so himself could settle across it and self-snuggle. Only my arm please, he will wait for it expectantly. Daddy's was a second fiddle choice, but acceptable if I were out of town. He adjusts himself, tail high, like a king in his throne and purrs his happy place purr. It's so funny how a little cat built such a grand night routine of snuggles.

In the middle of the night, any bathroom trip if guarded by himself, his back to me facing outward in case of attack. He is a smart cat and seldom gets underfoot. He sits on a little cat tower beside my desk in my office. He has crashed a few meetings in his day. No one minded too much. He comes to get me about 5PM so I will come upstairs already. In the morning, he lays on my leg when I am on the computer and reaches for the keyboard. he is obviously trying to work the computer too.
Himself also loves to wear Daddy's slippers.

he is slowing down and we know the time will come soon. We found a vet who will come here to put him down when he is ready to go. Until them, we are giving him so much love. What a gift he has been. Pets always teach us more about love. Thanks for reading and hug your pet.

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Thankyou @missy, there are so many others here like yourself who love animals. I feel comforted knowing I am not alone right now.
 
Thankyou @missy, there are so many others here like yourself who love animals. I feel comforted knowing I am not alone right now.

There is not an appropriate emoji to express how I’m feeling for you right now. We all know the trauma of losing one’s beloved family member. There are truly no words. Does the pain lessen in time? Somewhat. But there are days for me it’s fresh and acute and overwhelming. My heart goes out to you dear @MMtwo I wish there was something I could say to make the pain less but know you gave him a life filled with love and comfort and all he could ever want. You made a difference and unconditional love is priceless. Hold him close to your heart always and cherish the time you have/had together. “Deep grief is the price we pay for great love”. It doesn’t make it easier but somehow it is comforting even if only in a small way. Sending you gentle hugs and love. I am so sorry
 
I'm so sorry @MMtwo. Jazzy is so beautiful.
 
What a beautiful boy, and you talk about him with such tenderness. He is evidently very loved. I'm so sorry.
 
I remember some years ago you had posted a few photos of your home, and Jazzy was in them. I commented on his beauty back then.
I'm so sorry to hear this.
I lost my soul kitty to kidney failure a few years ago, and so I understand your sadness.
He is pampered and loved in your home. That is the greatest gift you gave to him. And he loves you, too.
 
I'm so sorry @MMtwo. He feels your love and loves you right back. Hugs.
 
Jazzy is beautiful, and the love and companionship shine out in every word you write. My heart aches for you.
 
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I am so sorry @MMtwo . He sounds like such a lovely kitty and a real gentleman (not to mention a beauty). I know how excruciating
this can be. I've had to walk this path a couple of times with kidney failure. Sending gentle hugs to both you and your spouse.
 
Thank you, my friends. Bless you all who have had this happen (or any loss) and know the pain. I have always felt closer to pets than people, by some strange quirk of nature. Some of you I have chatted with for twelve years on PS, so you are also friends. The more time that goes by, the more I see and appreciate how beautiful you all are. And kind, and wise, and also sparkly <3.

Thank you for your kind thoughts.
 
We lost our Carly back in October and like Jazzy, she would lay across my husband’s arm.

I’m so sorry to hear the news about your kitty, it is so hard to lose a beloved pet. Sending you a big hug!
 
I'm so sorry @MMtwo. He is beautiful beyond words, in both body and spirit.
 
Oh, so sorry for you and the heartbreak. I have known it too and wish for brighter days ahead. He is gorgeous and clearly so loved. You gave him a superb life to enjoy; there is a lot to be said for that.
 
I'm so sorry.
 
Your love for Jazzy shines through in your words. He's so beautiful. I'm sorry, MMtwo.
 
I am so sorry to hear about your beautiful baby. Such a gorgeous kitty. I can clearly tell the love you have for each other. Having lost a long term kitty, I can understand the pain and sadness this brings. Take good care. I hope you can build more memories with your beautiful boy in the time you have left.
 
He is so handsome & my heart aches for you & what is to come. Big hugs to you all.
 
My sweet boy was just diagnosed with kidney failure and probably renal cancer.
The news is so sad I just need to lay the weight somewhere. I hope you don't mind if I write about him here.

Jazzy is ten and my little sweet-tempered, beautiful Balinese companion. He came into a house with severe pet allergies (hubby) but managed to be low enough in allergens that my husband was able to live close to a cat for the first time. Jazzy quickly stole his heart and he has said a hundred times how glad he was I pushed for a "hypoallergenic" cat. Jazzy (until a week or so ago) would wake me up on the sofa with quiet meows to go to bed. He both wanted me to go to bed, but was polite enough to wake me quietly. Occasionally, I would also get a "tap-tap" if I was sleeping soundly.

My furniture doesnt have a scratch, but he has shredded several wave scratchers. Such a good boy. He is such a smart cat.

In time, we had a whole sleep routine built, where I would be herded to bed by Jazzy, and get into bed. Hubby would lay down and I would "present the arm". Mainly, lay my arm down so himself could settle across it and self-snuggle. Only my arm please, he will wait for it expectantly. Daddy's was a second fiddle choice, but acceptable if I were out of town. He adjusts himself, tail high, like a king in his throne and purrs his happy place purr. It's so funny how a little cat built such a grand night routine of snuggles.

In the middle of the night, any bathroom trip if guarded by himself, his back to me facing outward in case of attack. He is a smart cat and seldom gets underfoot. He sits on a little cat tower beside my desk in my office. He has crashed a few meetings in his day. No one minded too much. He comes to get me about 5PM so I will come upstairs already. In the morning, he lays on my leg when I am on the computer and reaches for the keyboard. he is obviously trying to work the computer too.
Himself also loves to wear Daddy's slippers.

he is slowing down and we know the time will come soon. We found a vet who will come here to put him down when he is ready to go. Until them, we are giving him so much love. What a gift he has been. Pets always teach us more about love. Thanks for reading and hug your pet.

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Keyboarding with Mom.

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Gorgeous boy.
 
I‘m so sorry..He is so sweet..I know he will leave a huge hole in your heart. Big hugs..
 
So sorry about your beautiful boy!
 
Such a beautiful and refined boy, you tell him I said that- he'll appreciate it.
Jazzy is a sentinel and a sentinel he will always be. His job is more important to him than ever before, for he knows it's going to change soon.
Not end. Change.
I know that he will stay with you until the time you meet again and he will guide you where ever it is you need to be. Together.
 
HI:

Sweet name for a sweetheart. So glad you all found each other.

kind regards, Sharon
 
Im sorry you’ll be losing a companion that has such a special bond with you. Hugs to you for the coming days and weeks.
 
What a gorgeous cat! I’m so sorry!
 
I’m so sorry to hear of Jazzy’s diagnosis, you are a great mama (hugs)!
 
He is such a beautiful boy. Thank you sharing about him. I love reading about and getting to know the sweet furry family of everyone here. Sending you hugs .
 
@MMtwo im so sorry to read about dear Jazzy
its not fare at all
 
Having pets myself, and having lost a much-loved dog in 2021, I feel for you.

Hugs!

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