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I''m pregnant!
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Self love~ A huge congratulations!~!! From your posts, you sound like a very positive hapy person. Although we have not met, your tone is controlled and honest, loving and sincere and I think if you are to be this way with your child.. you are going to make a great mommy.
Always be honest with children, a child should never be lied to..
Tell them EVERY DAY that you love them and that they are amazing.. even when they are infants.. somehow they feel it, know it...
It is hard to see them learn the hard lessons... cry for them when you are alone.. they will pull their strength from you in adverse situations.
If they need to know it, tell them, just tell them,
Never forget that they are a miracle... a gift given to you to watch over, take your job seriously, you were entrusted with a life, work to live up to that trust.
Do not say anything to them that you would not have said to you
Teach them to love and respect the other kids, even when they are better, even when they are not as good at the things they try. there will always be someone better and there will always be someone worse.. it is how you handle a situation that makes us who we are..
LOve them, Love them Love them and Love them,
Cry in front of them, laugh in front of them and make up silly songs with them in the car.
Motherhood is not a competition.. some mothers will make it so, in that situation... think about who you are competing for? Your child or yourself.. it iwll more likely be yourself.. as a mother.. we cannot be selfish.
Remember they love you.. unconditionally, love them uncondtionally.
very rarely are we thanked for the work and the effort we make as mothers... But one day you will something and know that you may have done something right.
As moms we worry whether we are doing the right thing.. And for my advice... I will tell a story..
This weekend my daughter played in State Soccer games... Kids games are 100% scarey and the parents can sometimes be downright nasty and the pressure can be huge. We had two guest players with us. They were unexperienced and nervous.. but played hard. We were in a medal match. Tied... huge game... huge rivals. One of the new kids were put in the goal.. she is significantly smaller than all the others (Our normal gaolie was not there and were down by 6 players... we were playing with a very slim roster) L (the girl in the goal) was very nervous, and scared. The other team made a goal on her. She was devestated. My daughter came over to her and gave her a hug on the field, whispered something into her ear and hugged her again. We lost the game. No blame... I suppose you have to know that once gain.. kids sports can be harsh. but my daughter went against what is unfortunately the norm... She decided that L was more important than a game. When she came off the sidelines, her teammates follwed suit and everyone gave L a hig and told it was fine. Later I asked her what she said to L, My daughter replied, "Don''t worry about it, if someone says you missed the goal and someone scored on you, I will tell them that I was the one in the goal and that they were just seeing wrong. We can share the blame together and that will make it half as hard.. besides, we win together, we lose together, but at least we do it together." I just looked at my daughter and cried, I told her that she made me so proud. I thought my heart would burst.
So we do not always get thanked, but everything we do and say.. our children hear and take in and with it.. they can conquer the world..
It is a miracle.. a big hug and congrats again selflove!!
One more thing... that selflove.. it is probably one of the greatest things you can teach your child..
Always be honest with children, a child should never be lied to..
Tell them EVERY DAY that you love them and that they are amazing.. even when they are infants.. somehow they feel it, know it...
It is hard to see them learn the hard lessons... cry for them when you are alone.. they will pull their strength from you in adverse situations.
If they need to know it, tell them, just tell them,
Never forget that they are a miracle... a gift given to you to watch over, take your job seriously, you were entrusted with a life, work to live up to that trust.
Do not say anything to them that you would not have said to you
Teach them to love and respect the other kids, even when they are better, even when they are not as good at the things they try. there will always be someone better and there will always be someone worse.. it is how you handle a situation that makes us who we are..
LOve them, Love them Love them and Love them,
Cry in front of them, laugh in front of them and make up silly songs with them in the car.
Motherhood is not a competition.. some mothers will make it so, in that situation... think about who you are competing for? Your child or yourself.. it iwll more likely be yourself.. as a mother.. we cannot be selfish.
Remember they love you.. unconditionally, love them uncondtionally.
very rarely are we thanked for the work and the effort we make as mothers... But one day you will something and know that you may have done something right.
As moms we worry whether we are doing the right thing.. And for my advice... I will tell a story..
This weekend my daughter played in State Soccer games... Kids games are 100% scarey and the parents can sometimes be downright nasty and the pressure can be huge. We had two guest players with us. They were unexperienced and nervous.. but played hard. We were in a medal match. Tied... huge game... huge rivals. One of the new kids were put in the goal.. she is significantly smaller than all the others (Our normal gaolie was not there and were down by 6 players... we were playing with a very slim roster) L (the girl in the goal) was very nervous, and scared. The other team made a goal on her. She was devestated. My daughter came over to her and gave her a hug on the field, whispered something into her ear and hugged her again. We lost the game. No blame... I suppose you have to know that once gain.. kids sports can be harsh. but my daughter went against what is unfortunately the norm... She decided that L was more important than a game. When she came off the sidelines, her teammates follwed suit and everyone gave L a hig and told it was fine. Later I asked her what she said to L, My daughter replied, "Don''t worry about it, if someone says you missed the goal and someone scored on you, I will tell them that I was the one in the goal and that they were just seeing wrong. We can share the blame together and that will make it half as hard.. besides, we win together, we lose together, but at least we do it together." I just looked at my daughter and cried, I told her that she made me so proud. I thought my heart would burst.
So we do not always get thanked, but everything we do and say.. our children hear and take in and with it.. they can conquer the world..
It is a miracle.. a big hug and congrats again selflove!!
One more thing... that selflove.. it is probably one of the greatest things you can teach your child..
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OH you guys, I''m just all teary eyed, especially reading your advice and story MINE. I was out of town with no internet for days, came back to a crap load of work at my heinously stupid job, and finally I have a minute to check out PS. Thank you so much for all your kind words!!!!
Tybee & KristyDarling--I''m feeling great! No morning sickness really, a little soreness in my back and I"m a bit tired but I was also on the east coast so it could just be jet lag. Otherwise, I feel happy and glowy!!
MsFlutter & Miss Congeniality--Yes, this was exactly what T and I wanted!!
Tigerbear--I''ve told practically everyone by now (like family and close friends but no one at work except one of the doctors b/c I work for an OB/GYN unit). I know I''m not supposed to but I figure if anything bad happens, I''ll need my friends and family to lean on, right? (And you didn''t hijack, btw, I could talk about pregnancy now for hours with other preggo women!!)
QT, CG, MsF--Plan a GTG and I''ll be there!
MINE--I am going to save your words. Thank you for them...I can''t wait for motherhood! I already feel so much of what you described as love for your children and I really can''t wait to be a parent.
Tybee & KristyDarling--I''m feeling great! No morning sickness really, a little soreness in my back and I"m a bit tired but I was also on the east coast so it could just be jet lag. Otherwise, I feel happy and glowy!!
MsFlutter & Miss Congeniality--Yes, this was exactly what T and I wanted!!
Tigerbear--I''ve told practically everyone by now (like family and close friends but no one at work except one of the doctors b/c I work for an OB/GYN unit). I know I''m not supposed to but I figure if anything bad happens, I''ll need my friends and family to lean on, right? (And you didn''t hijack, btw, I could talk about pregnancy now for hours with other preggo women!!)
QT, CG, MsF--Plan a GTG and I''ll be there!
MINE--I am going to save your words. Thank you for them...I can''t wait for motherhood! I already feel so much of what you described as love for your children and I really can''t wait to be a parent.
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Selflove, I am so thrilled for you!
I wish you the most rewarding of experiences with this new little one! Being pregnant is an experience that everyone can tell you about, but you must experience it to truly understand and appreciate it.
As a lady who has had the priviledge to have a large family, I can tell you that each time was amazing, different, and a miracle indeed. I feel truly humbled to be my children''s mom. It is a lot of work to bring a child into the world, but no other achievement in this life compares with it.
I personally welcome you to this amazing journey that you have just embarked upon!
I wish you the most rewarding of experiences with this new little one! Being pregnant is an experience that everyone can tell you about, but you must experience it to truly understand and appreciate it.
As a lady who has had the priviledge to have a large family, I can tell you that each time was amazing, different, and a miracle indeed. I feel truly humbled to be my children''s mom. It is a lot of work to bring a child into the world, but no other achievement in this life compares with it.
I personally welcome you to this amazing journey that you have just embarked upon!
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HAHAHA...I remembered this post and after just getting our news thought I''d post...we''re pregnant too!!! And you thought you moved quick!! Best we can figure date of conception was 7/6, 5 days after the wedding...a honeymoon baby!! We''ve known for a few days now and it''s finally starting to sink in...complete surprise but we''re thrilled!!!!!!!
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