Cehrabehra
Super_Ideal_Rock
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Okay first of all I am a total scatterbrain and a complete procrastinator... saving grace is that I'm a recovering perfectionist! LOL
I can't believe how stress free I am going into this party. I have to run a couple errands in the AM and cook and straighten and that's about it. I love spending time in a clean kitchen cooking for a party in a house that just needs to be wiped down. Well I won't mention the laundry that needs to be put away that I should be folding right now ::whistles innocently:: The relatives arrive tomorrow and between 50-75 people will be decending upon my house on Saturday. Oh my! LOL I have an old farmhouse - it's the best house in the world with a literal heart of gold (chesapeake sunset to be exact hehe) but it is old and it is funky... The last two years we had our annual bash at the park and after a year of living here we're ready to open the doors, at least the downstairs which is *mostly* renovated/decorated - hey - just gives people a chance to see the updated look next year!!) but this house is not by modern specs whatsoever which makes it for an unusal party to say the least. Thankfully we have two buildings and a 60 foot apple tree and enough yard for a slip-n-slide, 8' pool and one of those bouncy house things LOL (that was husband's idea lol) I have a but-ton of cooking to do (think 10 pounds of potatoes will be enough if 30-40 of the people will be kids?) Husband is actually buying a second fridge for our outbuilding... too cool LOL ahhh the little luxuries...
I can't believe I'm not a basket case. 15 years of marriage and I'm finally figuring this party thing out LOL It's been a crazy week though... besides this new diamond obsession, we've also been selecting a new renter for our old house. She's perfect, unbelievable. I can't believe our luck... our last guys were GREAT but this woman has a freaking pedigree just about, at least as far as finding a renter is concerned.
So... all of this is great and all, but what I'm *proud* about... yeah I'm getting there... lol... is that I handed husband a honey-do list and am not micromanaging him! I think that's why I feel so stress free. Yeah I know, in a way it's like a duhhhhhhh but all these years and I never figured out how to both make the list AND let it go LOL I always did one or the other or tried to do it all myself... no wonder this is so stress free. Yay me!! lol
ADD: my husband's management style is very non-mircomanagerial and I think it's rubbing off on me - should I tell him? LOL!!!
I can't believe how stress free I am going into this party. I have to run a couple errands in the AM and cook and straighten and that's about it. I love spending time in a clean kitchen cooking for a party in a house that just needs to be wiped down. Well I won't mention the laundry that needs to be put away that I should be folding right now ::whistles innocently:: The relatives arrive tomorrow and between 50-75 people will be decending upon my house on Saturday. Oh my! LOL I have an old farmhouse - it's the best house in the world with a literal heart of gold (chesapeake sunset to be exact hehe) but it is old and it is funky... The last two years we had our annual bash at the park and after a year of living here we're ready to open the doors, at least the downstairs which is *mostly* renovated/decorated - hey - just gives people a chance to see the updated look next year!!) but this house is not by modern specs whatsoever which makes it for an unusal party to say the least. Thankfully we have two buildings and a 60 foot apple tree and enough yard for a slip-n-slide, 8' pool and one of those bouncy house things LOL (that was husband's idea lol) I have a but-ton of cooking to do (think 10 pounds of potatoes will be enough if 30-40 of the people will be kids?) Husband is actually buying a second fridge for our outbuilding... too cool LOL ahhh the little luxuries...
I can't believe I'm not a basket case. 15 years of marriage and I'm finally figuring this party thing out LOL It's been a crazy week though... besides this new diamond obsession, we've also been selecting a new renter for our old house. She's perfect, unbelievable. I can't believe our luck... our last guys were GREAT but this woman has a freaking pedigree just about, at least as far as finding a renter is concerned.
So... all of this is great and all, but what I'm *proud* about... yeah I'm getting there... lol... is that I handed husband a honey-do list and am not micromanaging him! I think that's why I feel so stress free. Yeah I know, in a way it's like a duhhhhhhh but all these years and I never figured out how to both make the list AND let it go LOL I always did one or the other or tried to do it all myself... no wonder this is so stress free. Yay me!! lol
ADD: my husband's management style is very non-mircomanagerial and I think it's rubbing off on me - should I tell him? LOL!!!