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This is hard for sure ... but not as hard as the alternative. Trust. The "anger" stage will be sooooo helpful. Hope you get THERE asap!

Wishing you all the best ....
 
I remember reading your last post and I really do think you made the right decision. It''s very hard now, but it will get easier. Lots and lots of *hugs*
 
From what you''ve posted on here about the situation, I think you did the right thing. This is in your best interest, and it doesn''t seem like you ever could trust him again. Stay strong!
 
Sending you a big hug. I read somewhere that break-ups are just a crazy U-turn on the road to love. I like that.

Every time you think you're having a moment of weakness, come back to this thread and read all the encouraging words these wise ladies are telling you. I wish I'd had a website like this when I was going through my toughest break-up. Oh, and Greg Behrendt books help too.
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Keeping you in my thoughts. You are doing the right thing.
 
Oh Kribbie (hope I spelled your name right) I''m sorry to hear that you are hurting
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I also think you did the right thing, and even though I don''t know you, if you need to talk or anything I would be happy to listen.
 
Oh I am so sorry,

I know how much this hurts. I know this is hard, but try to realize this is an important step that needs to happen so that your heart can heal.

Once you allow yourself to heal, you will be ready to find someone who can truly give you what you want and need.
 
i''m so sorry kribbie
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*HUGS*

ditto to all the members who said to take care of yourself. i know it might be hard to realize it now, but you did the right thing and things will get better. sending lots of love your way!
 
Hugs and hugs and hugs Kribbe! Please keep us us posted on how you''re doing!
 
Kribbie, time heals all wounds. You''re hurting now but things will get better, I promise. One day soon, you''ll realize how much happier you are without him. In the meantime, sending you lots of (((HUGS)))
 
I prefer the saying "Time wounds all Heels"
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Now he can be someone else''s headache
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I''m so sorry. *****hugs*****
 
I''m so sorry!!! You''ll be in all our thoughts I''m sure...
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Thank you so much for all the support. It''s so hard, but I know I have made the right choice in the long run.
The words of wisdom and advice I have received on here really helped me in ways I cannot describe.
 
How are you doing? Is it getting better yet? Break ups are so painful.....
 
His best friend, who has been like a brother to him, phoned me to tell me that I''m doing the right thing, and that I will never know the full extent of what was going on behind my back. He didn''t elaborate and I didn''t ask, it hurts more in a way but now I also have no regrets.
One day at a time.
 
oh kribbie, just goes to show how right you were to break up.

we are so proud of you

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Date: 12/15/2009 5:08:46 AM
Author: kribbie
His best friend, who has been like a brother to him, phoned me to tell me that I''m doing the right thing, and that I will never know the full extent of what was going on behind my back. He didn''t elaborate and I didn''t ask, it hurts more in a way but now I also have no regrets.
One day at a time.
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That has to be a terrible thing to hear.

I''m glad you''re making the right decision for you.

Things will absolutely get better, and you''ll find someone who treats you exactly how you deserve to be treated!
 
When things like this happen, I always try to think of them as blessings in disguise. It hurts a lot right now, and the holidays will be hard, but you are saving yourself from a lot of heartache later and making room for someone wonderful to come into your life.
 
Date: 12/15/2009 5:08:46 AM
Author: kribbie
His best friend, who has been like a brother to him, phoned me to tell me that I''m doing the right thing, and that I will never know the full extent of what was going on behind my back. He didn''t elaborate and I didn''t ask, it hurts more in a way but now I also have no regrets.
One day at a time.
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((Hugs)) kribbie. That must have been difficult to hear, but it''s also reassuring to know you made the right decision.
 
Date: 12/15/2009 5:08:46 AM
Author: kribbie
His best friend, who has been like a brother to him, phoned me to tell me that I''m doing the right thing, and that I will never know the full extent of what was going on behind my back. He didn''t elaborate and I didn''t ask, it hurts more in a way but now I also have no regrets.
One day at a time.
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I''m so sorry that he ended up being that kind of guy. It hurts more but I agree that it leaves no room for regrets.

We''re pulling for you kribbie. Big BIG ((((HUGS))))
 
Your ex sounds like a jerk. It sounds like you made the right choice.
 

Kribbie- sending hugs out to you . . . . .I hope you go doing a little bit better each day . . .


HUGS!
 
(((((BIG HUG!!!!!))))))


Honey, if his BEST FRIEND is calling you and telling you that, you should have confirmation that you made the right decision.
 
Date: 12/15/2009 5:08:46 AM
Author: kribbie
His best friend, who has been like a brother to him, phoned me to tell me that I''m doing the right thing, and that I will never know the full extent of what was going on behind my back. He didn''t elaborate and I didn''t ask, it hurts more in a way but now I also have no regrets.

One day at a time.
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I''m sorry, but who the heck does that?????? How mean.

*big hugs*
 
Kribbie,

It sounds as though it''s a really good thing that you''re moving on so that you can find a man who will treat you as your deserve, because your ex wasn''t it. Lots of ((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))).
 
I'm sooo sorry for what you are going through! But, I can assure you that his best friend calling and telling you that you made the right decision... you did make the right decision.

I was also in an abusive relationship where all the guy used me for money. I had really good credit and he didnt so he bought things and opened new lines of credit in my name the whole time. I was brainwashed because he kept telling me that all the things he was buying was for the well being of our future. yea right....

I finally got the guts to break it off and i felt so beaten up and hurt... his best friend sent me an email telling me that he had been sitting back and watching what was happening and hated it. He knew that other things were going beind my back but he couldn't tell me because it is still his best friend. but now that i ended it, he could reassure me that i made the right decision. And it felt good.

I'm still recovering from his abuse to my finances...but im soooo glad SO VERY GLAD i got out when I did.

Cheer up sweetie, this is the beginning of something much greater! you TOTALLY deserve a man, a man that treats you with respect and honesty. Not a boy that toys with your emotions and abuses your love.

The people at PS are always here for you!

ETA: what was happening behind my back was that he was married. MARRIED! and just had a baby girl!!i was so stupid... and naive... I was so hurt but now i know that ending things was the best decision I ever made.
 
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