LGK|1311442920|2975304 said:I realize I have one last thing to say and I hope Matt & Amanda are still checking this thread.
Amanda, your pic of your rings show a LOT of wear on the prongs. Your wedding band is already doing very noticeable damage to the prongs holding your diamond. I know that nowadays everyone likes to have a wedding set, have a matching band to wear with the e-ring, but any wedding band with exposed edges of diamonds is a serious durability risk to the other ring, long term. If your e-ring is already showing the prongs being chewed by the wedder, you really need to get a spacer or something- it won't take a heck of a lot more time before you'll be pulling your hair out over the damage to the prongs IMO.
A spacer is a really thin plain band that fits between the two, keeping the edges of the diamonds away from each other. You can find ones that are ~1mm on Etsy for not too much, for example this one: http://www.etsy.com/listing/55561563/one-single-14k-solid-yellow-gold-beaded I know there are vendors that have plain ones too for about that, but I don't have any links saved unfortunately.
Alternatively you can wear the rings the way it was done for decades at the beginning of the 20th century: the e-ring on your right, and your wedding band on the left. Or get a plain band for the left, put the e-ring with it, and move the diamond wedding band to your right.
Sorry, I know that everyone sells "sets" like this and people assume it's just fine to wear them together, but... unfortunately, the reality is, sometimes it isn't quite the case.
Not to give you another headache, but I really didn't want to just let it pass unremarked. Sorry!
TheDoctor|1311462952|2975495 said:Rhodium plating is so depended upon by many North American jewellers that you are accepting a rhodium finish with any white gold product. This is problematic, as most do not disclose this "treatment" in advance.
There are new formulas for white gold that are truly white, and available to all of these jewellers...but their default is rhodium. It's one of those "old dog, new trick" scenarios.
Imagine if the paint came off your car in 6 months.
...and the manufacturer told you that its normal, just bring it in and we'll paint it again...and you had to do without it for 2 weeks and pay a fee.
Cookie|1311262106|2973770 said:Then I got my wedding ring set in un-plated white gold. No need for plating, ever. Problem solved.
TheDoctor|1311464206|2975502 said:Cookie|1311262106|2973770 said:Then I got my wedding ring set in un-plated white gold. No need for plating, ever. Problem solved.
This is the crux of the argument. You can have white gold without the rhodium, in the correct alloy formulation. The problem is that the maunufacturers tend to go with what they know...alloys that are soft enough to not crush stones when the benchie is applying moderate force to a setting.
Jewellery manufacturing s a knowledge-based profession, but the bottom-line mentality exhibited when mounts are chosen has eroded the process of production. The less expensive the setting, the more likely you are to experience negativity.
TheDoctor|1311464680|2975505 said:Dude, i may wind up in trouble over this, but I'm used to trouble in online forums.
For the record....I buy my pre-mixed alloy from a company called Argen, located in San Diego.
I used to buy it from a Canadian refiner but...they changed their formula and eventually their owner and the rest is history.
The 19 karat is over 80% pure yellow gold with a mixture of other elements that bleach it white...platinum-white.
Any American manufacturer can buy this stuff, but they offer only their regular beige or yellowish mix with rhodium because that is how they have always done things.
I really don't get it
Our job is to look after our clients but many of us just want to sell the diamonds and get them onto the customer's hand....and enjoy the money.
Sorry, I must confess that your reply is confusing to me. More expensive is seldom better, but bottom-line is always a problem.kenny|1311464262|2975503 said:TheDoctor|1311464206|2975502 said:Cookie|1311262106|2973770 said:Then I got my wedding ring set in un-plated white gold. No need for plating, ever. Problem solved.
This is the crux of the argument. You can have white gold without the rhodium, in the correct alloy formulation. The problem is that the maunufacturers tend to go with what they know...alloys that are soft enough to not crush stones when the benchie is applying moderate force to a setting.
Jewellery manufacturing s a knowledge-based profession, but the bottom-line mentality exhibited when mounts are chosen has eroded the process of production. The less expensive the setting, the more likely you are to experience negativity.
So more expensive is always better?
The extra money never goes to higher rent, insurance, higher operating expenses, poor management, more expensive but not necessarily better employees, higher profit?
You don't always get what you pay for; sometimes you get less.
How's a customer to know?
TheDoctor|1311464680|2975505 said:Dude, i may wind up in trouble over this, but I'm used to trouble in online forums.
For the record....I buy my pre-mixed alloy from a company called Argen, located in San Diego.
I used to buy it from a Canadian refiner but...they changed their formula and eventually their owner and the rest is history.
The 19 karat is over 80% pure yellow gold with a mixture of other elements that bleach it white...platinum-white.
Any American manufacturer can buy this stuff, but they offer only their regular beige or yellowish mix with rhodium because that is how they have always done things. I really don't get it. Our job is to look after our clients but many of us just want to sell the diamonds and get them onto the customer's hand....and enjoy the money.
TheDoctor|1311465735|2975515 said:Sorry, I must confess that your reply is confusing to me. More expensive is seldom better, but bottom-line is always a problem.kenny|1311464262|2975503 said:TheDoctor|1311464206|2975502 said:Cookie|1311262106|2973770 said:Then I got my wedding ring set in un-plated white gold. No need for plating, ever. Problem solved.
This is the crux of the argument. You can have white gold without the rhodium, in the correct alloy formulation. The problem is that the maunufacturers tend to go with what they know...alloys that are soft enough to not crush stones when the benchie is applying moderate force to a setting.
Jewellery manufacturing s a knowledge-based profession, but the bottom-line mentality exhibited when mounts are chosen has eroded the process of production. The less expensive the setting, the more likely you are to experience negativity.
So more expensive is always better?
The extra money never goes to higher rent, insurance, higher operating expenses, poor management, more expensive but not necessarily better employees, higher profit?
You don't always get what you pay for; sometimes you get less.
How's a customer to know?
I have met every kind of jeweller, from wannabees to nearly dead from overwork, and I'll say this...for many, the money is first, the quality is often second or third.
The best ones will always have a beaten path to their door, and not just with new clients crushing the lawn. When people return, time and time again, not with repairs and replating issues but wanting something else...that is a credible business. I worked for some of those kind of people, and some of them didn't give a damn about money.
The money found them every time, though. it's a near miracle.
That is basic Keynesian economics...you vote with your dollars for the types of businesses you like.
Sounds like a mere criticism of humanity in general, of jewelers more specifically.kenny|1311466545|2975523 said:Let me simplify.
It sounds like you are saying you care about quality while your competitors only care about money.
Vendors bad-mouthing competitors is against PS rules.
smc7277|1311455407|2975439 said:with out re reading the entire thread, how often do you need to have it done? Yearly? thanks
FrekeChild|1311467045|2975524 said:I want to commend Jim Schultz for his behavior on this thread. Bravo sir!
TristanC|1311469585|2975535 said:@TheDoctor: to be brutally frank, I think Kenny's posts sound fractious, but I'm very sure you know why. There are a large number of suppositions in the posts. Whilst the most contentious generalizations were mostly Quoted from your website and not stated by you, they have been voiced in a thread specifically talking about metal comparisons.
I would also ask you to post the same few basic facts either here or on a new thread about the alloys your site offers and a comparison to widely available white gold alloys. Please realize that I read hyperbole on PS daily - heck, I'm the origin of a lot of it myself. But I have nothing to gain financially from what I say, and I never intend to mislead anyone. I hope your posts (and what was quoted though not by you) from your website were not hasty over generalizations with no factual basis. If this superior white metal alloy DOES exist at a price point good for all PSers, I would be proud that we discovered it here.
Stone-cold11|1311466421|2975521 said:TheDoctor|1311464680|2975505 said:Dude, i may wind up in trouble over this, but I'm used to trouble in online forums.
For the record....I buy my pre-mixed alloy from a company called Argen, located in San Diego.
I used to buy it from a Canadian refiner but...they changed their formula and eventually their owner and the rest is history.
The 19 karat is over 80% pure yellow gold with a mixture of other elements that bleach it white...platinum-white.
Any American manufacturer can buy this stuff, but they offer only their regular beige or yellowish mix with rhodium because that is how they have always done things. I really don't get it. Our job is to look after our clients but many of us just want to sell the diamonds and get them onto the customer's hand....and enjoy the money.
Can you specify the alloy type, name of the WG you bought from Argen?
Edt:
You mean the 19kt white?
Do you have a comparison shot between that and a platinum?
TheDoctor|1311524000|2975747 said:Stone-cold11|1311466421|2975521 said:TheDoctor|1311464680|2975505 said:Dude, i may wind up in trouble over this, but I'm used to trouble in online forums.
For the record....I buy my pre-mixed alloy from a company called Argen, located in San Diego.
I used to buy it from a Canadian refiner but...they changed their formula and eventually their owner and the rest is history.
The 19 karat is over 80% pure yellow gold with a mixture of other elements that bleach it white...platinum-white.
Any American manufacturer can buy this stuff, but they offer only their regular beige or yellowish mix with rhodium because that is how they have always done things. I really don't get it. Our job is to look after our clients but many of us just want to sell the diamonds and get them onto the customer's hand....and enjoy the money.
Can you specify the alloy type, name of the WG you bought from Argen?
Edt:
You mean the 19kt white?
Do you have a comparison shot between that and a platinum?
Can't do photos or the whole thread will self destruct.
The specific alloy is called 19 karat vanilla white (via the producer). I am not their agent nor will my endorsement result in compensation.
TheDoctor|1311524000|2975747 said:Stone-cold11|1311466421|2975521 said:TheDoctor|1311464680|2975505 said:Dude, i may wind up in trouble over this, but I'm used to trouble in online forums.
For the record....I buy my pre-mixed alloy from a company called Argen, located in San Diego.
I used to buy it from a Canadian refiner but...they changed their formula and eventually their owner and the rest is history.
The 19 karat is over 80% pure yellow gold with a mixture of other elements that bleach it white...platinum-white.
Any American manufacturer can buy this stuff, but they offer only their regular beige or yellowish mix with rhodium because that is how they have always done things. I really don't get it. Our job is to look after our clients but many of us just want to sell the diamonds and get them onto the customer's hand....and enjoy the money.
Can you specify the alloy type, name of the WG you bought from Argen?
Edt:
You mean the 19kt white?
Do you have a comparison shot between that and a platinum?
Can't do photos or the whole thread will self destruct.
The specific alloy is called 19 karat vanilla white (via the producer). I am not their agent nor will my endorsement result in compensation.
Owies Nana|1311563350|2976113 said:New to this thread: very interesting discussion!
Just curious: why can't the diamond melee be reused?