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Ditto Dee. I also believe Blast's post was taken out of context - its all fine guys.Date: 3/4/2009 2:23:11 AM
Author: Deelight
evaldez I just have to say when writing so many things get lost in translation, I know some of my posts have been misconstrued in the past and I have felt terrible about it apologised to the person who took it the wrong way and each have gone our merry way realising it was a misunderstanding. Blast didn't mean to offend anyone when they made their post and apologised – coming on afterwards and calling them rude wasn’t really the nicest IMHO.
We all have differing opinions on this forum but that is one of the things that makes it a wonderful place.![]()
Most welcome dear!Date: 3/4/2009 3:54:41 AM
Author: blastdoor
i was apologizing for my choice of words offending Sharon, and anyone else who might be offended as well, either in this thread or any other, but I am hoping to maintain my opinion...
but having said that.. my opinion is actually more inclined towards.. ''take it easy, don''t be angry, don''t be mad, things might not be too bad... and i''m sure wf will give you a good answer no matter what..'' and i said that last part based on my own good experiences with wf... but i definitely do not intend to scold anyone...
especially not you Evaldez.. i have been following your other threads on this matter from earlier, and believe me, having just gone through the process of the marriage proposal myself, i have nothing but excitement and well wishes for you... and in this case, it includes ''take it easy... don''t be mad...'', and when i said hope everything goes well, i truly meant it that way...
unfortunately somehow it backfired on me, and i got trashed... but that''s cool, i thought i was trying to be light-hearted with a little humor, but i guess i wasn''t any good at it, and people mis-read it as sarcasm (i''m guessing) and condescendency, so perhaps the trashing i got i deserve..
hmmm... and i might have been a little too stubborn for my own good...
anyway, this is your thread Evaldez, and this is a very happy time for you, and if i can''t add any value to it then the least i can do is to not be a nuisance any further... so once more, my apology, this time to you Evaldez.. and all the best too...
and to Deelight and Karl, thank you...
ETA: and thank you to you too Lorelei.. sorry did not see your post when i was typing originally...
Ditto OMC..Date: 3/4/2009 6:11:29 AM
Author: oldmancoyote
FWIW - Blastdoor: your post did not come down as condescending or sarcastic to me. It was matter of fact and a fair point of view on the issue. Having said that, it clearly rubbed some people the wrong way.
EValdez: I''m sure the issue will get resolved to your satisfaction. Best of luck for your engagement + life together!
Date: 3/4/2009 3:54:41 AM
Author: blastdoor
i was apologizing for my choice of words offending Sharon, and anyone else who might be offended as well, either in this thread or any other, but I am hoping to maintain my opinion...
but having said that.. my opinion is actually more inclined towards.. ''take it easy, don''t be angry, don''t be mad, things might not be too bad... and i''m sure wf will give you a good answer no matter what..'' and i said that last part based on my own good experiences with wf... but i definitely do not intend to scold anyone...
especially not you Evaldez.. i have been following your other threads on this matter from earlier, and believe me, having just gone through the process of the marriage proposal myself, i have nothing but excitement and well wishes for you... and in this case, it includes ''take it easy... don''t be mad...'', and when i said hope everything goes well, i truly meant it that way...
unfortunately somehow it backfired on me, and i got trashed... but that''s cool, i thought i was trying to be light-hearted with a little humor, but i guess i wasn''t any good at it, and people mis-read it as sarcasm (i''m guessing) and condescendency, so perhaps the trashing i got i deserve..
hmmm... and i might have been a little too stubborn for my own good...
anyway, this is your thread Evaldez, and this is a very happy time for you, and if i can''t add any value to it then the least i can do is to not be a nuisance any further... so once more, my apology, this time to you Evaldez.. and all the best too...
and to Deelight and Karl, thank you...
ETA: and thank you to you too Lorelei.. sorry did not see your post when i was typing originally...