Or maybe they just ignored him? I personally tend to skip over most trade posts because I feel they can't be objective, especially about something that is a direct competition to their livelihood. Trade or not, most people in the jewelry business are not gemologists. They're business people and their goal is getting sales. I only responded to his above comment because he responded directly to me.
You guys are so funny. My stash has become overwhelming and it's obvious I never wear 99.999% of it. I often think about what happens if something happens to me unexpectedly. While we have a living trust and I keep a detailed spreadsheet, someone still has to deal with the actual jewelry and selling. What if they mix up the items? There's no way I can trust someone else to do it, I'd probably crawl out of the urn if they f*k up.![]()
Ok major tangent but... would they have to sell? Or could they just be given to family members? And close friends? Shrug.
but I feel you. Omg if anyone had to sell my collection they would have NO IDEA. Maybe I’ll put a note in my jewellery box that says: ask PS for help or you’ll be screwed over, trust me lol.
I have a note: "please let Jocelyn take care of everything, i don't trust any of you"
My siblings aren't having kids, I have one son. My siblings already picked out what they wanted and they don't want much. My son's getting a few things and I'm selling the rest. My friends with kids have been receiving jewelry since the kids were born, and they will eventually inherit more when they get older. But last I counted I had a several hundred items sitting in bank safes. I've been hoarding for 20 years and it's out of control at this point. It's just so time consuming to post things for sale and I'm SO lazy.
I have a note: "please let Jocelyn take care of everything, i don't trust any of you"
My siblings aren't having kids, I have one son. My siblings already picked out what they wanted and they don't want much. My son's getting a few things and I'm selling the rest. My friends with kids have been receiving jewelry since the kids were born, and they will eventually inherit more when they get older. But last I counted I had a several hundred items sitting in bank safes. (lots of loose and small but quality gems, and smaller diamond and gem jewelry) I've been hoarding for 20 years and it's out of control at this point. It's just so time consuming to post things for sale and I'm SO lazy.
So...if someone likes mined and considers labs “fake”, who cares, and why feel a need to convert them? They are not naturally occurring, point blank. And for someone, that’s enough to consider them “fake” even if the diamonds are chemically the same. Having a tit for tat over fakeness or authenticity doesn’t change anything. It also doesn’t detract from how you experience your own treasures. If you think labs are a “smarter” purchase or that if you like mined only you’re a “snob”...no need to preach and try to convert.
To Further digress. Do you foresee that lgd will devalue all your loose mined diamonds? This thread is about speculation, after all. And since you did say (I’m quoting the old fashioned way) “I often think about what happens if something happens to me unexpectedly. While we have a living trust and I keep a detailed spreadsheet, someone still has to deal with the actual jewelry and selling. What if they mix up the items? There's no way I can trust someone else to do it, I'd probably crawl out of the urn if they f*k up.”
I infer that recouping some of your money is of importance to you.
I’m pretty sure you are referring to me at some point as you further derail this thread.. I had no idea that my participation in this forum was being heavily scrutinized by the “regulars” and that I would need a special invitation to participate in this forum. I mean. You made that abundantly clear in your other thread by excluding non-lab owners. I guess you were expecting a biased result from a selective audience. I read it and didn’t really find it all that Illuminating and refrained from commenting “duh.” Believe it or not, as a long-time member of PS, I found this forum by accident when one of my threads about lab diamonds was moved to this forum. I was attacked back then and nothing has changed. I’m still curious about lab diamonds for a number of reasons—none of which you actually characterized on my behalf. But it’s futile for me to defend myself bc any actual points that I make are viewed defensively and suspiciously. But rest assured that I will continue to pop in whenever I feel like it. Bc I’m curious and I love to research. And because you all can continue to Misinterpret my intentions and that’s ok! No worries! If you go back and stalk my threads, like you did with another poster recently, you will be able to analyze that the only point I have ever made is that people should use proper names to identify diamonds—the way GIA does when they engrave them. That is it. That is all. Why the need to create confusion or deception or secrecy? What can you infer from those people by their proclamation that they are proud lab owner but at the same time don’t want to call their diamonds by their proper term? Why not say that you love your “lab” diamond? I know some posters here do advocate for that so I won’t generalize. But I suspect that is why you called the others “insecure” and yet none will take you task for that insult bc you are one of the regulars. So why is it important to me that you all make this distinction? Because it’s the truth. And if We PSer’s—some of us who are collectors, Or hobbyists—can’t make that distinction, how credible are we?Commenting as someone who’s been lurking and reading this forum and PS in general for many years, I’d say the majority of PS-ers do take the “live and let live” approach. Unfortunately these types of threads usually devolve into petty arguing from the most aggressive “pro-mined” and “pro-MMD” posters, and I think you’ve hit on the reason why: Other people’s opinions are inextricably connected to how those posters experience and enjoy their diamonds.
For the pro-mined diamond posters who only pop on this forum to say snide things and look down their noses, the luxury, expense, and exclusivity of diamonds are important components to their enjoyment (or they are trade members who have a financial interest in making the distinction). For the pro-MMD posters who shout in all caps that their diamonds ARE REAL, there’s an insecurity and a need for validation connected to their jewelry.
As the MMD market has expanded the conversations have evolved and it seems like a lot of PS-ers have started to process and unpack those emotions that can get folded in (often subconsciously) with jewelry. I’ve noticed recent discussion has become more nuanced and substantive, and I hope we can keep moving in that direction.
Ok major tangent but... would they have to sell? Or could they just be given to family members? And close friends? Shrug.
but I feel you. Omg if anyone had to sell my collection they would have NO IDEA. Maybe I’ll put a note in my jewellery box that says: ask PS for help or you’ll be screwed over, trust me lol.
I’m pretty sure you are referring to me at some point as you further derail this thread.. I had no idea that my participation in this forum was being heavily scrutinized by the “regulars” and that I would need a special invitation to participate in this forum. I mean. You made that abundantly clear in your other thread by excluding non-lab owners. I guess you were expecting a biased result from a selective audience. I read it and didn’t really find it all that Illuminating and refrained from commenting—duh. Believed it or not, as a long-time member of PS, I found this forum by accident when one of my threads about lab diamonds was moved to this forum. I was attacked back then and nothing has changed. I’m still curious about lab diamonds for a number of reasons—none of which you actually characterized in my behalf. But it’a futile for me to defend myself bc any actual points that I make are viewed defensively and suspiciously. But rest assured that I will continue to pop in whenever I feel like it. Bc I’m curious and I love to research. And because you all can continue to Misinterpret my intentions and that’s ok! No worries! If you go back and stalk my threads, like you did for another poster recently, you will be able to analyze that the only point I have ever made is that people use proper names to identify diamonds—the way GIA does when they engrave them. That is it. That is all. Why the need to create confusion? Why not say that you love your lab diamond? I know some posters here do advocate for that. And why is that important to distinguish? Because it’s the truth.
I didn’t refer to you or attack you at all, and I never have. In fact, I said the majority of PS-ers “live and let live.” If you don’t recognize yourself in that description, that’s your issue to work out.
Tagging @ForteKitty so I reply to you both - you should do what I did for my mom’s collection. We photographed each piece individually, and wrote a short description including a serial number and any other identifying info like GIA number for a stone, or invoice number since my mom never throws away ANY invoices, they’re all neatly filed (we just did serial numbers 1 to x, but you could make it more complicated by making the number according to year, or type of piece). This description is visible and readable in the picture, btw. Then we made a spreadsheet and arranged the pieces by serial number, with the description typed out as well, and a corresponding photograph, and a write up explaining what we are to do with the piece once she passes on. Also, the description was printed on a little piece of paper and placed along with the piece in its box. It works really well!
That's a really good idea, and so much effort! I'll probably do something similar once I've sold some stuff. It's too overwhelming to think about right now.
They're all rocks folks.
Just rocks.
They're all rocks folks.
Just rocks.
That's a really good idea, and so much effort! I'll probably do something similar once I've sold some stuff. It's too overwhelming to think about right now.
Just split your brand into 2 different brands like Forevermark ( De Beers) and Light Box. One brand is for the high end jewellery and the other is for "costume jewellery". They are 2 different market segments!
They're all rocks folks.
Just rocks.
Maybe one day, right now I'm too small for this and my real goal is to emulate people like Laurence Graff and Robert Procop who do only the biggest and best, I just need more billionaire clients!![]()
That's a really good idea, and so much effort! I'll probably do something similar once I've sold some stuff. It's too overwhelming to think about right now.
I listened to a podcast on gemology last night and learned about cultivated pearls. It’s kind of the same thing isn’t it? ( I’m not a pearl person). Do people have the same argument about whether pearls are real?
I listened to a podcast on gemology last night and learned about cultivated pearls. It’s kind of the same thing isn’t it? ( I’m not a pearl person). Do people have the same argument about whether pearls are real?
The difference is that nobody is trying to say that cultured pearls are exactly the same as natural/wild pearls.
I listened to a podcast on gemology last night and learned about cultivated pearls. It’s kind of the same thing isn’t it? ( I’m not a pearl person). Do people have the same argument about whether pearls are real?
Actually, the difference is that nobody is trying to say that cultures Pearls are fake and refusing to work with them.
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