ladies...does your SO know how much you weight?

[Tacori E-ring]

My DH does know as I know his weight.

 

[ladypirate]

Date: 2/26/2009 4:40:44 PM
Author: jsm
He knows. I don''t mind him knowing at all. He''s 8 inches taller and 45 pounds heavier than I am, so hopefully, even after I gain baby weight, I''ll always be lighter than him!


I know that''s a vain way of thinking, but I can''t help it!

I''m in the same boat--he has 10 inches and a little over 100 lbs on me! So no matter what, at least I''ll always be lighter than him.

 

[chrono]

Yup. And I know his too. We usually step on our scale at the same time. It keeps us in check if we put on a little weight so we''d just throw in a little extra exercise to get it back to where it was.

 

[Skippy123]

Date: 2/26/2009 10:48:10 PM
Author: Chrono
Yup. And I know his too. We usually step on our scale at the same time. It keeps us in check if we put on a little weight so we''d just throw in a little extra exercise to get it back to where it was.

Yip, here too!

 

[ckrickett]

Oh he knows. I''ve been on a diet for months and he asks me how its going. I wasn''t going to tell him but he found out, by sneaking up on me when I was weighing myself. I know his too, he is my little love bear!

 

[April20]

He doesn''t know because I don''t know! I KNOW I''ve gained weight since we started dating and since we got married. I''m killing it on the treadmill to get rid of some of it right now and refuse to get on the scale until my clothes are loose and I feel like I''ve lost some. When I know my weight, he''ll know my weight!

 

[Linda W]

Date: 2/27/2009 12:14:57 AM
Author: SanDiegoLady
Yep.. he knows. He sees me every day chk my weight and hear the scale say *oof* when I step on. lol

Michelle, you are tooooooooooooooo funny. You have lost a lot of weight. You look wonderful honey.

 

[AdiS]

He knows alright! And he keeps nagging me that I''m way to thin since I lost some weight due to job stress. He even started hiding food in my bag so that I can eat something while I''m at work (I ususally don''t have time to take lucnch breaks). I''m no longer surprised when I open my bag and find a chocolate bar or something similar in it. lol

 

[Deelight]

Date: 2/27/2009 3:05:54 AM
Author: AdiS
He knows alright! And he keeps nagging me that I''m way to thin since I lost some weight due to job stress. He even started hiding food in my bag so that I can eat something while I''m at work (I ususally don''t have time to take lucnch breaks). I''m no longer surprised when I open my bag and find a chocolate bar or something similar in it. lol

Awww thats sweet.

Nope he doesn''t know what I weigh never has and thats okay I like the mystique

 

[purrfectpear]

Nope, my dog never mentions my weight and he''s always happy to see me. Loyalty has it''s advantages.

(he never tells me to bring him a beer either)

 

[AdiS]

Date: 2/27/2009 3:10:28 AM
Author: Deelight

Date: 2/27/2009 3:05:54 AM
Author: AdiS
He knows alright! And he keeps nagging me that I''m way to thin since I lost some weight due to job stress. He even started hiding food in my bag so that I can eat something while I''m at work (I ususally don''t have time to take lucnch breaks). I''m no longer surprised when I open my bag and find a chocolate bar or something similar in it. lol

Awww thats sweet.

Nope he doesn''t know what I weigh never has and thats okay I like the mystique

yeah, he''s great.

 

[honey22]

Date: 2/26/2009 6:13:31 PM
Author: musey

Date: 2/26/2009 4:00:51 PM
Author: JulieN
Women, I urge you to honestly tell the truth about your weight, so that men may have fewer misconceptions about how much a woman should weigh.

YES! It irks me to no end what an unrealistic picture people (not just men!) have of any given weight.

I read somewhere that Lindsay Lohan''s publicist was ''combating'' rumors that she dropped from 130 to 100 pounds, because ''Lindsay does not and has never weighed 130 pounds.'' As though 130 pounds is gigantic for a 5''5'' woman like Lindsay. Sheesh. Honestly, that''s about what she looked like to me, in her Mean Girls days - and she looked darn good back then, too!

Ditto! I am shocked to see so many people can''t tell their HUSBANDS their weight. I seriously don''t understand how you can marry someone and share your life with them, yet something so trivial as a number on a scale can''t be shared. That''s really sad that some ladies feel like they have to hide that from the one person in the whole world who should accept and love them for who they are.

 

[Dandi]

I would tell my husband my weight... but I don''t know what it is! Haven''t weighed myself for years, I don''t think we even own a set of scales?!

Probably not good.

 

[Phoenix]

I think he has an idea, but he doesn't know exactly. He *does* notice, however, when I put on a lot of weight. He has a way of letting me know, without being too insensitive!

 

[Mrs.Guz]

Hell No!

 

[Irishgrrrl]

Hell no. He has NO clue!

Funny story: DH and I got life insurance a couple years ago. The insurance company sent a very nice lady to our house to take our blood, weigh us, etc. She needed to see our driver''s licenses, and DH had left his wallet upstairs so he had to leave the room to get it. She weighed me quick while he was gone! I didn''t even have to say anything . . . she just KNEW! LOL!

 

[mrscushion]

Yes, he knows how much I weigh.

 

[Erin]

Date: 2/27/2009 4:17:56 AM
Author: honey22

Ditto! I am shocked to see so many people can't tell their HUSBANDS their weight. I seriously don't understand how you can marry someone and share your life with them, yet something so trivial as a number on a scale can't be shared. That's really sad that some ladies feel like they have to hide that from the one person in the whole world who should accept and love them for who they are.

It's not like we're hiding debt or an illegitimate child. He does love and accept me for who I am. He sees me naked. It doesn't matter how much I weigh - it's how I look. If it's so trivial, why does he need to know? Should I share with him my number of chin hairs I would have if I didn't remove them?

 

[Hello Lover]

My husband knows because we do weight watchers meetings together. We share it with one another after weigh-in.

 

[Diamond*Dana]

HELL NO!
I am sure that he would guess my weight to be less than it actually is.

 

[ImpatientOne]

yup, although he was surprised and thought I weighed less...

 

[pixie1216]

Date: 2/26/2009 3:38:00 PM
Author: steph72276
Yep, only because he was with me at the hospital when the weighed me before surgery

....wouldn''t have told him otherwise!

that''s how i was "outed" too! that was a shock and awe moment for both of us!

 

[bee*]

D doesn''t have a clue what I weigh-he''s never asked and I don''t tell

 

[Kelli]

He knows. I tell him as I complain that I get can''t my "sexy jeans" on!

 

[ckrickett]

Date: 2/27/2009 7:44:03 AM
Author: Phoenix
I think he has an idea, but he doesn''t know exactly. He *does* notice, however, when I put on a lot of weight. He has a way of letting me know, without being too insensitive!

men do that really well, sometimes too well.

 

[mayachel]

He has a general idea, because I complain when there is a significant swing, and celebrate when I''m doing better with my activity levels. I try to be low key about it, ''cause I don''t want him to feel pressured into telling me I''m pretty just the way I am. 100% of the time, I believe this is how he feels.

 

[Bliss]

Yes! He has this scale that also measures body fat percentage so we weigh ourselves after our workouts sometimes. I don't mind him looking... but there are those times during the month when I don't let him peek!

 

[luvmyhalo]

Noooooooooooooo! I really don''t know why I don''t want him to know. I''m not overewight, well except for that damn "baby gut" that I can''t seem to get rid of!

I think because I''m tall (5''9") the number is a big one. He said one day, "what do you weigh, like 110? Hahahahahahahahahahahahah!!!!!!!

 

[somethingshiny]

I haven''t read the responses yet. But, DH knows how much I weigh. Like I''ve said with the "does your DH know your sizes" threads, "if he grabs it, it''s not like I can fudge it!"

I really don''t care who knows how much I weigh, though. It''s a number that I''m not pleased with, but I believe you can pretty much tell what a person weighs by looking at them, so who cares?

 

[scarleta]

He knows exactly and he loves it all.