Lanie
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Date: 8/6/2009 4:47:17 PM
Author: Lanie
Thanks for looking guys! I want to give some advice to brides to be:
1) Honestly, honestly, honestly, little things don''t matter on the wedding day. Just relax and enjoy it and you will still get married. That is the main objective.
2) Everyone says it, but take a step back to enjoy everything around you. It goes by so fast. And before you know it, you are being whisked away to your hotel room, leaving everyone behind.
3) Having said that, getting whisked away to your hotel room is one of the more fun parts of the night.
4) No one ever talks about the rehearsal dinner. This was one of my favorite parts of the wedding weekend. It was more relaxed, it was low key, it was okay if you ''messed up'' or if the groomsmen didn''t come out on time, etc. I remember very vividly saying to my DH, ''All of our favorite people in the world are with us in this room right now. I couldn''t be happier'' and it''s the truth. It is truly amazing to see everyone make the effort to come and spend the day with you.
5) Wrap up lingerie for the honeymoon in separate packages and have your DH open a different one every night. This was the best piece of advice one of my friends gave me. He had so much fun unwrapping them.
6) The vows were great. Saying them felt good. But the best feeling is after the wedding when you hear your husband say ''My wife'' for the first time. That really sticks with you. The wedding was a week and a half away, and I can''t explain to you guys how much we love each other on a whole new level. We are a team now. You are a team before, but there''s just something about haivng said those vows and feeling those feelings together that you can''t put into words. I didn''t think we would be different after the wedding, but we are, in such a wonderful, exciting way. I had so much fun planning the wedding (I know, I''m one of the few!) but now I''m just looking forward to relaxing and being with my new husband!!!