RutherfordBrave
Rough_Rock
- Joined
- Jan 3, 2010
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Like many people posting here, I''m a noob to all of this diamond stuff. I have the strange situation to be with an amazing girl that does NOT want a big diamond and would be perfectly happy with a twist tie on her finger. This is something I definitely see as a lifetime investment, however, and I want the best I can afford. I just started shopping for rings recently, and it''s apparent that my C''s are a little convoluted because of my situation: very petite gf who wants a smaller stone, my high standards, and that my profession puts me in contact with microscopes on a daily basis (biologist) so if anyone will think of/see those small imperfections down the road it''s me...
On to my dilema -- I just put money down at my hometown jeweler on a 0.5ct Lazare Kaplan stone with D color and a very stingy SI1 for clarity. I say stingy because I can''t see any imperfections, dark or light, anywhere in the diamond. The grader at the store said that if she were to grade it, it would be a VS2 or possibly even VS1. All that said, it''s clear that seeing hearts and arrows and the fire that this diamond has comes at a price... I put money down on it at $3,595 without a setting (looking at either a simple Tiffany or a Lazare semi-bezel that looks similar to this, quoted $725: http://www.vonbargens.com/catalog/detail.php?product=3865&category=1386).
I''m quite aware that this is a LOT of money for a smallish stone, but I am certain that I would be happy putting this on my soon-to-be fiancee''s finger. How much is that peace of mind worth to people? I want to do business at my home town jeweler, but I have an issue in that I live on the east coast and they are in the midwest where I grew up. Should I be looking much harder at other ideal cut diamonds online? I know I found a great diamond that I would be happy with for the rest of my/our lives, but should I be more comfortable about the price ($4,600 after taxes once it''s set...)? I went in hoping to find something somewhere between $3,500 and $4,000, but the extra $5-600 isn''t the end of the world. I just don''t want to have the feeling that I could have done the same for 1/3rd less...
I know that the diamond on her finger is probably going to mean more to me than it will to her, and I want it to outshine anything out there. Should I stop while I''m satisfied with what I''ve found, or should I keep looking to find a better price for the quality?? Also, any opinions on a semi-bezel like the one I''m thinking of? She''s the type that would appreciate having a setting that won''t get caught on everything for the rest of her life (and I don''t think she''ll want to put it in another setting once I give it to her).
Thanks!!
On to my dilema -- I just put money down at my hometown jeweler on a 0.5ct Lazare Kaplan stone with D color and a very stingy SI1 for clarity. I say stingy because I can''t see any imperfections, dark or light, anywhere in the diamond. The grader at the store said that if she were to grade it, it would be a VS2 or possibly even VS1. All that said, it''s clear that seeing hearts and arrows and the fire that this diamond has comes at a price... I put money down on it at $3,595 without a setting (looking at either a simple Tiffany or a Lazare semi-bezel that looks similar to this, quoted $725: http://www.vonbargens.com/catalog/detail.php?product=3865&category=1386).
I''m quite aware that this is a LOT of money for a smallish stone, but I am certain that I would be happy putting this on my soon-to-be fiancee''s finger. How much is that peace of mind worth to people? I want to do business at my home town jeweler, but I have an issue in that I live on the east coast and they are in the midwest where I grew up. Should I be looking much harder at other ideal cut diamonds online? I know I found a great diamond that I would be happy with for the rest of my/our lives, but should I be more comfortable about the price ($4,600 after taxes once it''s set...)? I went in hoping to find something somewhere between $3,500 and $4,000, but the extra $5-600 isn''t the end of the world. I just don''t want to have the feeling that I could have done the same for 1/3rd less...
I know that the diamond on her finger is probably going to mean more to me than it will to her, and I want it to outshine anything out there. Should I stop while I''m satisfied with what I''ve found, or should I keep looking to find a better price for the quality?? Also, any opinions on a semi-bezel like the one I''m thinking of? She''s the type that would appreciate having a setting that won''t get caught on everything for the rest of her life (and I don''t think she''ll want to put it in another setting once I give it to her).
Thanks!!