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i heard an interview with katie holmes once, and she was asked about suri.

she said, and i quote (because as a kids'' psych, this really stuck in my mind)...

"she''s an amazing woman - strong minded and she knows what she wants..."

she was 2 at the time.

if you see your 2 year old as a woman, whose wants are all valid and to be respected...

oh god. don''t start me.
 
Wow. I don''t even know what to say to that. It makes me feel icky.
 
Did a little googling, and it looks like Katie may have other shoes with her for when Suri gets tired of the heels. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1215037/Now-little-lady-Suri-Cruise-stops-traffic-pair-dress-heels.html She went into the store in silver heels, and came out in sneakers. :)

Methinks that the little girl may just want to play dress up and Katie has the means to indulge her. Shoot, my friend's 3 year old runs around the house in heeled princess shoes, the difference being hers come from Target and don't fit very well. Suri's got the advantage of her parent's being able to afford to indulge her...

ETA: If Katie is putting her in them to make a statement, then that is so not cool. If it's a matter of indulging a 3 year old's wish to look like MaMa, I don't see a huge problem with it. *shrug* Assuming, of course, that the kiddo has the option to take them off when she wants!

ETAA: I found 4 pics of Suri in heels. I found many, many more of the kiddo in sneakers, ballet flats etc. Just a thought.
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Date: 1/29/2010 2:33:09 PM
Author: whitby_2773
i heard an interview with katie holmes once, and she was asked about suri.

she said, and i quote (because as a kids'' psych, this really stuck in my mind)...

''she''s an amazing woman - strong minded and she knows what she wants...''

she was 2 at the time.

if you see your 2 year old as a woman, whose wants are all valid and to be respected...

oh god. don''t start me.
You know, I''m just imagining this kid''s first grade teacher pulling her hair out over this 6 year old that says, "No, I don''t need to know my colours. I want to go play in the snow, and no, I don''t need my jacket, thankyouverymuch."

"Strong woman" my butt. She''s a toddler. Since when has a two-year-old NOT known what they want? I''ve met Tacori''s daughter, and she knows what she wants, too - but that doesn''t mean it''s the right thing for her to have.
 
Date: 1/29/2010 3:10:40 PM
Author: princesss
Date: 1/29/2010 2:33:09 PM

Author: whitby_2773

i heard an interview with katie holmes once, and she was asked about suri.


she said, and i quote (because as a kids'' psych, this really stuck in my mind)...


''she''s an amazing woman - strong minded and she knows what she wants...''


she was 2 at the time.


if you see your 2 year old as a woman, whose wants are all valid and to be respected...


oh god. don''t start me.

You know, I''m just imagining this kid''s first grade teacher pulling her hair out over this 6 year old that says, ''No, I don''t need to know my colours. I want to go play in the snow, and no, I don''t need my jacket, thankyouverymuch.''


''Strong woman'' my butt. She''s a toddler. Since when has a two-year-old NOT known what they want? I''ve met Tacori''s daughter, and she knows what she wants, too - but that doesn''t mean it''s the right thing for her to have.

Haha! I was thinking the SAME thing. My daughter is "strong minded and she knows what she wants" but it doesn''t mean she always gets it! I try to pick my battles. She wants to wear a winter hat in 70 degrees, okay. She only wants to eat cookies all day, not okay. She wants to pick berries off a bush and stomp on them, I let her do that for 10 mins. She wants to run out alone in a parking lot, NO WAY. Boundaries.
 
Date: 1/29/2010 3:38:05 PM
Author: Tacori E-ring

Haha! I was thinking the SAME thing. My daughter is ''strong minded and she knows what she wants'' but it doesn''t mean she always gets it! I try to pick my battles. She wants to wear a winter hat in 70 degrees, okay. She only wants to eat cookies all day, not okay. She wants to pick berries off a bush and stomp on them, I let her do that for 10 mins. She wants to run out alone in a parking lot, NO WAY. Boundaries.
I need a "like" button for this post.
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Heels for little girls are silly. JMO.

High heels are generally worn by women for two reasons: 1) they're short or 2) they want to look sexy. Suri and other girls her age don't need them for either one.
 
Date: 1/27/2010 5:38:58 PM
Author: Hudson_Hawk

Date: 1/27/2010 5:10:54 PM
Author: Tropicgal10

Date: 1/27/2010 3:02:41 PM

Author: Hudson_Hawk

Wow, if she''s dressing like that now, she''s definitely going to be a teen mom by the time she''s 15 or so....
my point exactly....

So I have to ask, and no offense intended here, but weren''t you a young mother (I recall somewhere you said you''re 23 with two children one of whom is 8-correct me if I''m wrong here)? Do you feel that the clothes and shoes you wore as a toddler molded you into the person you are today or who were in your formative years?
I don''t like the way you have used personal info about another poster in an attempt to further your argument, HH. I just find it moving towards being mean; having never seen you be anything but polite before I imagine it was not intended - still I can''t help but read it any other way
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If they''re prepubescent it''s horrible, not only are high-heels designed to help you show off your butt and legs, which a 9 year-old does NOT need to be doing, but they''re also not good for your feet and achiles tendon, and girls that age are still growing so I imagine that can''t be good for them.

What''s worse is the teeny-boppers (10-14 year olds or so) in mini-skirts, but you asked about heels so I won''t go off on a rant about that...
 
see that was my point! Heels are designed to me you look SEXY. Why would a 3 yr old need to look SEXY? There are too many perverts and h***ny little boys out there to have your young child or young teen wear things that make them look sexy.
 
Ugh... much ado over nothing in this thread.
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to the whole thing. sorry, but come on. Five pages over SHOES?

ETA: I don't have kids. But my sister does. Two beautiful and sweet little girls who were just DELIGHTED to see big girl shoes in their sizes. They don't get to wear them to school, or many places at all. But they sure were thrilled to open them up at Christmas time and run around the house in them. I think they've even worn them out to dinner once with their fancy dresses. Better call the podiatrist, and pick up a few home pregnancy tests on the way home.
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Much ado about nothing, and yet you felt the need to add your own views, so here you go:
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Date: 1/29/2010 10:48:36 PM
Author: Kelli
Ugh... much ado over nothing in this thread.
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to the whole thing. sorry, but come on. Five pages over SHOES?


ETA: I don''t have kids. But my sister does. Two beautiful and sweet little girls who were just DELIGHTED to see big girl shoes in their sizes. They don''t get to wear them to school, or many places at all. But they sure were thrilled to open them up at Christmas time and run around the house in them. I think they''ve even worn them out to dinner once with their fancy dresses. Better call the podiatrist, and pick up a few home pregnancy tests on the way home.
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This is a prime example of why I get a little frustrated at times with PS, as much as I also enjoy it. I made sure I plastered IMO throughout my post, re-read it several times so I wouldn''t offend someone with a differing opinion,and made an effort not to come across like I was right and everyone else was wrong. Then I come on here and read a post that''s sarcastic and makes fun of me for my opinion. Honestly, I really don''t care if kids wear heels until their feet fall off, I was just offering an opinion on how it looks to me. I don''t know why some people feel it''s necessary to voice an opinion in a nasty way. Now I guess I''ll get a lot of comments on how I should develope a thick skin and not be so sensitive, but I really don''t care. I''m sure as hell not going to worry so much about the contents of my posts, since the same courtesy oftentimes isn''t extended to me.
 
I agree with you Junebug.
 
Date: 1/29/2010 4:47:45 PM
Author: Laila619
Heels for little girls are silly. JMO.

High heels are generally worn by women for two reasons: 1) they''re short or 2) they want to look sexy. Suri and other girls her age don''t need them for either one.
Speaking as a woman who has over 150 pairs of shoes, there are some women (and I know I''m not alone here, where is star sparkle?) who see beautiful shoes as artwork you can take with you. I am short at 5''2, but I don''t wear heels to look taller, instead I am glad I am short so I don''t hover over people when I do actually decide to wear heels. Which really isn''t that often.

Here is a particular pair of shoes that I consider to be more sculptural than wearable, and my lovely husband does not find sexy at all:

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Just throwing that out there...
 
Date: 1/29/2010 10:48:36 PM
Author: Kelli
Ugh... much ado over nothing in this thread.
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to the whole thing. sorry, but come on. Five pages over SHOES?


ETA: I don''t have kids. But my sister does. Two beautiful and sweet little girls who were just DELIGHTED to see big girl shoes in their sizes. They don''t get to wear them to school, or many places at all. But they sure were thrilled to open them up at Christmas time and run around the house in them. I think they''ve even worn them out to dinner once with their fancy dresses. Better call the podiatrist, and pick up a few home pregnancy tests on the way home.
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FYI, there is a thread that is 35 pages long over in Shopping about SHOES. It''s been going on for almost two years and was begun in March 2008.
 
Date: 1/30/2010 12:16:32 PM
Author: FrekeChild
Date: 1/29/2010 4:47:45 PM

Author: Laila619

Heels for little girls are silly. JMO.


High heels are generally worn by women for two reasons: 1) they''re short or 2) they want to look sexy. Suri and other girls her age don''t need them for either one.

Speaking as a woman who has over 150 pairs of shoes, there are some women (and I know I''m not alone here, where is star sparkle?) who see beautiful shoes as artwork you can take with you. I am short at 5''2, but I don''t wear heels to look taller, instead I am glad I am short so I don''t hover over people when I do actually decide to wear heels. Which really isn''t that often.

ditto. I''m not that short and I don''t wear them to look sexy-I just adore them and collect them. In terms of little girls wearing them, I can understand a pair for playing in at home but that''s it. I don''t agree with them wearing them out and about during the day.
 
Date: 1/29/2010 7:30:34 PM
Author: RockHugger
see that was my point! Heels are designed to me you look SEXY. Why would a 3 yr old need to look SEXY? There are too many perverts and h***ny little boys out there to have your young child or young teen wear things that make them look sexy.

Guess you better not let yours have any crop tops, spandex, skirts, or open-back tops - all of which I had as a child. And lookie there, I am happily married with a baby on the way and have no history of streetwalking. Whouda thunk it?

Seriously, making the jump between shoes with a one or two inch heel to sexy streetwalker is just silly. Yes, I agreed from the beginning that it was wrong to let little girls walk around in heels all the time as it CAN cause issues with their feet down the road. (And that was the point to begin with.) But there is absolutely no reason to make assumptions about how a child will be as an adult just because of how they dress as a kid!
 
Date: 1/29/2010 5:45:11 PM
Author: Steel
Date: 1/27/2010 5:38:58 PM

Author: Hudson_Hawk


Date: 1/27/2010 5:10:54 PM

Author: Tropicgal10


Date: 1/27/2010 3:02:41 PM


Author: Hudson_Hawk


Wow, if she''s dressing like that now, she''s definitely going to be a teen mom by the time she''s 15 or so....
my point exactly....


So I have to ask, and no offense intended here, but weren''t you a young mother (I recall somewhere you said you''re 23 with two children one of whom is 8-correct me if I''m wrong here)? Do you feel that the clothes and shoes you wore as a toddler molded you into the person you are today or who were in your formative years?

I don''t like the way you have used personal info about another poster in an attempt to further your argument, HH. I just find it moving towards being mean; having never seen you be anything but polite before I imagine it was not intended - still I can''t help but read it any other way
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Steel I was simply trying to clarify some background information that was openly posted elsewhere on PS to try to understand TG/RH''s view on the situation. She called a three year old a street walker who would grow up to be a promiscuous teenager. I don''t think any adult who hadn''t had an experience like that while a teenager could come to that conclusion based on the small amount of information provided in this thread. Clearly from the posts that followed I stated my feelings on the subject and my intent behind the question.
 
I have two daughters. As they have grown older they have enjoyed clip clopping around the house in mummy''s high heels. Now they are 13 and 17 they always wear flat shoes. I think a lot of it is wanting to look like an adult while little. None of them are pregnant so far
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If they had wanted to wear heels outside as children I would have said no. For a party..... maybe. Its all about appropriate dressing for the age they are.
 
Freke and bee, I said generally worn. There are always outliers.
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Date: 1/30/2010 7:36:06 PM
Author: Laila619
Freke and bee, I said generally worn. There are always outliers.
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Obviously. You plainly stated in the original post that you were generalizing. I was sharing my reasoning for having such a wild (and seemingly famous) appreciation for shoes.
 
Date: 1/27/2010 12:16:38 PM
Author: MonkeyPie
Aha! This is the one I was thinking of.

The other pic I posted isn''t so bad - they are little girl shoes, not a bad heel at all. These ones? A bit too high in my opinion.
I''m a little late to this thread but I just have to say, I LOVE Suri''s jacket!
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Seriously, I really do. The pic is a little silly though -- Suri totally looks like a grown up, a bit too grown up. She''s 3 (or 4), right?

I agree with everyone else about little girls wearing heels. There''s no need for it. Dress up/pretend? Sure. Real life? Nope.
 
Haven''t read the whole thread yet, but I think it is gross. Kids should be free to move as they wish and run and jump around. I don''t even like wearing heels and will not let any future daughters wear them until they are fully grown.
 
Date: 1/27/2010 12:03:14 PM
Author: monarch64
Wow. Those are a little grown-up.
And katie is wearing flats!!
 
Date: 1/27/2010 2:42:51 PM
Author: FrekeChild
FYI Katie dances and supports dancing foundations (as anyone who watched the last couple of seasons of SYTYCD can attest to) so it would not surprise me in the least to find out that Suri is in dance classes.

This may very well be a case of the three year old throws tantrums when she can''t ''dress like mommy'' and instead of dealing with that, she may have just found the best, most supportive heels she could find and is dealing with it that way. Or it could just be for special occasions.

Speaking as a former temper tantrum thrower, they can be brutal.

Also, tropicgal, if you think she looks like a street walker in her 1.5 inch heels, I must be a full blown hooker in my 5 inch heels.
LOL! And giving in to the tantrums will really help them stop, right? hee hee
 
Date: 1/29/2010 3:38:05 PM
Author: Tacori E-ring


Haha! I was thinking the SAME thing. My daughter is ''strong minded and she knows what she wants'' but it doesn''t mean she always gets it! I try to pick my battles. She wants to wear a winter hat in 70 degrees, okay. She only wants to eat cookies all day, not okay. She wants to pick berries off a bush and stomp on them, I let her do that for 10 mins. She wants to run out alone in a parking lot, NO WAY. Boundaries.
hahhaaa. I love this set of rules Tacori!
 
Date: 1/29/2010 3:10:40 PM
Author: princesss
Date: 1/29/2010 2:33:09 PM

Author: whitby_2773

i heard an interview with katie holmes once, and she was asked about suri.


she said, and i quote (because as a kids' psych, this really stuck in my mind)...


'she's an amazing woman - strong minded and she knows what she wants...'


she was 2 at the time.


if you see your 2 year old as a woman, whose wants are all valid and to be respected...


oh god. don't start me.

You know, I'm just imagining this kid's first grade teacher pulling her hair out over this 6 year old that says, 'No, I don't need to know my colours. I want to go play in the snow, and no, I don't need my jacket, thankyouverymuch.'


'Strong woman' my butt. She's a toddler. Since when has a two-year-old NOT known what they want? I've met Tacori's daughter, and she knows what she wants, too - but that doesn't mean it's the right thing for her to have.

I'm with Whitby, Princess and Tacori on this one. Honestly that quote from Katie makes me want to laugh out loud! My daughter is the same age as Suri and while I may think she is amazing, and she certainly does have some strong opinions, I can't imagine referring to her as an 'amazing woman'. I think I also remember another quote in which she referred to Suri as an 'amazing artist'. While I'm sure Suri's finger painting is as wonderful as the violent explosions of colour my daughter likes to force onto paper with great vigor and enthusiasim, I still don't think it qualifies either as an 'amazing artist'.

I can understand the whole 'wanting to dress up like mummy' reasoning behind the heels, but I'm still not sure she needs to be wearing them out in public. Makes me glad I don't like heels (and I'm 5ft1 on a good day)
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Date: 1/30/2010 12:49:41 PM
Author: bee*
Date: 1/30/2010 12:16:32 PM

Author: FrekeChild

Date: 1/29/2010 4:47:45 PM


Author: Laila619


Heels for little girls are silly. JMO.



High heels are generally worn by women for two reasons: 1) they''re short or 2) they want to look sexy. Suri and other girls her age don''t need them for either one.


Speaking as a woman who has over 150 pairs of shoes, there are some women (and I know I''m not alone here, where is star sparkle?) who see beautiful shoes as artwork you can take with you. I am short at 5''2, but I don''t wear heels to look taller, instead I am glad I am short so I don''t hover over people when I do actually decide to wear heels. Which really isn''t that often.


ditto. I''m not that short and I don''t wear them to look sexy-I just adore them and collect them. In terms of little girls wearing them, I can understand a pair for playing in at home but that''s it. I don''t agree with them wearing them out and about during the day.

Yeah, gotta thritto that one. I am 5''9" and wear heels just because I like them. Most days I wear tennis shoes, but if I am dressing up time for some cute heels or flats (I do wear those as well) to complete the outfit!
 
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