Hi everyone, this is my first ever post here but I have been reading the forum for over a year now. Just can't get enough of the eye candy threads! I'm from the UK though, and I know most of the posters and links are American based so I hope it's okay to join and ask advice here
My name is Jen.
It's quite strange really, because it's only recently I've realised how much I really love coloured gemstones, especially in rings. Like, love to the point of when I see one I like I get goosebumps! I know I'm in the right place here when talking like this
A little about my current jewellery. I'm afraid it's rather meagre in that I own a .20 carat round cut diamond solitaire set in 18k white gold. It was my original engagement ring my partner gave me back in 2007 but we are just together, not married. In fact I wear it as a RHR because I lost weight and it no longer fit my ring finger, it's on my middle.
Other than that my jewellery is either costume or I do have a couple of simulant pieces but I won't talk about those here
So anyway, I promised myself that one day I would purchase for myself a real and beautiful gem. Also that I would set it in a setting of my choice. That day's come around rather bitter sweetly, as my dear Grandad who passed away earlier this year left me some money. It's not a huge amount, and I won't be spending it all on this one idea, but I would very much like to invest some in a ring. It doesn't have to be the most amazing 5 carat rock in a platinum setting, just something to both remember my Grandad by and to hand down to my children in the future.
I'm not too sure where to start really. I suppose a good idea of budget would help so I'm thinking somewhere around the £300 mark. That's a starting point but I am open to being realistic about what I can get.
Gem wise I'm not looking for any specific type gem, it will be the individual colour and cut of a gem that will catch my eye. However my birthstone is January and my favourite colour is green, so I do want to own a Tsav at some point! Whether I can do it with this budget I'm not sure. Other colours I like are vivid blues and pinky orange gems. Something with good saturation.
I'm looking to wear it as an occasional RHR, but something with a hardness of above 5-6 I think would be needed, especially as I'm not a fan of bezel settings.
Setting wise I love those where the band comes up either side of gem. I do very much like something I saw described as a swan setting. I also like paving but I'm not sure about halos. I don't think I need to worry about that with this budget though! Metal wise, either a silver metal or rose gold. Whichever was to suit the gem better. I'm personally not fussed about what metal it is, I'd rather choose the metal that was right for the job and was within budget rather than setting my heart on one. I don't know if anyone works with solid silver for custom ring settings, but I would be more than happy if my first piece was silver.
My favourite stone shapes are the rounded shapes. Round and cushion come first, followed by asscher and trillion. I don't really like pear and I'm not too sure on oval yet. I'd look at princess cuts but always have it in the back of my mind my partner doesn't care for them much.
Well, I hope I've shared enough information with you all to get a little advice. I know how knowledgeable you all are, and I'm really encouraged by all the success stories of people and their rings they had help to create
I look forward to hearing what you have to say ![Smile2 :) :)](data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7)
Edit: I just wanted to add that I value the cut and the clarity over the carat weight of a gem. The colour and shape are not as important, more that they're different and more about a personal preference. But more than anything I want a really lovely example over and above a big gemstone.
It's quite strange really, because it's only recently I've realised how much I really love coloured gemstones, especially in rings. Like, love to the point of when I see one I like I get goosebumps! I know I'm in the right place here when talking like this
A little about my current jewellery. I'm afraid it's rather meagre in that I own a .20 carat round cut diamond solitaire set in 18k white gold. It was my original engagement ring my partner gave me back in 2007 but we are just together, not married. In fact I wear it as a RHR because I lost weight and it no longer fit my ring finger, it's on my middle.
Other than that my jewellery is either costume or I do have a couple of simulant pieces but I won't talk about those here
So anyway, I promised myself that one day I would purchase for myself a real and beautiful gem. Also that I would set it in a setting of my choice. That day's come around rather bitter sweetly, as my dear Grandad who passed away earlier this year left me some money. It's not a huge amount, and I won't be spending it all on this one idea, but I would very much like to invest some in a ring. It doesn't have to be the most amazing 5 carat rock in a platinum setting, just something to both remember my Grandad by and to hand down to my children in the future.
I'm not too sure where to start really. I suppose a good idea of budget would help so I'm thinking somewhere around the £300 mark. That's a starting point but I am open to being realistic about what I can get.
Gem wise I'm not looking for any specific type gem, it will be the individual colour and cut of a gem that will catch my eye. However my birthstone is January and my favourite colour is green, so I do want to own a Tsav at some point! Whether I can do it with this budget I'm not sure. Other colours I like are vivid blues and pinky orange gems. Something with good saturation.
I'm looking to wear it as an occasional RHR, but something with a hardness of above 5-6 I think would be needed, especially as I'm not a fan of bezel settings.
Setting wise I love those where the band comes up either side of gem. I do very much like something I saw described as a swan setting. I also like paving but I'm not sure about halos. I don't think I need to worry about that with this budget though! Metal wise, either a silver metal or rose gold. Whichever was to suit the gem better. I'm personally not fussed about what metal it is, I'd rather choose the metal that was right for the job and was within budget rather than setting my heart on one. I don't know if anyone works with solid silver for custom ring settings, but I would be more than happy if my first piece was silver.
My favourite stone shapes are the rounded shapes. Round and cushion come first, followed by asscher and trillion. I don't really like pear and I'm not too sure on oval yet. I'd look at princess cuts but always have it in the back of my mind my partner doesn't care for them much.
Well, I hope I've shared enough information with you all to get a little advice. I know how knowledgeable you all are, and I'm really encouraged by all the success stories of people and their rings they had help to create
Edit: I just wanted to add that I value the cut and the clarity over the carat weight of a gem. The colour and shape are not as important, more that they're different and more about a personal preference. But more than anything I want a really lovely example over and above a big gemstone.