My long journey ... JBG OMB in CVB setting

[kathley]

I love everything about your ring...the graduated side stones, the delicate milgrain to those claw prongs!

 

[Bonfire]

Beautiful stone! I LOVE the setting! It’s perfect for your stone, PERFECT!
Wear your new beauty in much happiness, It is indeed very special!

 

[eapj]

Beautiful!!!! You have great taste. So classic!

 

[msop04]

This is sooooo beautiful!! Congratulations!

 

[diamondseeker2006]

It's gorgeous!!! That bezel setting was genius for that stone. Caysie did a beautiful job on the setting! I 100% agree with you that a stone plus the right setting just makes it complete!!

 

[foxinsox]

What a gorgeous stone and the setting just showcases it so perfectly! Love the outcome of your long journey, you and Caysie have created a fabulous piece

 

[tyty333]

That turned out gorgeous! So glad you stuck it out and found/got what you wanted!

 

[JPie]

That setting complements the diamond perfectly! Well worth the wait.

 

[skywind]

Perfect!

 

[Ellen]

Gor jus!! What a one of a kind beauty! Just my cup of tea for an "old style" ring.

You did really, really well. Do wear it in good health!

And do post more often. You may hold the record in lurking.

 

[caf]

Gorgeous! Love your story too!

 

[ComeInSpinner]

thanks @Luce @Rpb @Octo2005 @lovedogs Wow! Thanks you guys so much for the kind words. I feel honoured to be part of this community.

@Mamabean @missyminx @bludiva @ILikeShiny - I have found that quite often the stories are the most interesting part of this community and I was pleased to be able to share mine.

@ILikeShiny - I followed the ups and downs of your story recently (or it seems recent) and you have ended up with such a unique and amazing setting. It made me start to reconsider whether something similar might suit my stone.

@mrs-b - your new earrings are stunning... along with everything else you've been commissioning. Yowza! If I could find the drool emoticons here, I'd add them in.

@carbonfan - I too think the setting works well to enhance the beauty of the stone.

@plad25 @Gabbycat @cokitty - thanks for your comments on my patience... my journey wasn't without trial...and certainly didn't start with patience...

I have to admit the patience came about sometime after the original obsession, which I have to admit accompanied mental health issues, ie depression. And for a long time I wasn't interested in being patient nor did I believe that I could wait and save and make it happen for myself. But while I had depression I used the 'sparklie' internet browsing (lurking) behaviours to escape from the way I was feeling. It was a lifeline.

But, even after this got better, thank goodness, I had learned to really appreciate the intrinsic beauty and artistic value of these beautiful things, particularly the way beautifully made settings enhanced the beauty of the stones they held, and the graceful flow and tiny details of the designs.

So, although I didn't put away the joy, I was able to just enjoy the beauty, without the obsession. Yay!

However, I realised that I had learned so much and appreciated the history and craftmanship that I still wanted to have my own, and I wanted to honour the person I had been and celebrate what I had learned through my journey, so that was when I decided to start saving for something that could be mine and I could hand down to my child. @lovedogs - so yes, it definitely was a dream ring for a very long time before it became a reality.

@alpha238, @the_mother_thing, @peacechick @Weecam - The journey to choose the setting was quite interesting (or rather difficult for me), as the stone was an easy pick, but the setting was really hard to pin down and I think I made Caysie rather nervous with my dithering about choices etc. I could still have made different choices, and I've seen that happen here so many times. And I found the deciding quite stressful, which i didn't think I would. Although after about 12 yrs of thinking about it, I should have realised that so much emotional energy was already invested.

But ultimately I reminded myself how lucky I was to be at this position in life where I had the ability to have this experience, making choices, with knowledge, and the foresight (and hindsight) of so many people who had shared their own journeys and outcomes with me, with us all, online, which helped immensely with my choices.

@soxfan - I know that if I had walked into a high end jewellery store, with cash to splash, both hubby and I would have said 'Yes, this is The One'. if I had tried it on as is, it would be the ring I would purchase, and you can't ask for more than that I think. @hathalove - I'm sure you are right, it'll be around for a very long time on my finger.

@KristyDarling - thanks for using the word 'elegance' and @marymm ditto for using 'graceful'. I was so trying hard to find a balance between what works on my hands, would complement the stone, and also be easy to wear anywhere. I wanted 'elegance' and 'graceful'. I'm so pleased someone else can see these in the ring too!

@kindred - yep graduated side stones are the bomb! I realised I wanted these while I was checking out other women's diamond rings on the train to work. The ones that regularly fascinated me generally had graduated sides, and more often side stones. They have been set magnificently.

@LLJsmom - your ring was quite inspirational for me, when I was dithering about the design of the bezel. Yours is is an amazingly beautiful and elegant ring and one of my recent favourites.

@missyminx - Because it's the first day of Spring... I've included daffodils! Although this pic is showing the deficiency of my photographic skills!

 

[Queenie60]

Simply beautiful. Caysie's designs and the workmanship are spectacular. You will enjoy for many years.

 

[arkieb1]

Wow that's gorgeous the new setting really sets off the stone!!!

 

[yennyfire]

As a fellow oval lover, I think you found a stunner of a stone and then set her in THE perfect settting to make her even more beautiful! I am in awe of your patience and perseverance. I’m so happy that you now have an heirloom that will be treasured for generations to come!

 

[missy]

@ComeInSpinner WOW
OVALlicious in every way.
Yummy oval chunkiness and this is a true beauty! Gorgeous stone and amazing setting! Congratulations!

 

[MamaBee]

thanks @Luce @Rpb @Octo2005 @lovedogs Wow! Thanks you guys so much for the kind words. I feel honoured to be part of this community.

@Mamabean @missyminx @bludiva @ILikeShiny - I have found that quite often the stories are the most interesting part of this community and I was pleased to be able to share mine.

@ILikeShiny - I followed the ups and downs of your story recently (or it seems recent) and you have ended up with such a unique and amazing setting. It made me start to reconsider whether something similar might suit my stone.

@mrs-b - your new earrings are stunning... along with everything else you've been commissioning. Yowza! If I could find the drool emoticons here, I'd add them in.

@carbonfan - I too think the setting works well to enhance the beauty of the stone.

@plad25 @Gabbycat @cokitty - thanks for your comments on my patience... my journey wasn't without trial...and certainly didn't start with patience...

I have to admit the patience came about sometime after the original obsession, which I have to admit accompanied mental health issues, ie depression. And for a long time I wasn't interested in being patient nor did I believe that I could wait and save and make it happen for myself. But while I had depression I used the 'sparklie' internet browsing (lurking) behaviours to escape from the way I was feeling. It was a lifeline.

But, even after this got better, thank goodness, I had learned to really appreciate the intrinsic beauty and artistic value of these beautiful things, particularly the way beautifully made settings enhanced the beauty of the stones they held, and the graceful flow and tiny details of the designs.

So, although I didn't put away the joy, I was able to just enjoy the beauty, without the obsession. Yay!

However, I realised that I had learned so much and appreciated the history and craftmanship that I still wanted to have my own, and I wanted to honour the person I had been and celebrate what I had learned through my journey, so that was when I decided to start saving for something that could be mine and I could hand down to my child. @lovedogs - so yes, it definitely was a dream ring for a very long time before it became a reality.

@alpha238, @the_mother_thing, @peacechick @Weecam - The journey to choose the setting was quite interesting (or rather difficult for me), as the stone was an easy pick, but the setting was really hard to pin down and I think I made Caysie rather nervous with my dithering about choices etc. I could still have made different choices, and I've seen that happen here so many times. And I found the deciding quite stressful, which i didn't think I would. Although after about 12 yrs of thinking about it, I should have realised that so much emotional energy was already invested.

But ultimately I reminded myself how lucky I was to be at this position in life where I had the ability to have this experience, making choices, with knowledge, and the foresight (and hindsight) of so many people who had shared their own journeys and outcomes with me, with us all, online, which helped immensely with my choices.

@soxfan - I know that if I had walked into a high end jewellery store, with cash to splash, both hubby and I would have said 'Yes, this is The One'. if I had tried it on as is, it would be the ring I would purchase, and you can't ask for more than that I think. @hathalove - I'm sure you are right, it'll be around for a very long time on my finger.

@KristyDarling - thanks for using the word 'elegance' and @marymm ditto for using 'graceful'. I was so trying hard to find a balance between what works on my hands, would complement the stone, and also be easy to wear anywhere. I wanted 'elegance' and 'graceful'. I'm so pleased someone else can see these in the ring too!

@kindred - yep graduated side stones are the bomb! I realised I wanted these while I was checking out other women's diamond rings on the train to work. The ones that regularly fascinated me generally had graduated sides, and more often side stones. They have been set magnificently.

@LLJsmom - your ring was quite inspirational for me, when I was dithering about the design of the bezel. Yours is is an amazingly beautiful and elegant ring and one of my recent favourites.

@missyminx - Because it's the first day of Spring... I've included daffodils! Although this pic is showing the deficiency of my photographic skills!

I really enjoyed reading this post and getting to know you a little bit too. I’m happy you found joy reading the posts on here. I feel the same as I have some family issues..not marriage..but family issues and this has been a lifeline for me too. This board and the people on it with their sparklies would make me smile when it was a bad day. I know when you look at your beautiful ring you will feel happy.

 

[Tekate]

eeek! what a beautiful stone, what a beatiful stone again! I love the setting too, it so complements your stone. I LOVED your story, come around more often and share, you are a veteran of a handmade ring and that is always great to give advice to the newbies. Your ring is timeless and classy. Wear it all the time, that ring should be shown off. Peace and Love.

 

[scoutfinch]

What a great story and a beautiful ring! I love the shape of your diamond and the gorgeous Casablanca setting. Congrats!

 

[mol42]

Hi!
I tend to lurk as well, (mainly because I’m too lazy to post) but had to pop in and tell you what a beautiful ring you have. Congratulations!!! There are advantages to delayed gratification and I hope you greatly enjoy the fruits of your labor and patience every time you look down on your hand.
I agree that the stone can be the “easy” pick but the setting can be difficult to find! So glad you’ve found yours and it’s gorgeous. Enjoy!

 

[ComeInSpinner]

Thanks for the lovely comments. I’m out at the moment so will fully respond later. But have been in MIL’s garden do have flower shots to share.

 

[dtnyc]

So so perfectly lovely! Good things come to those who wait!
Wear this gorgeous ring in good health!

 

[Diamond*Dana]

Oh this is lovely

 

[luckyblackcat]

Perfect perfect perfect!!!

 

[ComeInSpinner]

After reading and rereading all the lovely comments I think I like my ring even more!

What I can say is that it is wonderful to have a ring that can cope with the closeup shots and still be beautiful.

I now understand the comments about barely there's prongs and hardly noticeable gaps and airlines that I've read over the years.

In sunlight or dowlights the stone edges blur into the bezel and you can hardly see the prongs at all, so i ended up with what appears to just be a larger stone, which, I really do like.

In lower light you can see the oval shape against the bezel, which is a bit more like the differentiation you can see in the pictures.

I have also had a few comments at work about this new (very shiny) ring, all positive, which have sparked enjoyable conversations. The people who notice are the people who love jewellery, so it has become an avenue to find some kindred spirits in the flesh.... not just online.

 

[ComeInSpinner]

What a great story and a beautiful ring! I love the shape of your diamond and the gorgeous Casablanca setting. Congrats!

Thanks @scoutfinch - although I've been mentioning the Casablanca setting this ring is actually not that design. Mine is a bit of an amalgamation of different setting parts I've seen in Caysie's work and along with a head designed to suit my stone and the antique/solid feeling I was trying to achieve.

If you haven't already seen these, can take a look at an example of the Casablanca settings (these are earrings) here: https://www.pricescope.com/communit...ng-project-with-1-38-1-39-oec-sisters.229679/
And then understand why I love the Casablanca setting for a round diamond.

 

[ComeInSpinner]

@yennyfire - thanks for the lovely comments. I think (sorry, not think... I know) your oval was/is one of my favourites, as was reading about your journey as well. I even tried on a some similar Singlestone setting to yours as I was wondering if I could carry off something similar. Unfortunately not!

Your engraved bezel (Named after your grandmother.... beautiful) by CVB was the exact reason I ended up deciding on Caysie to work with, as it is absolutely stunning and wearable and the engraving was amazing. We originally tried to create something similar with the more asscher shaped bezel for my stone, but the proportions seemed to swallow up my much smaller diamond, rather than enhancing it.

So thanks for sharing your experience, as I believe, despite the very different designs and outcomes we ended up with, your experiences and choices had a very big impact on what I ended up with.

@mol42 - thank so for coming out of lurkerdom (is that a word?) to post!

@Tekate - I've never thought of myself as having anything particularly to offer this group of well informed people in this community, maybe that is part of the reason I remained a lurker, not a poster, but you've just given me a new perspective. I've certainly now lived through the handmade ring experience and internet purchasing from overseas too. Thanks

 

[kgizo]

Your ring is lovely!! All your planning and saving paid off!

 

[yennyfire]

Aww, @ComeInSpinner, I’m honored that my rings provided some inspiration for you. Here’s what’s funny....the shape of your bezel is EXACTLY what I wanted, but Caysie said couldn’t be done because my stone is almost perfectly round. I adore your ring and am so happy for you!!

 

[doberman]

Wow! The ring is gorgeous. Wear it in good health.