Nick and Jessica Officially Separating

[lmurden]

Very sad, I was hoping they would make it.

http://et.tv.yahoo.com/celebrities/13191/

 

[bling*diva*]

~~Yeah, I just read the same thing on ET too!! I loved them as a couple, and I was really hoping that all of the rumors weren''t true. They just went on a really nice trip to Italy to celebrate their 3rd anniversary, and I thought that they were going to be married forever. It seems like all of these hollywood couples are divorcing and separating lately. I wonder what the reason is for their split, and did ET just post it, or has it been up all day???

 

[Mara]

Date: 11/24/2005 2:28:03 AM
Author: bling*diva*
~~Yeah, I just read the same thing on ET too!! I loved them as a couple, and I was really hoping that all of the rumors weren't true. They just went on a really nice trip to Italy to celebrate their 3rd anniversary, and I thought that they were going to be married forever. It seems like all of these hollywood couples are divorcing and separating lately. I wonder what the reason is for their split, and did ET just post it, or has it been up all day???

That trip to Italy supposedly was just for press to throw them off the trail, I read a huge thing about how Joe, her dad, had all these new things lined up that were to promote them as a couple so having them split up then would not have been good for career etc. Sad that her father couldn't even think past the almighty dollar to possibly how damaging it could be for his daughter to pretend in a marriage.

I really liked them together even though alot of people did not, I felt like they were two REAL personalities who weren't afraid to show how human they were....but I also feel like she has gotten caught up in that 15 minutes of fame with the money and the partying and the 'freedom' from her controlling father, whereas Nick seems more down to earth with simple pleasures. He may be better off without her but I don't think she could say the same long-term about him.

 

[AChiOAlumna]

That''s so odd as I was at the grocery store yesterday and one of the rags announced Jessica was pregnant!!! The headlines read, "Will this save their marriage?" I guess not....

 

[Kaleigh]

Oh NO

I had heard all the rumors, but was hoping they would make it through. That is very sad. What a bummer.

 

[bling*diva*]

Date: 11/24/2005 3:55:22 AM
Author: Mara

Date: 11/24/2005 2:28:03 AM

Author: bling*diva*

~~Yeah, I just read the same thing on ET too!! I loved them as a couple, and I was really hoping that all of the rumors weren''t true. They just went on a really nice trip to Italy to celebrate their 3rd anniversary, and I thought that they were going to be married forever. It seems like all of these hollywood couples are divorcing and separating lately. I wonder what the reason is for their split, and did ET just post it, or has it been up all day???

That trip to Italy supposedly was just for press to throw them off the trail, I read a huge thing about how Joe, her dad, had all these new things lined up that were to promote them as a couple so having them split up then would not have been good for career etc. Sad that her father couldn''t even think past the almighty dollar to possibly how damaging it could be for his daughter to pretend in a marriage.

I really liked them together even though alot of people did not, I felt like they were two REAL personalities who weren''t afraid to show how human they were....but I also feel like she has gotten caught up in that 15 minutes of fame with the money and the partying and the ''freedom'' from her controlling father, whereas Nick seems more down to earth with simple pleasures. He may be better off without her but I don''t think she could say the same long-term about him.

~~ I had heard the same thing about Joe being a constant fixture in her life. I understand that he''s her father and all, but it seems like he doesn''t even care about what''s best for her. If he did, he would have let them separate when the time was right, not when he realized that they couldn''t "fake it" any longer. I thought they were really cute together, but at the same time, I think Jessica has some growing up to do...

 

[IrishEyes]

Well, it''s definitely sad, but is anyone REALLY that surprised?? These hollywood marriages are all the same it seems. At least that is my point of view. But it is sad and what is even sadder is the paperazzi that will be hounding them even more in the coming months leading up to the divorce. I can''t imagine having to go through that kind of pain publicly. I hope they find some peace and quiet and work everything out amicably.

 

[monarch64]

I was actually pretty surprised to hear this, although the press has reported so many times that they are breaking up. They were, to me, one of those "guilty pleasure" couples, who I took interest in but would never bring up in conversation! I totally agree with Mara that he seems like a simple pleasures guy while she seemed very caught up in Hollywood ways (La Perla undies binge, Luis Vuitton dog carriers, that stuff really made me roll my eyes, because you never saw Nick buying "frivolous" stuff like she was.) But, I thought they were such a good match, her being from the south and kind of young and naive, and him being from Cincinnatti and kind of a gold old boy...I really thought they would last. Oh well. I wonder what''s next for each of them...will she do a complete 180 and become more wilder than Ashlee? Will he fade into obscurity or blossom into the next Justin Timberlake???? I''m "totally" staying tuned.

 

[picky]

hahahahaha. I have nothing but amused scorn for them. And all that smug talk she put on about "saving her precious virginity for Nick".

Yeah, that was worth the wait.

Yup, hard to believe I could possibly be so cynical and engaged, but my fiance''s just as seasoned so we have fun with it.

 

[lmurden]

Date: 11/25/2005 3:35:23 AM
Author: Prisms
hahahahaha. I have nothing but amused scorn for them. And all that smug talk she put on about ''saving her precious virginity for Nick''.

Yeah, that was worth the wait.

Yup, hard to believe I could possibly be so cynical and engaged, but my fiance''s just as seasoned so we have fun with it.

Please be nice!

 

[FireGoddess]

I had heard the rumor, went online to find out some more info and didn't see any, so I thought someone at PS must have posted about this! I was glad to see the thread!

I actually really AM very surprised about the news, and really wish it wasn't true. I have always liked the two of them together, loved their cheesy variety shows and couldn't wait for their Christmas special last year. I also was a follower of their Newlyweds show and of all the couples in Hollywood, really was rooting for them. I think they were very cute together and although the later seasons of Newlyweds weren't so lovey dovey, I thought maybe they were just sick of being videotaped all the time. I think it's a big bummer, although I agree with Mara - it's more of a loss for Jessica than for Nick...he seemed like a very down to earth, normal guy and she's been doing the party and club circuit pretty hard lately. Bummer.

 

[tawn]

Wonder if it had anything to do with those "rumors" about Bam Margera? His dad apparently told some radioshow that they were sleeping together!

They weren''t nearly as annoying as most of the hollywood couples, so it''s kinda sad...but it would be so hard to live your life in a fishbowl like they were!

 

[koko]

Dad Joe is a brilliant PR man; who would believe he could turn his two virtually talentless daughters into major stars, then go on to create "Filthy Rich Cattle Drive...." Ha, Ha. Anyway, this news didn''t surprise me, she hasn''t worn her wedding rings for months & has continued to lie to the press about her marriage on the instruction of her father. When Nick was in Jacksonville, FL at a local nightclub about a year ago, a woman called a local tv station down there to say she had his cell phone# because his friend approached her with it at the club, saying he wanted to hook up with her! I think he''s a hound dog who was not going to be leashed by Jessica & her family!!

 

[picky]

Yup I''ll try to be nice.

It''s just so HARD because I''ve always found them ridiculous. I''ve also found her promise to her father that she will remain a virgin until marriage ridiculous, and well, CREEPY. Who promises their father something like that?! gross. Umm, anyway. And yeah, Nick''s always looked like a player to me. He''s got it written all over him.

 

[picky]

But sure, I kind of wish people put more effort into their marriages. It cheapens the institution and makes people (like me) more cynical.

 

[flutterby]

I always really liked them. They seemed so down to earth....until recently, when she has let her ''fame'' get to her head. Its sad that the world makes it so hard for them to make it, but its teh life they chose. It is kinda like brad and jen the media exploits it way before they announce it......I agree with mara I''m sure he will be better off.

 

[cnspotts]

I thought I''d add that this is again an ugly hoax according to Jessica. She was on the local morning radio station yesterday, the DJ''s finally got around to asking her about it. She says rather disgusted that it''s not true, they''re in love, plan to be married a long time and that Nick had surprised her that morning by showing up wherever she is. She insinuated they''d had a rather fabulous and loving morning together (they were getting it on). She also said that it''s fabulous not having cameras around their house now. They''re finally living in peace except for when they step beyond their front door where the paparazzi are.

The DJ''s teased her that if they ever do really separate that no one would believe it because of it''s ongoing speculation and rumors. She just laughed and said again that it''s not true this time either. She was promoting the Duke''s movie. I guess she''ll have a busy week coming up with that.

Poor kids, I really don''t care for either one of them but it does suck that everyone takes so much interest in their personal life. I wouldn''t want it for anything.

 

[Momoftwo]

Date: 11/26/2005 9:47:31 AM
Author: Prisms
Yup I'll try to be nice.

It's just so HARD because I've always found them ridiculous. I've also found her promise to her father that she will remain a virgin until marriage ridiculous, and well, CREEPY. Who promises their father something like that?! gross. Umm, anyway. And yeah, Nick's always looked like a player to me. He's got it written all over him.

Actually, some people treasure their virginity as a gift they give to their spouse. Not sure why you think it's creepy. But, I do think it's sad that virginity is seen so negatively by some. I know several girls/women and guys who have made promises/vows to remain pure until marriage with their parents knowlege and consent. It's a promise to God and it's more gross for your father to know you're sleeping around IMO. There is nothing wrong with it. What I do see is fame and Hollywood do not add value to relationships and definitely put marriage way down on the list of what is important in life.

 

[Kaleigh]

I agree, and think it''s very nice. There is nothing creepy about it in my book anyways.

 

[picky]

When a woman first has sex using the body God gave her, it''s no one''s buisiness but her own. Grown women shouldn''t have to PROMISE their fathers they will remain virgins. It''s disgusting. Father''s should accept that their daughters are sexual human beings and individuals who have the right to chose when and to whom they have sexual intercourse. I just love how society places such a premium on the "purity" and virginity of women, yet rarely holds the same limits against men. I''m sure if Jessica''s dad had a son, he''d be nudging his son on and patting him on the back with every new conquest. Women making promises to ANYONE that they will remain virgins is just another vehicle for the disgusting sexism still remaining in the world. Anyway, this isn''t a political board, but those are my opinions. And since ya''ll freely shared yours I did as well.

 

[Momoftwo]

Date: 11/27/2005 6:25:05 AM
Author: Prisms
When a woman first has sex using the body God gave her, it's no one's buisiness but her own. Grown women shouldn't have to PROMISE their fathers they will remain virgins. It's disgusting. Father's should accept that their daughters are sexual human beings and individuals who have the right to chose when and to whom they have sexual intercourse. I just love how society places such a premium on the 'purity' and virginity of women, yet rarely holds the same limits against men. I'm sure if Jessica's dad had a son, he'd be nudging his son on and patting him on the back with every new conquest. Women making promises to ANYONE that they will remain virgins is just another vehicle for the disgusting sexism still remaining in the world. Anyway, this isn't a political board, but those are my opinions. And since ya'll freely shared yours I did as well.

Bitter about something?

If you notice, I said guys and girls. Also, I'm still not sure what's "disgusting" about it. It might be unusual for some people, but to me it indicates a close father/daughter relatioship and is more open than not. I don't remember ever hearing anything about her father not "accepting" that she is a woman. Her faith had everything to do with her promise.

 

[picky]

You''re right. My posts come across as bitter on this topic, because I AM bitter about the sexism/hatred of women perpetuated by organized Western religion....especially with the subject of virginity/purity & women. A grown woman promising her FATHER that she will remain a virgin until married is just another example of the double standards and hatred of female sexuality. Fathers need to recognize their daughters are sexual beings.

 

[picky]

I should add, that I RARELY see fathers making their SONS promise virginity until marriage. What a laugh.

 

[Momoftwo]

You need to chill. You are very angry about something that's obviously happened to you. Nowhere did Joe Simpson every say he would do that with a son or not. That's your own speculation based on your experiences. In my experience, I do know boys that have also made that promise and fathers who expect it from their sons. You sound more like you hate men. All men are not alike!

It also tells me you don't really understand what you refer to as "organized western relligion" really is. It's not about sexism at all. It's also not about men having "power" over women.

Anyway, back on topic, I think it's sad that this marriage couldn't survive Hollywood and the constant pressure of being in the spotlight.

 

[picky]

Why should I chill? I am stating my opinion, of which you clearly wanted or you wouldn''t have begun debating the issue with me. I could turn around and say I think YOU should chill. But I won''t, because you have the right to your opinion. ANd so do I. You are the only one who seems to be getting upset around here. And IMO, Western religion IS VERY MUCH about the oppression and hatred of women and female sexuality. Many, many people agree on that point. So you are religious? That is your right. And it''s my right to be anti-organized religion. Why do you feel the need to suppress my point of view just because it is different from yours?

And by the way, I''ve never had any experience with this "virginity" issue. My parents were always feminist and pro-female sexuality. I was raised understanding that my sexuality is beautiful and part of being a human being. It''s so tragically sad so many women are raised to believe their value as human being lies in their virginity and abstaining from sexual activity.

Thanks for assuming I hate men. Yes I''m a feminist, but I LOVE MEN. I''m engaged to a wonderful man. My father and brothers are GREAT. I don''t love sexist religious practices. I don''t love anti-female, antiquated beliefs that devalue women by placing a premium on their virginity.

 

[mrssalvo]

I think it''s very sad to see them split. For some reason I thought they would be one of the few Hollywood couple to make it. I also do not find it creepy that she promised her dad, mom, "future hubby", to wait until marriage. Nothing wrong with doing it because of your faith either. Most of us only know what we hear or read and i''m sure there is much more to this story than we will ever know or should know for that matter. I hope the media will leave them alone for a while.

 

[Laralooblue]

I feel bad for both of them.

While it''s not creepy to maintain that you are saving your virginity until marriage per se, it *is* creepy in the context that the father happens to be Joe Simpson. Some of the things he has publically said about his daughters'' breasts and tush (I''ve cleaned it up) are downright disturbing. You can''t imagine any father saying these things about his daughters.

 

[flutterby]

Everyone is saying we should leave them alone during this time. However, they are the ones that invited us in. They are the ones that when they first got married and were not nearly the stars they are today, invited us into their home. Let us see their imperfections, their jealousy, their careers take off (especially jessica''s) and now that they received this fame and fortune by pimping their relationship, they want us to leave them alone. interesting, i think. Interesting that their fame came from their coupling, that is now over.

 

[larussel03]

Date: 11/26/2005 3:00:35 PM
Author: Momoftwo

Date: 11/26/2005 9:47:31 AM
Author: Prisms
Yup I''ll try to be nice.

It''s just so HARD because I''ve always found them ridiculous. I''ve also found her promise to her father that she will remain a virgin until marriage ridiculous, and well, CREEPY. Who promises their father something like that?! gross. Umm, anyway. And yeah, Nick''s always looked like a player to me. He''s got it written all over him.

Actually, some people treasure their virginity as a gift they give to their spouse. Not sure why you think it''s creepy. But, I do think it''s sad that virginity is seen so negatively by some. I know several girls/women and guys who have made promises/vows to remain pure until marriage with their parents knowlege and consent. It''s a promise to God and it''s more gross for your father to know you''re sleeping around IMO. There is nothing wrong with it. What I do see is fame and Hollywood do not add value to relationships and definitely put marriage way down on the list of what is important in life.

Her dad''s a minister...I think that''s why the promise was so important to him, and why she made that promise to him. From what I understand they are a very religious family, so that''s something I think he holds in high esteem. Kudos to her for making and keeping a promise : ) It''s too bad about their marriage, though.

 

[snuga]

Date: 11/27/2005 1:00:20 PM
Author: *~Sweetpea~*

Date: 11/26/2005 3:00:35 PM
Author: Momoftwo

Date: 11/26/2005 9:47:31 AM
Author: Prisms
Yup I''ll try to be nice.

It''s just so HARD because I''ve always found them ridiculous. I''ve also found her promise to her father that she will remain a virgin until marriage ridiculous, and well, CREEPY. Who promises their father something like that?! gross. Umm, anyway. And yeah, Nick''s always looked like a player to me. He''s got it written all over him.

Actually, some people treasure their virginity as a gift they give to their spouse. Not sure why you think it''s creepy. But, I do think it''s sad that virginity is seen so negatively by some. I know several girls/women and guys who have made promises/vows to remain pure until marriage with their parents knowlege and consent. It''s a promise to God and it''s more gross for your father to know you''re sleeping around IMO. There is nothing wrong with it. What I do see is fame and Hollywood do not add value to relationships and definitely put marriage way down on the list of what is important in life.

Her dad''s a minister...I think that''s why the promise was so important to him, and why she made that promise to him. From what I understand they are a very religious family, so that''s something I think he holds in high esteem. Kudos to her for making and keeping a promise : ) It''s too bad about their marriage, though.

I agree, I think that it''s a shame their marriage is over. The promise that Jessica made to her dad was her choice, and while some people think it''s "creepy" and some think it''s "great", it was her decision, and it''s something everyone should respect. I feel sad that they couldn''t make it last any longer.

I hope they both find happiness.