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Kelinas|1404791419|3708694 said:Yay! Glad to hear your surgery went fine and everything "fit!"
Thought about you all day. I really hope they can get your pain under control!
And the visitation rules seem very..
Not normal.
Thank you Kelinas. I really appreciate you keeping me in your thoughts today. (((Hugs))).
Thank you for the pain reduction wishes too. I cannot even imagine how it would feel without all these pain meds. The night nurse (with whom I share a first name-another good sign I think plus she is so nice) is going to discuss my pain with the "pain team" (LOL gotta love that name) tomorrow because I am still experiencing a lot of pain. But it is the first night after surgery and I truthfully am not surprised. I remember right after the accident I was in lots of pain for a few nights before any real relief.
Sorry I was not very clear (drug induced haze) on HSS's visitation rules. These apply only to the recovery area where there are others recovering from their surgical procedures. Hence the limits. I just think they take it to the extreme and are doing it because it is easier for the hospital and not better for us. My opinion only (but being in healthcare for over 25 years gives me a different vantage point) but I bet I am not very far off from my interpretation of these rules.
Regular visiting hours once you are in your room- 11AM to 9PM. Much more civilized to be sure.
Just to show you the emotionally fragile state I was in when I checked in this morning and the very nice personnel were explaining the rules when they got to that one tears started streaming down my face (silent crying perhaps not as bad as bawling but still not a good reason at all to start crying!) I was embarrassed but the woman was lovely and very compassionate and it was OK.
If I was very wealthy and/or inclined to pay for a private room let's just say rules do not apply. My dh could stay overnight and come and go as he pleased. And perhaps they even have a separate recovery area for people who are private pay and pay for their own hospital room and maybe even staff. But I don't know if that is true, probably not. But now that I have finished the surgery I feel emotionally stronger and am just fine here alone. Plus the staff is very competent and I know I will be fine. Still nervous about recovery and all that jazz but one day at a time and I am finished (at least for now more on that later perhaps) with the surgery. Woohoo!