Lilac
Brilliant_Rock
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I wouldn''t be offended at all. She might be inviting you out of obligation (not trying to offend, I''m only saying that because if you haven''t spoken much to her and aren''t close, she might just be sending the STD and invite because her mom told her she must do that). My only concern would be offending the SIL or BIL, but you shouldn''t have to go to something far away just to avoid the possibility of offending them. Hopefully they will understand.
You said nobody "bothers" to come to you and your DH for a visit, so I''m wondering if you would feel comfortable declining to come to the wedding but throwing something in like, "We would love to have you and your new husband over sometime for a visit!" I know you said you aren''t close with her though, so if you would not feel comfortable doing that then I think you should just send a nice card and a gift. I really don''t think she would be offended at all.
You said nobody "bothers" to come to you and your DH for a visit, so I''m wondering if you would feel comfortable declining to come to the wedding but throwing something in like, "We would love to have you and your new husband over sometime for a visit!" I know you said you aren''t close with her though, so if you would not feel comfortable doing that then I think you should just send a nice card and a gift. I really don''t think she would be offended at all.