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Hello all,

I decided recently that I would certify any gems in my collection not yet tested, because I am now beginning to have them all set (which I wanted to share with everyone here, as the projects progressed). I've never set any of my gems before, so I am (was) excited! Anyway, there were 4 not yet certified... a spessartine (The Rare Gemstone Co.), royal purple garnet (AJS Gems), pink tourmaline (Africa Gems), and paraiba (JTV). These are all reliable sellers, but I always certify regardless, because I have trust issues. :oops:

I routinely overnight gems via Fedex to GIA or, in this case, AGL. But I was reeeeeally tempted to use USPS this time, because it only costs about 20% of the Fedex charge. And those costs add up, along with the lab fees, as you all know. So, against my better judgment, and to save a buck (smh), I sent the 4 stones to AGL via priority with signature confirmation. The 4 stones together stand me about $17k. I gambled on not fully insuring the package, because I would have needed an independent policy.

What do you think happened the one time I didn't use Fedex? Yep, you guessed it! The USPS has royally bungled this shipment. I'm really kicking myself because I hate, hate, hate the post office. I find them to be completely undependable and blasé about the entire process. And, frankly, that's why they're so cheap. Why... WHY did I send it USPS?! Losing the money would suck, but I'd feel even worse about losing the stones themselves.

The package has been bouncing around to every possible PO in NYC... back and forth, back and forth... it keeps getting "forwarded" around to the same distribution center and then sent out again the next day to, apparently, the wrong destination PO. I opened a case, and they simply said give it time and "it's not lost, because it's still scanning." But something is obviously wrong. And it's next to impossible to get a human on the phone who has any idea what's going on. When the box and label left my possession, they were 100% correct and intact... I have a copy of the label in my account. But the USPS system keeps saying that either the recipient has given them forwarding instructions or the zip code is wrong. Neither is true, so I don't know what to think. In my small state, if you call your local PO, they will physically retrieve a package to redirect it or return it to you. Obviously, that is not going to happen in NYC.

In any event, you can imagine my concern. I realize there are much more important things going on in the world right now, but please send some happy gem energy my way? I'll be pretty sick over it if this package is never "found." I feel like the more hands it goes through, the more it's just begging to be stolen or lost in the shuffle.

Sigh... sorry for the spiel. I'm such an IDIOT. Don't cheap out on shipping your gems, folks. Don't be like Autumn. :wall:
 
Oh my goodness! At least it isn't lost, FedEx managed to lose some samples for my work for 2 weeks between Heathrow and the destination! Sending you good vibes they make it to AGL soon!
 
FedEx is the only way to get peace of mind when shipping expensive gems. And always one at a time unless you are fully insured. I hope your gems arrive eventually but you really made two rookie mistakes here.

I regularly ship gems abroad and back, and it is never a happy feeling. I can only imagine how you feel now…

Good luck and remember, there are two types of problems: the ones you can resolve, and the ones you can’t. Worrying adds nothing in either case…yeah, easier said than done.

Keep us posted!
 
Oh man, I can feel how stressful this is for you. It’s scary enough to send your gems out, let alone have them bouncing all over NY. I’m hopeful that it’s just hitting some delays and the fact that it’s still scanning has to be a good sign right? I’m sending you all the good vibes and hoping that your package makes it to AGL without any further issues.
 
Vibes fresh squeezed, just for you. It may be on the lower level of traumatic, but it's traumatic all the same. I hope that soon you'll be reunited and you can ask them what their adventures were like and pretend they tell you something that makes this major PIA worth it. Fingers crossed!
 
My heart rate went up literally after reading this, I feel for you and hope you get them back Autumn!
 
* Spreading gem dust everywhere*

I was so worried about my rings getting lost in the mail system that I had my rings resized locally at a trusted but super expensive bench instead of sending them out to my usual out of state bench. Just for that peace of mind.
 
Winging some dust over to you!

Have faith, as I did with my package that was lost in the system after it was rejected by the Chinese PO for whatever reason(s), and it took a few months for it to be returned back to me.

The CSs and a pair of 6mm OEC Moissanites did not add up to much, and I could replaced them with relative ease; however, I really liked the colour of the 6ct+ Aquamarine that Jeff W had cut for me back in 20016!

Something up there was looking after me for certain!


DK :))
 
Lots of gem dust for you dear.
I always had my stones sent to a jeweller in Antwerp with only the best and reliable shippers. Except once… And offcourse it got lost and disappeared from the tracking system. Until one fine day it showed up in my mail box at home.
Keep the faith! I hope your package will show up again.
 
Positive vibes sent. One thing you could try is calling the lab and asking them to call and have the package redirected to another address if that’s an option. I think it’s a good sign it’s still scanning. It will get there.
 
Oh no what a mess. Sending positive vibes your way. Just in case it makes you feel better; I had USPS lose a stone for almost 3 months. Mine stopped scanning though. I assumed it was completely lost but it randomly showed up at its destination months later. Id say the fact that yours is still scanning is a good sign.
 
I'm sending you good vibes. USPS was denied funding when it was slammed during the pandemic...so, not ideal. If it makes you feel any better, I've had some weird package delivery issues in the recent past, but in the end they were always delivered. The fact that they are still being scanned is a good sign.
 
Oh how worrying! Actually I just shipped a spinel ring overseas for a recut today using FedEx but they only cover 1000 dollars for jewellery - I looked into DHL, UPS and also Parcelforce (UK carrier) and none offer full coverage for jewellery, some don't even allow them to be sent..so I too am hoping that things will be ok.

Although it's not great that your package is 'bouncing around', at least for now it isn't deemed lost, so there is hope.
 
Also, sometimes packages 'bounce around' locations due to Covid restrictions where it seems to take a detour (I had that with a DHL package before though it arrived safely), and apparently I heard that sometimes the USPS delivery staff mark items as delivered when they are on their way to deliver it. I have had similar things with some discount couriers like DPD in the UK. They text you to say that they are on their way, then email you shortly to say you were not in. You then log in online to find that they had altered their records to say they had rescheduled delivery earlier that day to the next day (even though you haven't). Still, they get there in the end.
 
Hello all,

I decided recently that I would certify any gems in my collection not yet tested, because I am now beginning to have them all set (which I wanted to share with everyone here, as the projects progressed). I've never set any of my gems before, so I am (was) excited! Anyway, there were 4 not yet certified... a spessartine (The Rare Gemstone Co.), royal purple garnet (AJS Gems), pink tourmaline (Africa Gems), and paraiba (JTV). These are all reliable sellers, but I always certify regardless, because I have trust issues. :oops:

I routinely overnight gems via Fedex to GIA or, in this case, AGL. But I was reeeeeally tempted to use USPS this time, because it only costs about 20% of the Fedex charge. And those costs add up, along with the lab fees, as you all know. So, against my better judgment, and to save a buck (smh), I sent the 4 stones to AGL via priority with signature confirmation. The 4 stones together stand me about $17k. I gambled on not fully insuring the package, because I would have needed an independent policy.

What do you think happened the one time I didn't use Fedex? Yep, you guessed it! The USPS has royally bungled this shipment. I'm really kicking myself because I hate, hate, hate the post office. I find them to be completely undependable and blasé about the entire process. And, frankly, that's why they're so cheap. Why... WHY did I send it USPS?! Losing the money would suck, but I'd feel even worse about losing the stones themselves.

The package has been bouncing around to every possible PO in NYC... back and forth, back and forth... it keeps getting "forwarded" around to the same distribution center and then sent out again the next day to, apparently, the wrong destination PO. I opened a case, and they simply said give it time and "it's not lost, because it's still scanning." But something is obviously wrong. And it's next to impossible to get a human on the phone who has any idea what's going on. When the box and label left my possession, they were 100% correct and intact... I have a copy of the label in my account. But the USPS system keeps saying that either the recipient has given them forwarding instructions or the zip code is wrong. Neither is true, so I don't know what to think. In my small state, if you call your local PO, they will physically retrieve a package to redirect it or return it to you. Obviously, that is not going to happen in NYC.

In any event, you can imagine my concern. I realize there are much more important things going on in the world right now, but please send some happy gem energy my way? I'll be pretty sick over it if this package is never "found." I feel like the more hands it goes through, the more it's just begging to be stolen or lost in the shuffle.

Sigh... sorry for the spiel. I'm such an IDIOT. Don't cheap out on shipping your gems, folks. Don't be like Autumn. :wall:
Sorry to hear that. Bad luck.

I used USPS 1000's and 1000's of times all over the world, never lost a stone, though I do know those who have. But I have had them be late. Once 6 months late overseas but it did show up. I had refunded for the stone and the buyer finally received it and paid me back my refund. Funny who things work at times.

Keep your chin up. Your stones will make it there. I have seen this quite a few times.

As far as FedEx many of my sources when I was dealing sent FedEx. They lost one and some were late, but generally very reliable.
 
Thank you all for the "gem dust," happy thoughts, and hugs (especially)! It is very comforting to hear that many of you have had delay issues, but that the packages ended up at their destinations eventually. :pray: After being forwarded yet again yesterday, it is back at the main distribution center in NYC. The package has gone out to several destination facilities in all different zip codes around the city. Interested to see where it ends up next! I just can't figure out what the problem is... totally stumped.

Anyway, I'll keep you all posted... thank you, friends, for commiserating with this knucklehead. :roll:
 
Sending you positive gem vibes!
 
@Autumn in New England
Sending you lots and lots of sparkly dust!
I hope the stones make it to their destination soon!
 
Hi Autumn. I’m so sorry this is happening to you. A few months back, I sent a sapphire ring and it did the same thing … bounced around different locations and was giving me heart attacks. I opened a case online and it eventually got to its destination. So I’m sure it will get there … eventually. :)
 
Hi Autumn. I’m so sorry this is happening to you. A few months back, I sent a sapphire ring and it did the same thing … bounced around different locations and was giving me heart attacks. I opened a case online and it eventually got to its destination. So I’m sure it will get there … eventually. :)

What a relief to hear, thank you! I hope I have as good a luck as you, my friend!!
 
Hello all,

I decided recently that I would certify any gems in my collection not yet tested, because I am now beginning to have them all set (which I wanted to share with everyone here, as the projects progressed). I've never set any of my gems before, so I am (was) excited! Anyway, there were 4 not yet certified... a spessartine (The Rare Gemstone Co.), royal purple garnet (AJS Gems), pink tourmaline (Africa Gems), and paraiba (JTV). These are all reliable sellers, but I always certify regardless, because I have trust issues. :oops:

I routinely overnight gems via Fedex to GIA or, in this case, AGL. But I was reeeeeally tempted to use USPS this time, because it only costs about 20% of the Fedex charge. And those costs add up, along with the lab fees, as you all know. So, against my better judgment, and to save a buck (smh), I sent the 4 stones to AGL via priority with signature confirmation. The 4 stones together stand me about $17k. I gambled on not fully insuring the package, because I would have needed an independent policy.

What do you think happened the one time I didn't use Fedex? Yep, you guessed it! The USPS has royally bungled this shipment. I'm really kicking myself because I hate, hate, hate the post office. I find them to be completely undependable and blasé about the entire process. And, frankly, that's why they're so cheap. Why... WHY did I send it USPS?! Losing the money would suck, but I'd feel even worse about losing the stones themselves.

The package has been bouncing around to every possible PO in NYC... back and forth, back and forth... it keeps getting "forwarded" around to the same distribution center and then sent out again the next day to, apparently, the wrong destination PO. I opened a case, and they simply said give it time and "it's not lost, because it's still scanning." But something is obviously wrong. And it's next to impossible to get a human on the phone who has any idea what's going on. When the box and label left my possession, they were 100% correct and intact... I have a copy of the label in my account. But the USPS system keeps saying that either the recipient has given them forwarding instructions or the zip code is wrong. Neither is true, so I don't know what to think. In my small state, if you call your local PO, they will physically retrieve a package to redirect it or return it to you. Obviously, that is not going to happen in NYC.

In any event, you can imagine my concern. I realize there are much more important things going on in the world right now, but please send some happy gem energy my way? I'll be pretty sick over it if this package is never "found." I feel like the more hands it goes through, the more it's just begging to be stolen or lost in the shuffle.

Sigh... sorry for the spiel. I'm such an IDIOT. Don't cheap out on shipping your gems, folks. Don't be like Autumn. :wall:

OMG ! :x2
What is wrong with the universe ?

You are one of the trully good, kind people who should never be felled by such bad luck
Stupid F-ing post office :x2
 
Another (odten used) good luck story
only it cost a tiny fraction of yours but i was waiting for a Bruce Springsteen dvd i had to import it (because we dont get everything here and if we do i have the worst luck and its weeks after the US releases) anyway so it was a tiny slim package
now i don't remember how it came (well in an airplane) or who i brought it from - i don't always use Amazon - but it will have been unloaded into a big cage and sent on a big truck
i have seen those big truck and trailers NZ post us at night out on the highway so no doubt the USPS has similar
Anyway it had tracking and i knew it was down the road at the local depo
I was having it delivered to work so i knew the courier and he was looking out for it
I waited and waited and waited
About 10) latter i was getting really worried
lucky it was a one horse town and the lady at the depo i talked to on the phone got off her bum and left her nice warm office and went out into the vast expanse of the depo and looked inside a few of those cages and found my little package had slipped down and was being missed every day when the vans were loaded
Your package will also be small
So i really reallly hope a similar thing has happened and its safe, just being overlooked
 
Oh, been there. Sending you all my missing package vibes… I sold a ring and sent it via USPS per the buyer’s request. Took 12 days when I paid for two day, but having sent it insured and certified, I opened a case and I did finally show up.
 
I think it’ll be ok.
The last couple things I sent out/received pinged all over the place and was still doing so when they delivered.

Fingers crossed tho!
Aesop’s fable (the cartoon one after rocky and bullwinkle) surely covered this scenario :)
 
Hi! I wanted to tell you that I just had a similar experience with USPS. I had something shipped from overseas that was very precious, and USPS stopped tracking right after it left it's destination. I thought it was lost but I just got it and everything is intact! I just think they're struggling a bit now.
 
I live in Manhattan. Anything I can do to help? Pick it up and send It back to you or to it’s actual destination via FedEx? Go harass the distribution center it keeps getting scanned at?

Sorry this happened :( I always use fedex for this reason. USPS is horrific and there’s no accountability. If you had sent a piece of junk mail, I’m sure it would have arrived early and in one piece.
 
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