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Ideal_Rock
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Date: 4/6/2007 7:51:11 AM
Author: novia
my staff ALWAYS refers to me by my first name, including in patient rooms. i insist on it. we are a team. my medical students also call me by my first name. yes, there is a heirarchy, but that doesn''t mean we all have to follow it. i am novia and, yes, i happen to be a physician, but you already knew that. that''s why you''re here.
Wifey2b, maybe you and my mother go to the same church. My mother's minister also made a comment about cancer being a judgement several years ago-- right after she went to him for spiritual guidance when she was diagnosed with metastatic breast cancer. Just what she needed huh? I'm really sorry about your minister. He is wrong-- you do know that I hope. Cancer can be a test of faith by God, but not a judgement of it. Unfortunately, "men (and women) of God" can be just as arrogant, prejudiced and insensitive as anyone else. I'm sorry that yours is like that. It seems to me like the only judgement coming down is from the minister himself!! Going to worship should lift you up, never bring you down. I guess God changed His mind about judgment in my mom's case. She has now passed the 10 year mark of being cancer free and we are thankful that He has granted us all more time on earth with her. I wish the same good health for you, wifey2bDate: 4/4/2007 5:21:53 PM
Author: wifey2b
ok, one more - and how can I say this respectfully, only applying to one... Some Ministers...
like mine who asked me on Sunday in front of the whole adult class how I would like to have the stork come and visit me so I could build my own little nest...A slap in the face seeing as I had to have a complete hysterectomy just a year ago due to cancer...oh yes...and about a month ago he preached - cancer was a judgement - so I'm up you know what creek without a paddle I guessAll I have been doing since Sunday...
guess I shouldn't have answered this one eh lol
Date: 4/6/2007 10:11:32 AM
Author: moremoremore
For a second I was really offended...that the legal profession attracts jerks..but then I thought about who I deal with on a daily basis LOL...You''re so right