I agree that what they did was very thoughtless but the friend who told me was honest enough to speak to my boyfriend about what happened. I think it was pretty mature on her part to apologize to him for ruining it and to offer to make it right. My boyfriend has since decided on a new proposal idea so no real harm done. I try my best to not hold grudges and I have known this friend since we were little. She has been there for me during the best and worst times of my life and I cant imagine not having her as a bridesmaid. My boyfriend even suggested we make red wine our signature drink for wedding as an inside joke! I guess my boyfriend and I are the same way in some respects we find it hard to stay mad long..Amber St. Clare|1305062207|2917740 said:Guilty Pleasure|1304292051|2909475 said:Your friends suck.
I totally agree. How immature and thoughtless. I hope you aren't thinking of asking these friends of being in your bridal party.