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I can''t walk and chew gum at the same time, so I''m just driving without talking or prodding.Date: 6/25/2009 4:18:22 PM
Author: Pandora II
Kid on knee so quick one...
RE: screaming for hours in carseat v CIO in a cot, I think the difference is that with the carseat you are still there and can talk to them, prod them occasionally etc whereas you feel like you''ve abandoned them in a cot...
Diva that''s great!Date: 6/25/2009 9:26:23 PM
Author: DivaDiamond007
I wanted to pop in to comment about the CIO method. We have started doing this with James because he must learn how to put himself to sleep. So far so good, although it''s only been a few days. He usually only cries for about 5 minutes, then will talk to himself and then nod off. He''s almost a year old so we put him to bed with a blanket and he also has a stuffed toy with a rattle in it.
Oh dear, you poor thing - it seems like we have identical problems!Date: 6/25/2009 10:58:04 PM
Author: TanDogMom
hi there! I am an occasional poster to PS (have been around a long time though!) My DS is 3 months old. I''ve been reading this thread and Pandora, I totally empathise - my DS sounds a lot like your Daisy in terms of naps, wanting to be held, etc.
Blen, my little guy ''A'' is just a few weeks older than your little guy, and they look a LOT alike!
Question about carseats. We have the Graco Snugride, and my son seems to hate it. However, it may just be that he doesn''t like to be put down in that position. THe seat doesn''t seem to have much padding at all, though. Do you all think it is worth trying a more plush carseat (like the Chicco or even the fancier Graco) or maybe just buy a convertible seat? I thought we''d use the snap-n-go, or use the carseat on top of a shopping cart when we run errands, but he cries nearly the whole time he is in the seat. It''s getting increasingly harder to take him anywhere. I usually end up wearing him in a front carrier when we run errands, but even that is hit or miss.
I posted this question about naps on the other moms thread as well, but wanted to get insight from you all too.
We are following the Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child book and things are going very well for night sleeping. I also read Babywise, No Cry Sleep Solution, and am reading Baby Whisperer right now, and the experts seem to agree on many things. My son is 3 months old and exclusively breastfed. He has a loooong feed around 7 pm, followed by a story and lullaby, then sleeps in his crib. He is not sleeping thru the night yet but goes to sleep pretty well and then is up 1 or 2 times in 12 hours for a quick feed. I''m pretty happy with his night sleeping.
Trouble is naps. We do eat-play-sleep (or EASY) during the day. I am putting him down in his crib at the first signs of drowsiness, and trying to keep him up for no more than 1-2 hours at a time as suggested by most of the experts. But, he fights and fights having a nap in his crib - or else sleeps just 10 or 20 min and wakes up screaming. I am OK with letting him cry a little bit, but he just gets himself all worked up and does not seem to settle himself down at all. Then it is time for the next feed and he hasn''t had a nap. My mom said I was the same way as a baby, and slept very little during the day.
I can get him to nap quite well in his swing, though, or in the stroller while we''re walking. If we stop walking, or I stop the swing, he wakes right up screaming. I know the motion is a bad habit, but I''ve tried and tried for still naps in the crib and am just not having success. I;ve decided that naps in the swing are better than no naps at all, but do you all think I am setting myself up for bad habits? Any suggestions?
ETA Enjoyed the recent posts by DD and TGal about CIO and DD''s nap success. I wish my guy would settle himself after a couple minutes - but he doesn''t, and I don''t have the heart to let him CIO for more than 5-10 min at this age, UNLESS we are in the car and I can''t do anythting about it as you all mentioned!
Date: 6/26/2009 12:55:16 PM
Author: Pandora II
Date: 6/25/2009 10:58:04 PM
Author: TanDogMom
hi there! I am an occasional poster to PS (have been around a long time though!) My DS is 3 months old. I've been reading this thread and Pandora, I totally empathise - my DS sounds a lot like your Daisy in terms of naps, wanting to be held, etc.
Blen, my little guy 'A' is just a few weeks older than your little guy, and they look a LOT alike!
Question about carseats. We have the Graco Snugride, and my son seems to hate it. However, it may just be that he doesn't like to be put down in that position. THe seat doesn't seem to have much padding at all, though. Do you all think it is worth trying a more plush carseat (like the Chicco or even the fancier Graco) or maybe just buy a convertible seat? I thought we'd use the snap-n-go, or use the carseat on top of a shopping cart when we run errands, but he cries nearly the whole time he is in the seat. It's getting increasingly harder to take him anywhere. I usually end up wearing him in a front carrier when we run errands, but even that is hit or miss.
I posted this question about naps on the other moms thread as well, but wanted to get insight from you all too.
We are following the Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child book and things are going very well for night sleeping. I also read Babywise, No Cry Sleep Solution, and am reading Baby Whisperer right now, and the experts seem to agree on many things. My son is 3 months old and exclusively breastfed. He has a loooong feed around 7 pm, followed by a story and lullaby, then sleeps in his crib. He is not sleeping thru the night yet but goes to sleep pretty well and then is up 1 or 2 times in 12 hours for a quick feed. I'm pretty happy with his night sleeping.
Trouble is naps. We do eat-play-sleep (or EASY) during the day. I am putting him down in his crib at the first signs of drowsiness, and trying to keep him up for no more than 1-2 hours at a time as suggested by most of the experts. But, he fights and fights having a nap in his crib - or else sleeps just 10 or 20 min and wakes up screaming. I am OK with letting him cry a little bit, but he just gets himself all worked up and does not seem to settle himself down at all. Then it is time for the next feed and he hasn't had a nap. My mom said I was the same way as a baby, and slept very little during the day.
I can get him to nap quite well in his swing, though, or in the stroller while we're walking. If we stop walking, or I stop the swing, he wakes right up screaming. I know the motion is a bad habit, but I've tried and tried for still naps in the crib and am just not having success. I;ve decided that naps in the swing are better than no naps at all, but do you all think I am setting myself up for bad habits? Any suggestions?
ETA Enjoyed the recent posts by DD and TGal about CIO and DD's nap success. I wish my guy would settle himself after a couple minutes - but he doesn't, and I don't have the heart to let him CIO for more than 5-10 min at this age, UNLESS we are in the car and I can't do anythting about it as you all mentioned!
Oh dear, you poor thing - it seems like we have identical problems!
Daisy HATES the carseat with a vengeance AND the car - and hers is very well padded, it's just that she doesn't like being strapped into anything and she's not attached to us. I even have one of those mirrors in the car so that we can see her and vice-versa (I don't drive at all) and it still doesn't help.
The baby carrier is great - as long as you don't stop moving, the minute you stand still she starts up again... I do many a weird dance in the supermarket while selecting fruit and veg...Ditto with the pram - I took her out on the terrace yesterday thinking that if I pushed her up and down till she fell asleep I could do a few things. Yeah right, everytime I snuck off she'd wake up and bawl again.
Bouncy vibrating chair with all singing, all dancing lights, music etc gives us about 10 minutes of peace and quiet...
I LOATHE the 20 minute naps though as they just mean that she has recuperated enough for the next 6 hour stretch.
On the other hand, she is an angel at night. Last night she fell asleep at 11.30pm so I went to bed and just stuck her in her cot. She woke up at 4am for a 15 minute feed then back to sleep until 7.30am when she came into bed with me, fed and then fell asleep next to me until 10am. DH says it's quite funny as we both sleep in exactly the same position right down to our hands.
Interesting that your mother said that you were the same. Both mine and DH's mothers have said that neither of us would sleep in the daytime (and he didn't sleep at night either) and that we need to wait for her to be able to walk or talk to grow out of it - apparently that was when we both stopped being such PITAs.
I'm avidly studying the Baby Whisperer in hope of an epiphany...
Date: 6/25/2009 10:01:04 PM
Author: dreamer_dachsie
Date: 6/25/2009 9:26:23 PM
Author: DivaDiamond007
I wanted to pop in to comment about the CIO method. We have started doing this with James because he must learn how to put himself to sleep. So far so good, although it''s only been a few days. He usually only cries for about 5 minutes, then will talk to himself and then nod off. He''s almost a year old so we put him to bed with a blanket and he also has a stuffed toy with a rattle in it.
Diva that''s great!
Hunter seems to do that too most of the time... Am I strange that I don''t think of 5 minutes as ''crying'' it out? I have friends whos kids cry for 45 minutes or moreThat I don''t think I could do.
Nope, the only possible distraction is a plain old boring spit-up cloth...Date: 6/26/2009 10:24:28 PM
Author: TravelingGal
Congrats Neat!
DD, hope things go well in the househunting department!
Diva, aw...that''s great! I haven''t even experienced that with Amelia yet.
And for the tough nappers...just thought I''d throw in the boring sleep area thing. No printed sheets, bumpers, mobiles?
Thanks Mia! I am fairly certain tha the could still roll even with the "walls" beside him! But it is worth a try!Date: 6/27/2009 11:31:00 PM
Author: mia1181
Dreamer- Just popping in to say two words: SLEEP POSITIONER
That should do the trick! I''ll see if I can find a pic, but it is basically a piece of fabric connecting two pieces of triangular foam. You just place the baby wedged between the foam and he can''t roll. Most babies hit this stage where they are emerging rollers, but haven''t mastered it enough to always get themselves back.
ETA: Here ya go- http://www.toysrus.com/family/index.jsp?categoryId=2256227