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I'm so sorry for your loss @MamaBee
Oh no, my heart goes out to you @MamaBee. I am so very, very sorry. I'm sending you lots of comfort, love, and support. I know how hard this is. (((HUGS)))
@missy I don’t know how you got through losing so many..I can’t bear this..I loved Gordie, my first dog,..I cried for two years..but Bailey was special. I’ll never get over this..I wish we had an emoji that was a hug emoji. And a crying emoji. For now know you remain in my thoughts and I am sending you ((((((hugs)))))). And I know Bailey is with Francesca and Billy and Buster and Butch and Fred and one day we will be reunited with them.
@MamaBee, I am so very sorry to hear about Bailey. So very hard losing a beloved pet. Take good care.
@Mamambee, I’m so very very sorry for your loss. Please try to find some peace and comfort in knowing you gave him a wonderful life with you and you were with him at the end. He felt your face on his and your love. Hugs, Callie.
Oh @MamaBee I am so sorry to hear about Bailey. I know you did not make this decision without a lot of agonizing about his quality of life, but all the same, it is such a painful (for humans) thing to do, even if it's the most humane. Bailey will now be free of pain and by being with him at the end, you are giving him one of the greatest gifts. All my love to you and him.
@missy I don’t know how you got through losing so many..I can’t bear this..I loved Gordie, my first dog,..I cried for two years..but Bailey was special. I’ll never get over this..
Thank you @missy..I may have already replied to this post but I’m truly out of it. I don’t think I can ever get another pet. My husband feels the same. The pain is so bad.
I just wanted to respond to this post. It is OK to feel however you are feeling. And we deal with grief whichever way is best for us. And any way is OK as long as you allow yourself to feel however you are feeling. Let it out and do not try to force anything. And remember however you are feeling now can and will change. And that is OK too. We all react differently when dealing with loss and pain and grief. And it is all the right way to react as long as you are allowing yourself to feel your true feelings. ((((((HUGS)))))))).
I can see the pure love for you shining from his beautiful eyes. I know the awful pain of grief comes in huge waves that overwhelms us
I’m so sorry Mamabee. I’m honestly crying over here. I may not have known Bailey but, god, do I know the pain you’re going through. I’m heartbroken for your loss. I wish we could keep them with us forever. Bailey looks like he was the sweetest boy and that adorable little ear is so charming. I’m sending you big hugs right now.
Thank you everyone..I will thank you individually later. I‘m so nauseous..with an awful pounding headache. I can’t stop crying. I loved him so much. I put my face on his face while he passed. As soon as my face went on his face I felt him sigh. He always did that…Then I told her to go ahead. I’m absolutely devastated.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know how difficult this can be. But as others have said, you loved him and gave him his best life. That's all we can do. And when the time comes where we know they can no longer have a quality life we have to be selfless and let them go, no matter how hard.
Thank you @missy I’ve always been a good coper but this has thrown me down. I hope I can move through this to just good memories.
Oh @MamaBee my heart breaks for Bailey and you
i still cry every day over Tibby
i think our fur babies are all irreplaceable just like humans
Gary said no more cats when Tibby died - we still have dear little
Borris
But then the Fluffa Duffa came into our life/ house of her own accord (getting a cat is a bit different to a new pup)
She doesn't replace Tibby because his place is his alone just how Borris didn't replace dear Tinky
but i like to think the Fluffa Duffa is part of a chain passing on the love from Tibby and Tinky
Not sure what Borris' thoughts are on the matter ....but Gary loves the Fluffa Duffa
Today she washed my hand - she must have thoight i was very dirty because it was more than the obligatory lick ive ever had from any of them before
I wait for the moment i can think of Tibby and be happy with the memory and not feel the pain of loss
But just like when human people die, grief has no defined time table
I think you can take comfort in the thought Bailey truly loved you and knew you trully loved back
@MamaBee, You made it easier for Bailey. At the end of the day that is truly the best gift we can give our furbabies. Please remind yourself of this when you feel overcome with emotion. He was loved everyday he spent with you and you showed him that love right up until the end.
I hope somehow you can spend some time with your grandchildren this weekend. They can’t take the pain away but they can help make times like this a little more bearable.
HI:
@MamaBee : I am just reading about your loss and I am very sorry. Take care of you and your families feelings at present.
kind regards--Sharon
Thank you @ZestfullyBling You could never overstep. When you are a pet parent you understand my loss. That helps to know you were able to move past to happy memories.@MamaBee again I'm so sorry for your loss. You have been heavy on my mind.
I just started thinking on my furbabies that past on. I hope I'm not overstepping.
It's so amazing the bond we form with our furbabies and the bond they form with us. They understand us, they know us, they communicate with us nonverbally and verbally. It's a special bond.
Rylo is our 4th bullmastiff. Because they each have there own personality they can never be replaced. I found a video of him when he was 1st adopted. Brought tears to my eyes.
It's so heartwarming to see our FB grow and mature and live with the love we give them and the love and devotion they give us.
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