Frenchieglitter
Shiny_Rock
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- Feb 5, 2024
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he said he would have been really mad if I had just not said anything and had gone somewhere else to have it redesigned.
Well this is another red flag IMO. What's he got to mad about??? He and his bench messed it up, so should have THANKED you for coming back at all, say sorry, and offer a refund (sounds like he's trying to avoid that though). NOT say he woulda been mad at you Really sounds like he doesn't accept responsibility, he keeps finding sneaky ways to shift guilty feelings back to you.
Just curious, do you know why it has to be sent back to the bench that messed it up? Since it's not an in-house bench, is that the only bench he uses? Could you find a different bench and still work through this jeweler since you feel the pull for loyalty?
Again, I sincerely hope it works out and you're totally thrilled in the end. If you have any reservations, don't argue with yourself. Trust your gut.