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Guilty Pleasure|1343062033|3238582 said:Liking someone's excited wedding post on facebook does not necessarily equal needling for an invite.
Agreed, but, to be fair, I think she was talking about a friend "liking" a passive agressive status update from another friend about not being invited to certain events, rather than about people liking excited wedding posts.
I've been pretty lucky with my facebook friends thus far, everyone seems supportive and happy. Though I did have one friend post something I thought was pretty rude this weekend. I posted a status about how I was panicking over an upcoming exam (i.e, not wedding-related at all), and she replied that she was also panicking...about the cost of the hotel for my wedding. I thought that was totally out of left field and uncalled for, especially since we negotiated a really low price for our guests. She's welcome to stay somewhere else if she wants, but I don't think she's going to find a lower price anywhere in Northern NJ.
Anyway, end tangent. Sorry. Facebook can be weird, but I try not to put too much stock in it. What's extra weird for me, since FI and I have had a long engagement, is that several of my fb friends who ARE invited to my wedding have gotten engaged after us and married before us...and have not invited us to their weddings. I mean, I know it doesn't have to be completely reciprocal, but it's weird when a friend who already has my Save the Date on her refrigerator gets married and doesn't invite me. I'm not catty, though, so no changing the guest list now. I love my friends and I'm just going to keep that in mind through all the planning madness, no matter what else happens.