Setting poll for AVR

[rainydaze]

I voted for the VC. You've been consistent on that setting for a long time, and VCs really are quite luxurious in feel and form. Special, with a capital S.

Here's the thing: your other big contender is the setting you already have. So, I know this would not be your ideal scenario because you want to get it right end of story, but if the VC doesn't blow you away you could always reset back to the Vatche. If that happens, the VC suits your style for RHRs so it wouldn't be a waste of money if you could put another stone into it and enjoy it that way. I know you've posted your bucket list for jewelry but it escapes me at the moment - is there another colored stone/RHR you want in your collection that could serve this purpose if need be?

There's no urgency to figure out the band. If you get the VC and love it, you'll know if the Legacy completes it for you after wearing them together for a bit, or if you crave the matching VC band.

The only drawback is that if you end up going back to the Vatche, knowing how you think you wouldn't feel right spending the money on a different band to go with it (i.e. the SS). As in, you had your chance girl and you blew it! I know this is part of the problem and reason for your paralysis. So, you'd have to be whole with taking the chance on the VC and possibly ending up with the set you currently have (no new anything).

Unless…. you could bring yourself to justify the band for another occasion now knowing for sure this is what you want because, well, the VC didn't work out and this was the other option.

They're both gorgeous, classy looks, but that VC, man. Sumptuous!

 

[SB621]

Add me to the VC camp! I love the setting and it would totally compliment your gorgeous stone. You've lived that setting for quite a while and the fact that you haven't wavered at all says a lot to me. Go for it!

+1

 

[chrono]

I have the same VC setting in 18K YG and it is divine. However, it seems to me to suit smaller stones (even if sized appropriately for a larger stone). The SS band and Bev K aren't blowing my socks off but that's just me. Usually, when I am not sure, I go with my gut feel, which in this case, if I don't feel or see a clear winner, then none of the choices are right at this moment in time.

 

[diamondseeker2006]

I am reading all the responses and REALLY appreciate each one who has taken the time to post!!!

I have the same VC setting in 18K YG and it is divine. However, it seems to me to suit smaller stones (even if sized appropriately for a larger stone). The SS band and Bev K aren't blowing my socks off but that's just me. Usually, when I am not sure, I go with my gut feel, which in this case, if I don't feel or see a clear winner, then none of the choices are right at this moment in time.

This is what worries me the most. When that setting was designed almost 100 years ago, it was designed for smaller stones. Maybe I should have stuck with the 1.8 AVR so it would have worked better. I am just not sure of the final outcome with a larger stone, and that is scary since you can't return it. I really feel like the ideal would be to get a roundish cushion AVC and set it in this setting...IF I could justify two e-rings.

My other concern was first expressed, I think, by Sharon, who said that it might be too much to have detailed antique style rings for my e-ring and right hand rings.

These two things are what has held me back thus far and it is hard to overcome both of the concerns. If it was only one of them, I probably would have already reset.

I think if I ever got the SS band, it would be a little smaller than the one I posted as it was quite large and too expensive. But it was spectacular in person.

 

[Dreamer_D]

DS I'm sorry I have taken so long to post! My computers at home have both died and all I have is an iPad which is not fun to type on... and work is kicking my behind right now... anyways, here I am now!

I really am with Sharon and Chrono on this one. I feel like you might miss a solitaire. And I also think that when you KNOW, you KNOW and you don't have to think about it anymore! With all my bling purchases I have wffled and waffled but when I say my Georgie I knew immediately and didn't even consult anyone before making an offer! It is the same with all my little ebay diamond buys too. When I waffle, I don't buy. When I know its right, I snap it up! And i think the same is true for you in this case. I think your concerns about the VC are valid. You can get it and set a colored gem of the size and shape you might want later in a diamond if you want to buy it and enjoy it now? maybe?

I wonder if a solitaire with a more delailed and antique basket will do the trick? Like Missy and Maras baskets? It would be different and feel more vintage? Or how about something with bullets or something for sides? I feel like you just want a nice change, so why not make a nice change without breaking the bank?

 

[Laila619]

Someone had as their tag line "When in doubt, do nothing" I think. And that one resonates with me. Maybe none of these are the clear cut winner yet, like Chrono said. I think when you find the One, you will know.

 

[Dreamer_D]

Someone had as their tag line "When in doubt, do nothing" I think. And that one resonates with me. Maybe none of these are the clear cut winner yet, like Chrono said. I think when you find the One, you will know.

Wasn't that Diamondseeker?? "When in doubt... dont"??

 

[Laila619]

Someone had as their tag line "When in doubt, do nothing" I think. And that one resonates with me. Maybe none of these are the clear cut winner yet, like Chrono said. I think when you find the One, you will know.

Wasn't that Diamondseeker?? "When in doubt... dont"??

Yes, lol, I think it was DS herself!

 

[Dreamer_D]

Someone had as their tag line "When in doubt, do nothing" I think. And that one resonates with me. Maybe none of these are the clear cut winner yet, like Chrono said. I think when you find the One, you will know.

Wasn't that Diamondseeker?? "When in doubt... dont"??

Yes, lol, I think it was DS herself!

Then she should take her own advice!

 

[Acinom]

DS: I keep thinking about your possible reset and I changed my vote:
I would keep your gorgeous solitaire until you are 200% sure about your reset. Or keep it and use the money for gorgeous band you can stack with your current solitaire.

The idea to change the setting in a Mara-like art deco solitaire could also be an option for you.
Have you tried the trick of putting your ring away for a while and see if you fall in love again?

 

[diamondseeker2006]

DS I'm sorry I have taken so long to post! My computers at home have both died and all I have is an iPad which is not fun to type on... and work is kicking my behind right now... anyways, here I am now!

I really am with Sharon and Chrono on this one. I feel like you might miss a solitaire. And I also think that when you KNOW, you KNOW and you don't have to think about it anymore! With all my bling purchases I have wffled and waffled but when I say my Georgie I knew immediately and didn't even consult anyone before making an offer! It is the same with all my little ebay diamond buys too. When I waffle, I don't buy. When I know its right, I snap it up! And i think the same is true for you in this case. I think your concerns about the VC are valid. You can get it and set a colored gem of the size and shape you might want later in a diamond if you want to buy it and enjoy it now? maybe?

I wonder if a solitaire with a more delailed and antique basket will do the trick? Like Missy and Maras baskets? It would be different and feel more vintage? Or how about something with bullets or something for sides? I feel like you just want a nice change, so why not make a nice change without breaking the bank?

Hey, Dreamer! I can totally agree and relate to the dread of typing on an iPad!!!

I love Mara and Missy's rings. I am just afraid that design wouldn't work as well with a smaller stone. Arkie's, too!

But I think you are right that a more vintage solitaire maybe with smaller SS band might be the answer. Then if I ever get an antique cushion or AVC, maybe I could put it in the VC. This really just came back into my mind because I had posted on diamond color in another thread and the sample VC setting was in the picture and Gypsy posted how beautiful that ring was. So I let myself start thinking again!

I was lucky to see some SS rings a week ago, and I will see mom2boys Victor French cut band in 3-4 weeks. I think seeing these things will really help me narrow it down!

Thanks for your help!!!

 

[diamondseeker2006]

Someone had as their tag line "When in doubt, do nothing" I think. And that one resonates with me. Maybe none of these are the clear cut winner yet, like Chrono said. I think when you find the One, you will know.

Wasn't that Diamondseeker?? "When in doubt... dont"??

Yes, lol, I think it was DS herself!

Then she should take her own advice!

Yep!!!! It was mine!!! I actually HAVE been trying to take my own advice...I have had the AVR since the end of last May and it is still in the same setting!

 

[diamondseeker2006]

DS: I keep thinking about your possible reset and I changed my vote:
I would keep your gorgeous solitaire until you are 200% sure about your reset. Or keep it and use the money for gorgeous band you can stack with your current solitaire.

The idea to change the setting in a Mara-like art deco solitaire could also be an option for you.
Have you tried the trick of putting your ring away for a while and see if you fall in love again?

I have to run but wanted to say thank you! I agree!

I love the setting and love the diamond. But the setting was really bought for a MRB and I just wish I could have something that was a little more vintage. I do appreciate a solitaire, though, because there are a couple of bands that I'd love to have! So we shall see!

 

[Dreamer_D]

Why don't you call Adam at OWD and see if he has any refurbished antique mounts the right size, in stock? You might stumble on something you love!

 

[arkieb1]

I think you have gotten some sage advice from everyone. When in doubt wait and think about it some more.....

I actually agree with you about your stone and a Mara style ring - my transitional is a similar size to your AVR and I can't imagine this size stone in that type of setting. It works really well for something over 3 to 3.5+ carats (like Lola & the Victor version) but I think 8 prongs hides more of the stone (swamping a smaller stone to a degree) and in your case your current modern setting shows off or showcases your AVR to a droolworthy degree.

I also take the point everyone else is making about the Van C setting, I've not seen it with a bigger stone so I can't comment but it is an excellent point to consider..... I had several failed attempts to set Lola, I purchased a really expensive Israel Rose setting that looked like a cross between a Sebastian Barrier piece and Charmy's current setting thinking this would look wonderful with Lola and in real life the ornate sides drew the eye away from the stone, it was way too much going on and I disliked it a lot.... much better in theory than in reality!!!!!

Try on as many different things as you can and keep looking until you find something you cannot live without..... I do get the overall impression you love and adore that setting - a smaller AVC would look amazing in it, so would a coloured stone so perhaps they are other ideas to consider....

 

[rainydaze]

DS, have you considered getting a VC band to go with your Vatche (or some other setting)? Would that scratch the VC and vintage itch, without the concerns of your diamond being too big for the VC setting?

 

[Polished]

I really want some side details this time rather than a simple solitaire, too.

DS it sounds like you think your vintage stone would belong in a more vintage setting.

 

[diamondseeker2006]

Why don't you call Adam at OWD and see if he has any refurbished antique mounts the right size, in stock? You might stumble on something you love!

That is a good idea!

I think you have gotten some sage advice from everyone. When in doubt wait and think about it some more.....

I actually agree with you about your stone and a Mara style ring - my transitional is a similar size to your AVR and I can't imagine this size stone in that type of setting. It works really well for something over 3 to 3.5+ carats (like Lola & the Victor version) but I think 8 prongs hides more of the stone (swamping a smaller stone to a degree) and in your case your current modern setting shows off or showcases your AVR to a droolworthy degree.

I also take the point everyone else is making about the Van C setting, I've not seen it with a bigger stone so I can't comment but it is an excellent point to consider..... I had several failed attempts to set Lola, I purchased a really expensive Israel Rose setting that looked like a cross between a Sebastian Barrier piece and Charmy's current setting thinking this would look wonderful with Lola and in real life the ornate sides drew the eye away from the stone, it was way too much going on and I disliked it a lot.... much better in theory than in reality!!!!!

Try on as many different things as you can and keep looking until you find something you cannot live without..... I do get the overall impression you love and adore that setting - a smaller AVC would look amazing in it, so would a coloured stone so perhaps they are other ideas to consider....

I know many here can relate to multiple attempts to get the setting right! I just wish settings were about a fourth of what they actually cost and then the mistakes wouldn't be so painful! Thanks for your comments, Arkie!

DS, have you considered getting a VC band to go with your Vatche (or some other setting)? Would that scratch the VC and vintage itch, without the concerns of your diamond being too big for the VC setting?

Hi, Rainy! I really think a french cut band of some kind would be higher on my list than a VanC band. Although if I could have 4-5 bands, certainly I'd like to have one!

I really want some side details this time rather than a simple solitaire, too.

DS it sounds like you think your vintage stone would belong in a more vintage setting.

Yes, that is what I am aiming for, but I still want it to be relatively simple.

 

[Serendipity99]

When I'm in doubt like this I usually play out a hypothetical -

Pretend for a moment that the two options are the one and only settings in the world and can't be remade. If while pondering your options you found out that someone bought the BeverleyK version, how would you feel? If someone bought the VC, how would you feel then?

If you would be heartbroken if one of those options were taken away from you, that usually is a sign pointing in that direction. If you would just be disappointed, but not truly deeply sad, then maybe it isn't the right option for you.

I think they are all beautiful options, but for what little it is worth, I voted VC.

 

[Acinom]

Your quote from Elysian's thread:

" I have been torn between the Van Craeynest or a more simple antique design, and as I watch Caysie's new designs on fb, I just believe she can make what I want. I am not 100% sure of design, but I have some inspiration pictures to show her. I still would like the VC ring, but I am not sure this is the stone I want in that setting."

What a exiting process for you DS!!! Will you share your inspiration pics?
Caysie will make a Van Craeynest inspired setting for me (based on apacherose's gorgeous set) and she says she loves creating sculpted engraving. I am so looking forward to see the first CAD's. I cannot wait to see what design you decide to take for your beautiful AVR. You always make such delibarate and careful choices that work out so well!!

 

[diamondseeker2006]

Your quote from Elysian's thread:

" I have been torn between the Van Craeynest or a more simple antique design, and as I watch Caysie's new designs on fb, I just believe she can make what I want. I am not 100% sure of design, but I have some inspiration pictures to show her. I still would like the VC ring, but I am not sure this is the stone I want in that setting."

What a exiting process for you DS!!! Will you share your inspiration pics?
Caysie will make a Van Craeynest inspired setting for me (based on apacherose's gorgeous set) and she says she loves creating sculpted engraving. I am so looking forward to see the first CAD's. I cannot wait to see what design you decide to take for your beautiful AVR. You always make such delibarate and careful choices that work out so well!!

You are very generous with your comments, because I feel like the most indecisive person on earth! I think long ago I realized being totally satisfied would mean having 2 or 3 e-rings to cover all my choices! I am not sure that is a wise thing to do, so I try to get everything I like in one package, which is impossible! However, I might do as you have done and use colored stones for a couple of the other settings I'd love to have! Like you, I tend to like blue stones, so I'll probably have a full range of blues like you!

I am not quite ready to show inspiration pics because I'd kind of like to talk to Caysie first. I'd do her Anna halo (with diamonds where shank meets the head) in a second if I felt like I wanted this stone in a halo, but I'd like to save a halo for a cushion stone, I think. Her Jessica solitaire has some elements I like a lot. I just have commitment phobia because settings are terribly expensive and I can't keep changing! Thanks so much for your interest! I appreciate it! I will definitely give updates!

 

[diamondseeker2006]

These are two of Caysie's new designs that I like a lot.

 

[Acinom]

Thanks for sharing the pics! Gorgeous designs indeed. I totally trust Caysie

I remember your search for (the right size) AVR and somehow you end up making the right choice DS!
And yes, using Colored stones is a great way to fulfill setting wishes . But you already have your stunning Baudry collection

A lot of settings will really flatter your AVR, but you need to keep following your heart or think about it a bit when still in doubt. It will be great to discuss this with Caysie as she seems to understand her clients quite well and has a great eye.
Happy thinking DS

 

[diamondseeker2006]

Thanks, Acinom! I really feel that the diamond needs side detail on the setting. When I go back to the first page of this thread and I have a picture with a gorgeous SS band, the e-ring just looks blah. So I know I need to do something. The VC adds side detail and that was one reason I really love it, but I am a little afraid it will make my stone sit too high.

 

[EvangelineG]

I have been admiring both of those settings greatly since I saw them on Caysie's FB. Either one would look soooo amazing with your AVR DS!

 

[MollyMalone]

Has anyone been in contact with Van Craeynest very recently? The reason I ask is because of devaughnb"s post on the Colored Stones forum in June:
https://www.pricescope.com/communit...ad-news-and-then-some-good-news-again.202990/

VC has not posted anything on their Facebook page since April & the most recent Yelp, customer review is even older; the phone number, however, is still good (I just dialed it & heard a VC voicemail greeting). I hope they are not extinct.

 

[diamondseeker2006]

Has anyone been in contact with Van Craeynest very recently? The reason I ask is because of devaughnb"s post on the Colored Stones forum in June:
https://www.pricescope.com/communit...ad-news-and-then-some-good-news-again.202990/

VC has not posted anything on their Facebook page since April & the most recent Yelp, customer review is even older; the phone number, however, is still good (I just dialed it & heard a VC voicemail greeting). I hope they are not extinct.

Yes, I have emailed them in the last 3-4 weeks and received a reply. I have just been extremely busy and have not had time to really work on this project. They are currently not making the pierced rings, but most of the engagement rings and wedding bands are still being made, thankfully!

 

[diamondseeker2006]

I have been admiring both of those settings greatly since I saw them on Caysie's FB. Either one would look soooo amazing with your AVR DS!

I adore your setting, Evangeline! It is gorgeous for an AVR! The only reason I am not doing the baguettes right now is that I have this hope to have some kind of emerald cut stone (colored stone or diamond) in the future and might want to do side baguettes for that. But I very much want something that has that same antique but elegant look like yours! Thanks for your input!

 

[MollyMalone]

Yes, I have emailed them in the last 3-4 weeks and received a reply. I have just been extremely busy and have not had time to really work on this project. They are currently not making the pierced rings, but most of the engagement rings and wedding bands are still being made, thankfully!

Oh, that is good news -- thanks ever so much for the update!

 

[diamondseeker2006]

Yes, I have emailed them in the last 3-4 weeks and received a reply. I have just been extremely busy and have not had time to really work on this project. They are currently not making the pierced rings, but most of the engagement rings and wedding bands are still being made, thankfully!

Oh, that is good news -- thanks ever so much for the update!

You are welcome! It was good news to me, too!