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[missy]

Thought maybe we could use a safe place to share our fears and thoughts and maybe even share some joy too. In any case let’s make this a safe place to share as we get through Covid-19 one day at a time.

PSers are strong and supportive and I think many of us could use some support and cheer and real talk too.

If you want to please share anything your heart desires. We are here for you however we can be and right now online rocks. Literally (beautiful diamonds aka rocks) and figuratively.



Joy shared is joy doubled and fear and sadness shared is fear and sadness halved. Let double our joy and love and optimism and halve our sadness and anxiety and fear.

 

[missy]

I’ll start.

I’m concerned this will be going on for the better part of this year. We can do anything for short periods of time but my concern is how sustainable is this for many many months? Logically I know we will do what we have to do. And be as smart as possible under these challenging circumstances.

Mainly concerned about my parents and my MIL though not as concerned about my MIL since she is being taken care of in an assisted living place. My parents live on their own.

Worried about my upcoming doctor appointments. I need to have my blood re evaluated but might have to put it on indefinite hold which is concerning as my liver enzymes were very high last evaluation. Among many other concerns. But I know we have to just take it day by day. Uncertainty is now a way of life for the time being more than ever before.

Whew. Ok. Shared my darkest thoughts. I do believe we will all come through this. But I’d be lying if I didn’t say I’m concerned. I am concerned. But as Always hoping for the best and taking measures to help towards remaining well.

 

[missy]

Some optimistic news. Looks like one can’t or rather probably won’t catch it twice.

Where are we most likely to catch COVID-19?

We started the pandemic by sanitizing our groceries. One year later, we know much more about where and how COVID-19 is actually spread. Here are the riskiest activities and places when it comes to coronavirus transmission.

www.popsci.com

 

[YadaYadaYada]

I am totally overwhelmed, not commenting on the Corona threads anymore, trying not to engage in conversation about it apart from DH because he can talk me down instead of feeding into it.

It's just everywhere, news, social media, email, texts, signs wherever you go. Can't shop "regular" because all the people who are in a panic are buying massive amounts of things so in turn we have to buy a couple extra than normal because you don't know when it will stop.

I will keep working because we need to keep paying bills, DH will keep working for the same reason, we can't just stop or we will go bankrupt. Luckily my office is only four people including me and DH will probably be working from home more often which is great since the kids are out of school for the next two weeks and we have nobody to help with childcare.

I just want it to stop, everything go back to being normal and everyone being safe to live but that's not the reality. Stop the ride I want to get off.

 

[missy]

I just want it to stop, everything go back to being normal and everyone being safe to live but that's not the reality. Stop the ride I want to get off.

@StephanieLynn i hear you. And feel similarly. Sending you (((hugs))). We will hopefully be AOk and make it through though yes it’s going to be a somewhat bumpy ride. (((Hugs)))

 

[lyra]

I'm in saturation mode too. I'll keep up with the bare facts, but I'm overwhelmed and fearful. I have a cold! Awesome. In seclusion and I caught a virus. Probably from my commuter daughter, but still. With all the handwashing and disinfecting common surfaces, I still caught it.

I'm worried about the grocery situation. Everything is sold out. How long will it last? Will people continue hoarding forever? It's something we've never seen in Canada before. We're not prone to natural disaster "seasons", so it's never been an issue. Honestly, I'm just going to watch movies and series on streaming networks and play minecraft when I can. And read. I have quite a few books to get through.

 

[missy]

I'm in saturation mode too. I'll keep up with the bare facts, but I'm overwhelmed and fearful. I have a cold! Awesome. In seclusion and I caught a virus. Probably from my commuter daughter, but still. With all the handwashing and disinfecting common surfaces, I still caught it.

I'm worried about the grocery situation. Everything is sold out. How long will it last? Will people continue hoarding forever? It's something we've never seen in Canada before. We're not prone to natural disaster "seasons", so it's never been an issue. Honestly, I'm just going to watch movies and series on streaming networks and play minecraft when I can. And read. I have quite a few books to get through.

Yes I’m concerned about the food and other supply situation. Especially meds. But I feel that shelves will be restocked. I hope so!

And you’re right. A big plus is we can catch up on good books and movies too. Netflixing our way thought COVID-19!

Feel better soon @lyra!!! Healing dust being sent your way and (((hugs))).

 

[canuk-gal]

HI:

@lyra too bad about your cold. Hope you feel better soon.

@StephanieLynn the ride analogy is a good one. I think everyone in the universe feels this way. This, too, shall pass.

I work in health care and feel for my colleagues/front line workers. We have to keep vigilant and healthy! Maintain our great health & care!

And for FWIW: GET LOST VIRUS NO ONE wants you!

cheers--Sharon

 

[Lisa Loves Shiny]

My new rescue dog has a GI upset today. Both my old dogs who passed had GI issues that required emergency vet treatments because the dogs had at least once had that condition turn into a GI bleed. I seem to get rescue dogs who have been starved in the past and they always require special diets and feeding times.

So......am concerned about her. Keeping a close eye and following the GI routine that has worked for my other dogs. Famotidine and small food portions. I also don't feel well today but not bad enough for it to wreck our routine.

 

[missy]

My new rescue dog has a GI upset today. Both my old dogs who passed had GI issues that required emergency vet treatments because the dogs had at least once had that condition turn into a GI bleed. I seem to get rescue dogs who have been starved in the past and they always require special diets and feeding times.

So......am concerned about her. Keeping a close eye and following the GI routine that has worked for my other dogs. Famotidine and small food portions. I also don't feel well today but not bad enough for it to wreck our routine.

@LisaRN sending you and your sweet rescue dog healing vibes and lots of virtual hugs. Hoping she gets better soon and that you also feel better soon.

 

[MarionC]

“Trump Says He Could Demote Fed Chair Powell, Risking More Market Turmoil
At a time of grave investor uncertainty over the coronavirus, economists warned that the president could throw fuel on the fire.”


Is he trying to ruin the economy??! This is incredible.
We are all so stressed and his actions can only make things more stressful.

 

[AprilBaby]

I’m tag teaming with a friend to make freezer meals. I cook for two, she cooks for one so we are both making 4 family sized meals and putting them in individual containers to freeze so we don’t need to go out.

 

[lyra]

@AprilBaby What meals are you freezing? We actually need to clear out our small stand up freezer so we CAN freeze things. It would be great to hear some ideas. My DH is making cabbage rolls tomorrow. Would you believe he got the recipe from talking to my Baba (Ukrainian) grandmother many years ago? I can't make them. He has perfected them, haha. So much better than the original.

 

[AprilBaby]

I made stuffed shells, a pot of chili, chicken and stuffing balls, spaghetti sauce. All packed in individual portions. My friend made meatloaf, mostaccoli, Italian beef and turkey breast. We have a nice freezer full right now. We are thinking of more ideas.

 

[MRBXXXFVVS1]

I'm afraid people aren't taking coronavirus seriously enough, not social distancing and self-quarantining, which will lead to more people getting it and vulnerable people dying. I'm also afraid that hospitals will be over capacity.

 

[lyra]

I can tell it's quieter out, but I agree, some people are just not getting the message. I *think* it's younger people without kids mostly. My MIL is on dialysis every other day. It's a nightmare for her. My daughter's wedding is at the end of September. I don't know what to think about that. It's only 45 people, but still. Maybe it'll have to be cancelled, we don't know.

 

[canuk-gal]

I can tell it's quieter out, but I agree, some people are just not getting the message. I *think* it's younger people without kids mostly. My MIL is on dialysis every other day. It's a nightmare for her. My daughter's wedding is at the end of September. I don't know what to think about that. It's only 45 people, but still. Maybe it'll have to be cancelled, we don't know.

How are you feeling? Is your cold any better?

 

[missy]

@arkieb1 how are you doing today?
@lyra to echo @canuk-gal how are you feeling?

 

[Ally T]

I am fearful of the fact that my 76 year old mother had a pacemaker fitted last Monday & today we're being advised that those over 70 will be asked to self isolate possibly as soon as next week. My brother, both sisters & I tried NINE different supermarkets & shops today to buy her toilet roll & paracetamol, as her prescribed pain relief ends on Tuesday. Nothing. Not a single bean. I am beyond furious for her & despair at the stockpiling mentality. There was an old man that my brother saw today, who gets a taxi out once a month to do bulk shopping, and he couldn't buy toilet paper. He was crying. My brother took him back to his house, gave him whatever he could & then drove him home. My brother is pretty tough, but this actually made him cry after he got back home & locked the door. People disgust me.

 

[canuk-gal]

I am fearful of the fact that my 76 year old mother had a pacemaker fitted last Monday & today we're being advised that those over 70 will be asked to self isolate possibly as soon as next week. My brother, both sisters & I tried NINE different supermarkets & shops today to buy her toilet roll & paracetamol, as her prescribed pain relief ends on Tuesday. Nothing. Not a single bean. I am beyond furious for her & despair at the stockpiling mentality. There was an old man that my brother saw today, who gets a taxi out once a month to do bulk shopping, and he couldn't buy toilet paper. He was crying. My brother took him back to his house, gave him whatever he could & then drove him home. My brother is pretty tough, but this actually made him cry after he got back home & locked the door. People disgust me.

I am sad. But am glad for your brothers goodness. Give him 2 HUGS from me. Thank you!

 

[lyra]

I'm feeling like I'm getting better minus this allergy related asthma. My blood ox is fine. Temp is normal. Anxiety is a bit high today, but my hr is fine.

 

[Calliecake]

Hang in there @lyra. I’m glad your daughter will be working from home. I’m thinking of you and wishing you well. Hugs, Callie

 

[MaisOuiMadame]

I am fearful of the fact that my 76 year old mother had a pacemaker fitted last Monday & today we're being advised that those over 70 will be asked to self isolate possibly as soon as next week. My brother, both sisters & I tried NINE different supermarkets & shops today to buy her toilet roll & paracetamol, as her prescribed pain relief ends on Tuesday. Nothing. Not a single bean. I am beyond furious for her & despair at the stockpiling mentality. There was an old man that my brother saw today, who gets a taxi out once a month to do bulk shopping, and he couldn't buy toilet paper. He was crying. My brother took him back to his house, gave him whatever he could & then drove him home. My brother is pretty tough, but this actually made him cry after he got back home & locked the door. People disgust me.

Your brother ist such wonderful person!!!

 

[missy]

@Alex T I am so sorry and am furious at those stockpiling causing this mess. People like this disgust me too. Your brother however rocks. As do you. Hugs to you and your family. Hoping you can get the necessary supplies tomorrow. (((Hugs)))

@lyra sounds good and hope you keep feeling better. (((Hugs)))

 

[MaisOuiMadame]

Many young people seem not to be able to understand the dangers of Covid19 and their role as potential killers if they go partying, fall sick and then contaminate people before showing any symptoms. It's not so hard to understand!!! I understand that kids often show no symptoms and can contaminate other people. Heck my 8y/o understands and said she won't go to her beloved grandmother not put her in danger (all of my kids said something in the same vein in the last few weeks). So we DON'T HAVE ANY contact with other people for 14 days now that they are out of school. After the 14 days we are confirmed "clean" and will reevaluate the situation..
Meanwhile the city's hotspots are filled with hipsters sharing he same 20 cm of personal space. Stupid!!!!

 

[Elizabeth35]

What a thoughtful thread missy--thank you!

I am concerned, of course. I worry about the many people who do not have the financial resources or personal support system to survive even one missed paycheck. I am worried about the financial fall-out for everyone.

I am not fearful of contracting the virus. I would prefer not to, but looking at the numbers I would probably not die from it.

I worry about our local businesses and restaurants with the shutdown of bars/restaurants for dining in.
Since we normally dine out maybe twice a month, I will make a point of ordering at least twice a week from our regular places. That is something I can do to help small business owners.
I can also shop for SIL who is elderly, and kids grandma.

We will get through this but I realize that for most people the unknown is very frightening.
I focus on planning activities to keep me happy and healthy, going outside for walks, getting plenty of rest, and viewing this as a temporary time-out that allows me unlimited reading and Netflix time.
I would avoid spending all your time watching the news.
Take precautions but still enjoy your life! Every day is precious.

Above all, think about what you can do to slow or stop the spread of the virus, as well as helping others in your family or community.

 

[MarionC]

Many young people seem not to be able to understand the dangers of Covid19 and their role as potential killers if they go partying, fall sick and then contaminate people before showing any symptoms. It's not so hard to understand!!! I understand that kids often show no symptoms and can contaminate other people. Heck my 8y/o understands and said she won't go to her beloved grandmother not put her in danger (all of my kids said something in the same vein in the last few weeks). So we DON'T HAVE ANY contact with other people for 14 days now that they are out of school. After the 14 days we are confirmed "clean" and will reevaluate the situation..
Meanwhile the city's hotspots are filled with hipsters sharing he same 20 cm of personal space. Stupid!!!!

It’s not all young people. My town is full of elderly retirees from Paris who came down for a little weekend vacation. Small village, tiny grocer. Safe until the influx.
And I have elderly family members who are vacationing near one of the outbreak centers and attending group events.

 

[Ally T]

Many young people seem not to be able to understand the dangers of Covid19 and their role as potential killers if they go partying, fall sick and then contaminate people before showing any symptoms. It's not so hard to understand!!! I understand that kids often show no symptoms and can contaminate other people. Heck my 8y/o understands and said she won't go to her beloved grandmother not put her in danger (all of my kids said something in the same vein in the last few weeks). So we DON'T HAVE ANY contact with other people for 14 days now that they are out of school. After the 14 days we are confirmed "clean" and will reevaluate the situation..
Meanwhile the city's hotspots are filled with hipsters sharing he same 20 cm of personal space. Stupid!!!!

My children, nieces & nephews are all doing this too. We've taught mother how to Face Time so that they can still "see" her when they chat. She sees a lot of all of her grandchildren, but we've decided no more contact from the younger ones. We will visit to take her things, but we have our own door keys & a strict hand washing policy. And then we'll sit & have a cup of tea with her, but across the room. And no hugs or kisses - we will stay well back.

 

[Daisys and Diamonds]

I am fearful of the fact that my 76 year old mother had a pacemaker fitted last Monday & today we're being advised that those over 70 will be asked to self isolate possibly as soon as next week. My brother, both sisters & I tried NINE different supermarkets & shops today to buy her toilet roll & paracetamol, as her prescribed pain relief ends on Tuesday. Nothing. Not a single bean. I am beyond furious for her & despair at the stockpiling mentality. There was an old man that my brother saw today, who gets a taxi out once a month to do bulk shopping, and he couldn't buy toilet paper. He was crying. My brother took him back to his house, gave him whatever he could & then drove him home. My brother is pretty tough, but this actually made him cry after he got back home & locked the door. People disgust me.

can your mum ring her GP and get a script for paracetamol ? ours will fax the prescription to the chemist
i know here stocks are low because alot of it is made in China

people are disgusting, but then we have people like your brother who restores our faith in humanity

 

[missy]

All NYC hospitals are to cancel elective surgeries

All public and private schools closed

All broadway/off broadway shows closed

Museums closed

Etc.

It is the only way to slow the spread of this virus and I am hoping the measures taken are not too late and it will indeed slow the spread. That is what we need to do to allow the healthcare system and hospitals to not get overwhelmed and treat those that need treatment.

I am very concerned and would love to say I am confident in the system. But I remain hopeful and optimistic that we will get through this with as few casualties as possible. Hoping and praying.

For all the people out there that behave selfishly I believe there are many more who show selfless behavior and want to help their neighbors and fellow human beings. I believe that in my heart. I know in a crisis people rise to the occasion and help others. And I think (and hope) we will be seeing more of that soon.

My biggest fear right now is that the hospitals don't get overwhelmed so those that need to be hospitalized can get the proper care and be OK.

My next biggest fear is that food and other supplies remain sufficient for all.

I am concerned for all the small business in our neighborhood and beyond but that is not my first concern. My first concern is we all get through this. That has to be paramount over all else right now.

@Alex T I was able to get a bottle of Tylenol yesterday at one of our local small pharmacies (all the larger pharmacies were out but our local mom and pop pharmacy had one bottle left!) and it has 225 pills...I am more than happy to give you half or even more if you need it because we do not need that many pills. I will mail it to you if you need it...please send me your address OK?