Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring...

[reicaden]

Hello,

Ive been reading a lot of info here for months and months, and decided to sign up and chime in because I have a question.

I know my GF wants a sapphire engagement ring. I also know she does *NOT* like intricate bands where the diamonds go allllll around the band. She has shown me images in the past of celeb rings or friend rings and commented that she'd like a Center stone and 2 side stones. The center as a sapphire and the sides as diamonds.

She has also stated that bulky rings like the halo types are not her favorite but if its done in good taste she wouldnt mind that setting.


We've been dating for 10 years, so dont kill me, I'm a bit slow to get around to these things

Anyways, I found this setting and I think its a great setting after weeks and weeks searching. She is a biologist and she loves loves loves flowers, so I thought this is a simple ring that has the mentioned design elements she would like, while being fairly unique.

http://www.maevona.com/product/MVB7_POP

That being said. I had questions I figured you guys might be able to answer.

1). It seems almost impossible to find gemstones with a rating system like a diamond would have. After a bit of reading it seems that its all done "based on how it looks to you" more than any ratings. This makes purchasing online difficult as images can lie / deceive. Any recommendation for a place that has affordable loose sapphires of good quality ? I know I cant get a "bargain" here... but I also know I cant just trust any merchant and their pictures.... a recommendation in the right direction to someone who has acceptable prices while having quality gems would be great.

(Consider its the center stone of an engagement ring, I'd want something that ideally says "wow, this may not be a diamond, but its the best damn sapphire he could find" without costing 10k)

2). The setting says 1 to 1.5 carats in size. Can anyone recommend a similar (very similar?) setting that can accomodate a slightly larger center stone? maybe a 1.8 or a 2 ct? Maybe if not larger, at least another designer with a similar type setting... I ask because this designer seems, expensive... but it is very unique and maybe something similar will be equally as nice without the hefty pricetags.

3). Do I also choose my side diamonds in pear cut? Any recommendations on where to get small side stone diamonds (not center cut) but of good cut? I know with diamonds the fire/sparkle is most important and thats usually based on a well done cut. Next is color and third I'd say inclusions. I'd need a reputable place to get quality gems at appropriate prices that wont sell me a photoshopped image with a lower quality diamond.

Thank you in advance, I hope she loves it

-David

 

[reicaden]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

Ohhh I found this post just now:

[URL='https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/maevona-poppy.189144/']https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/maevona-poppy.189144/[/URL]

Holy cow, it's almost exactly what I had in mind, or rather, is exctly. The gem cutter used seems good/skilled. Any recommendations towards a different cutter?

 

[sonyachancs]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

I'm sure loads of people will chime in, but top of the threads on the colored stones page is one with recommended vendors. and have a look at different sapphire stones to see what color you like!

good luck with the ring! it is a beautiful delicate setting.

 

[deskjockey]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

The guy who cut that sapphire is here:

http://www.concavegems.com

(to find the sapphires, go to gem gallery, then select corundum)

For a 1-1.5 carat setting, that translates to about a 6.5mm-7 mm stone (basically, a 1 carat diamond is generally 6.5 mm, though a 6.5 mm sapphire will weigh more). Keep in mind that sapphires are generally a bit deeper than a diamond, so while the setting may accomodate a wider diameter, it may not be deep enough for the sapphire (my e-ring is built for a 1 carat diamond 6.5mm - but my sapphire only *just* fits it, because of the depth. If it was even a hair deeper the setting would not have worked)

Here are a couple options from the same guy that did the one you pointed to:
http://www.concavegems.com/detail.cfm?zNum=7240
http://www.concavegems.com/detail.cfm?zNum=6838 (This is too light for my tastes, but everyone is different)

This would be too huge, but this is a really, really nice color:
http://www.concavegems.com/detail.cfm?zNum=6594

Color is hard, because while there is "ideal" color (and you will pay $$$ for that), everyone does have different taste. My sapphire, for example, has a fair amount of grey to it (it's not always apparent, depends on the lighting), which a lot of people really don't like, but I do. Also, with the above stones, the cutting is not traditional - it catches a lot of light but is not to everyone's taste.

Other places to look - I love browsing at http://www.gemfix.com/sapphire_blue.html The first one in the second row might be worth looking at, though it may be a bit darker than the picture seems to show. Here's another: http://www.africagems.com/round-blue-sapphire-g2k-5451.html Check out the recommended vendor thread that is stickied up top - look through ALL of them

I really like that setting, it's beautiful, relatively simple, but just a little unusual.

 

[carmen1]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

Hmmm, so I think it is much easier to find a sapphire first and then get a setting to fit, so I wouldn't suggest you buy that particular setting since it would seem to limit you to a stone in the 6.5ish mm range (and possibly have limitations on depth, as colored stones are typically cut deeper than diamonds). But do keep it in mind as inspiration and once you find "the stone" you can see about having something made that will work with your stone's dimensions.

1. There are currently a couple of nice round blue sapphires on loupetroop:

http://loupetroop.com/listings/loose-stones-colored-gemstone/unheated-blue-sapphire

http://loupetroop.com/listings/loos...ot-59-ct-round-ceylon-sapphire-from-sri-lanka

There is also a list of vendors pinned to the top of this forum with recommended colored stone vendors, if you are most interested in round blue sapphires gemfix usually has the best selection: http://www.gemfix.com/sapphire_blue.html

2. Another option for a flower-inspired 3-stone setting is something like this, with a floral design on the basket, but without the pave on the shank that she doesn't like: http://www.engagementringsdirect.com/anna-three-stone-ring-bpid-316-19.html

Or something like this http://www.whiteflash.com/engagemen...e-butterflies-diamond-engagement-ring-230.htm

3. If you go for a custom designed setting you will figure out the shape and size sidestones that will best compliment the sapphire at that time.

 

[chrono]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

1. You are correct that there is no standardized rating system because coloured stones are far more complex to grade and categorize compared to diamonds. It's is more than "how it looks to you" though. Pricing is still based on the 4 Cs.
a. Colour is what sets most of the price.
b. Then the other 3 Cs are interconnected: carat weight, clarity, cut and treatment.

Depending on the colour quality you are looking for, it can be anywhere from $1000/ct to $5000/ct. Heated costs more than unheated, if all else is equal. Have you given treatment any consideration? Can you post pictures of blue sapphires that you like and hope to get?

2. 1 ct to 1.5 ct in a diamond equates to 6.5 mm to 7.25 mm in diameter. In terms of sapphires, you are looking at a 1.4 ct to just shy of 2 ct. If you don't want to purchase from this designer, you'll have to go custom and make minor changes for copyright reasons. The second "problem" now is to choose a well skilled jeweller to get that same organic flow. Expect to pay $2K for the platinum setting alone (side pear diamonds not included).

3. It is easiest to let the jeweller source the pears because he/she will know what proportions look best with the design and center stone. You can request assistance in the Rocky Talky section of the forums but it is less of a headache and hassle to let the jeweller take care of this. You have the right to approve/disapprove the pear diamonds and a good jeweller should be able to pick well cut and good quality pears.

You have not mentioned budget at all, hence I do not know which gem vendors and custom ring designers to recommend.

 

[reicaden]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

Thank you so much for the links and recommendations!

I've been looking through the linked information and vendors provided.

Based on what has been responded here, it sounds like I may need to go larger in carat size due to sapphires weighing more, to get a similar sizing.

1 ct to 1.5 ct in a diamond equates to 6.5 mm to 7.25 mm in diameter. In terms of sapphires, you are looking at a 1.4 ct to just shy of 2 ct.

Example a 1 ct Diamond, might really be a 1.4 ct sapphire for the same diameter. Based on this, I think a 2 ct sapphire might fit into this setting that is designed for a 1.5ct diamond.

That being said, I don't mind going with a custom design that would be similar if it would better accommodate a center 2ct sapphire. Does anyone recommend a specific company that can customize a setting in 14k white gold to have a mimicked design, but more accommodating to a deeper sapphire?

You have not mentioned budget at all, hence I do not know which gem vendors and custom ring designers to recommend.

I am sorry, I completely forgot. I'm hoping to budget around $4,000 but after seeing the price on gemstones I am hesitant I can stay within the boundary. The setting alone sounds like a $2000 purchase to get something non-traditional (Not a solitaire normal presentation I mean, something more organic with "leaves" on the sides, etc). Especially if I want to stay in the 3 stone type of style that I know she prefers. Any know a custom designer that provides excellent quality without the "name brand" mark ups?

I do like the way the concave gems sparkler/look but I don't know if it's a big difference from a traditional "brilliant" cut just based on images.

For example, comparing this one: http://loupetroop.com/listings/loose-stones-colored-gemstone/star-reduced-star-3-dot-59-ct-round-ceylon-sapphire-from-sri-lanka

To this one thats concave: http://www.concavegems.com/detail.cfm?zNum=6466

They both sparkle nicely, I dont know if in person one will do a better job of shimmering or sparkling in a dark-ish room?

Have you given treatment any consideration? Can you post pictures of blue sapphires that you like and hope to get?

I don't care for heated or non-heated. Either or as long as the color is pleasing. These gems have color I like. I dont want a blue that is sooooo deep in tone that it doesn't sparkle or has what looks like extinction due to the deep color, but I also don't want a grey tone stone, something in the blue area that isnt light and isnt deep (This makes no sense I am sure, lol).

This one seems nice: http://www.concavegems.com/detail.cfm?zNum=7240
This one might be too bright (referenced above for the sparke though) : http://loupetroop.com/listings/loose-stones-colored-gemstone/star-reduced-star-3-dot-59-ct-round-ceylon-sapphire-from-sri-lanka

This blue seems about right, but I wish it woud sparkle a biiiiit more: http://www.africagems.com/round-bluesapph-g2k-3805.html

This blue seems right too, I wish it would have more flare and sparkle: http://www.africagems.com/round-bluesapph-g2k-3854.html

Thanks for all the assistance!

-David

 

[FrekeChild]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

You should contact MaeVona. I believe that all of their settings are custom, and they'd be fine with working with a stone that you find first.

 

[chrono]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

Reicaden
Hmmm....something has to give. It looks like you like a top blue colour, which is going to cost anywhere from $3k to $4K for the stone alone, even if heated. What are you willing to sacrifice? Unfortunately, with the high metal pricing and the continued rise of sapphire pricing, your options are limited.
1. Colour (less intense blue is less expensive)
2. Size (smaller stone = less expensive)
3. Simpler setting (custom generally costs more than stock setting)
4. Increase budget

When you have a custom design, it is made to fit the measurements of your stone, so there is no depth concern as opposed to a stock or ready made setting. If your GF has nickle allergy, it is best to avoid white gold or use a nickle-free white gold alloy.

With a tight budget, I would stay with a traditional flat faceted sapphire. Concave cut gems tend to be more expensive and look too different for most people. It is more shimmery and static whereas a traditional brilliant cut has large flashes. The two flavours are in total opposite and most people either love it or hate it.

Freke,
I think the MaeVona will eat up his entire budget, leaving nothing for the center stone.

 

[tyty333]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

Not a 3 stone but somewhat organic and flowery (plus easier on the budget at $975).
http://www.brilliantearth.com/Willow-Diamond-Ring-White-Gold-BE156-192670/?show_setting_tab=true

Here it is with the matching band...pretty

http://www.brilliantearth.com/Willo...um-BE156-BE256A-285082/?show_setting_tab=true

Kind of like your Poppy setting but with rounds $1475
http://www.brilliantearth.com/Cascade-Three-Stone-Ring-White-Gold-BE134PD2R15-307150/?show_setting_tab=true

 

[velouriaL]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

Secondling contacting MaeVona.

Although less floral, I really like Sholdt for smooth, flowing lines. They do custom and work with outside stones. I think they would be able to work within your price range:
http://www.sholdtdesign.com/

Mastercutgem's pictures aren't always great, but he has some nice sapphires:
http://www.mastercutgems.com/index.php?page=view&cat=301

If I were you, in order to stay within your budget, I'd go down on stone size to one that's roughly the size of 1-1.50 carat diamond... 6.5-7.5mm. Among my non-PS friends, 7mm seems to be the sweet spot for something they actually want to wear everyday in their ordinary lives.

Another piece of the puzzle for your budget is that the more substantial side diamonds in three stone settings are fairly expensive. Perhaps you might want to think about doing "accent diamonds" rather than a true three stone.

 

[velouriaL]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

Soooo... this is a different direction, but do you think she'd like something like these:

http://jamesmeyerjewelry.com/wordpress/1458-2/#.Uvp-C5Zu6Xs
http://jamesmeyerjewelry.com/wordpress/1410-2/#.Uvp-E5Zu6Xs
http://jamesmeyerjewelry.com/wordpress/1462-2/#.Uvp-GZZu6Xs

 

[FrekeChild]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

Ah, I missed the budget. MaeVona will take up the entirety of your budget. You should ask Daniel M if they can do a similar setting within your budget once you find the stone: https://www.etsy.com/shop/danielmjewelry

Here is a cool organic leafy ring that they did recently: https://www.etsy.com/transaction/160248541?

Chrono brings up a lot of good points.

I keep begging people to buy this stone so I'm no longer tempted. She might be open to negotiation if you ask. This stone was originally $4,500!
http://loupetroop.com/listings/loose-stones-colored-gemstone/unheated-blue-sapphire

Note: I really don't like concave cut stones, so unless you know that she loves them, I wouldn't go that route.

 

[carmen1]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

I've heard that concave faceting looks better for lighter colored stones, and frankly many people don't like it at all, plus it is more costly. So unless your girlfriend is head-over-heels for a concave stone I suggest you stick with traditional faceting, which will also be a more budget-friendly option. The LoupeTroop 2.24 unheated sapphire that has been linked to a couple times already is a really good option within your budget.

Although I've never purchased anything from her, maybe take a look at JuliaB on Etsy as her tulip / lotus rings are "flower-y" and reasonably priced, she makes a version with sidestones and you could certainly ask if she could customize it to something that is more of a 3-stone design. http://www.etsy.com/listing/1650690...?ref=shop_home_active_1&ga_search_query=lotus

 

[swissmiss]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

I second all the concerns regarding concave faceting. Do you know if your GF loves it? Have you seen concave faceting in person? I know some people absolutely love it and are fascinated by its scintillating quality. Unfortunately, it seems that the majority (not all) people either love it or hate it; there is little in-between.

I have a concave-faceted light pink amethyst that I kind of liked when I first bought it (1st lesson for me: "kind of liking" is not good enough). I thought I could "learn to like" it (2nd lesson for me: "learning" to like = I didn't like it in the first place). I am still disappointed every time I look at the stone. Only buy what your girlfriend loves!

Some advice for shopping online: ask vendors for videos (though Gemfix does not provide additional photos and videos) and pay more attention to the description that the photos. In general, videos and descriptions will give you a better idea of the cut and light performance of the stone. If you can pull it off financially and logistically, purchase a number of stones that appeal to you and compare in person one against another.

 

[reicaden]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

Great responses and information!

I second all the concerns regarding concave faceting. Do you know if your GF loves it? Have you seen concave faceting in person? I know some people absolutely love it and are fascinated by its scintillating quality.

This has been voiced by others in the thread and now I am thinking that I will avoid the concave stone route. We have not seen it in person and I am going strictly on images. I do agree that it seems to better work with lighter/greyer stones and may not be the choice for her. I can't have her see the ring/stones because, well, its a surprise xD.

I keep begging people to buy this stone so I'm no longer tempted. She might be open to negotiation if you ask. This stone was originally $4,500!
http://loupetroop.com/listings/loose-stones-colored-gemstone/unheated-blue-sapphire

Sadly, your wish has come true That stone is sold apparently when I clicked on the link yesterday to see if available. I like its blue color and it looks like a quality cut, after learning that concave may not be the right choice, I wish I had been able to capture this one. But alas, was not meant to be.

Soooo... this is a different direction, but do you think she'd like something like these:

The rings are.. interesting, I feel they may not be to her liking though, shes not very vintage in style, I think she may not find them as appealing. Thank you though Any suggestions are good suggestions!

Secondling contacting MaeVona.

You should contact MaeVona.

I did contact them directly, I believe they can accommodate a larger gem, but the price point is still expensive. They negotiated to 2370 from 2790 so it's a good deal, but the setting might still be too far out for me. I'm sure I can find a replacement band that I'll love the same or more eventually, just gotta keep hunting

Hmmm....something has to give. It looks like you like a top blue colour, which is going to cost anywhere from $3k to $4K for the stone alone, even if heated. What are you willing to sacrifice? Unfortunately, with the high metal pricing and the continued rise of sapphire pricing, your options are limited.

I agree it's tight with that setting. I'm thinking if I can get a stone for somewhere between $2200 and $3000 for a 7mm as recommended size stone and maybe (I'd guess) that would sit around 1.6 ct? And maybe a blue that is not "light" but not the deepest most desirable blue either... I can manage to find it. The one links in loupetroop peaked my interest actually, The blue is right and the price is great at 2700, but it seems to be gone already, so I'll keep an eye out .

If I can get the stone in that range and then switch the band to something at about $1000 I should be alright on the budget. I definitely have to find a different band I like as much.

Not a 3 stone but somewhat organic and flowery (plus easier on the budget at $975).
http://www.brilliantearth.com/Willow-Diamond-Ring-White-Gold-BE156-192670/?show_setting_tab=true

Here it is with the matching band...pretty

http://www.brilliantearth.com/Willow-Matched-Set-(1/4-ct.-tw...)-Platinum-BE156-BE256A-285082/?show_setting_tab=true

Kind of like your Poppy setting but with rounds $1475
http://www.brilliantearth.com/Cascade-Three-Stone-Ring-White-Gold-BE134PD2R15-307150/?show_setting_tab=true

Oooooh! I do like that first one quite a bit! It's not the same diamond leaf type design but it's fairly close and fits the budget better and I do like the look.

I like the last one too! Hmmm... I wish it was more organic/nature related but it's very nice indeed. Thank you for both of these choices, it'll allow me to take more liberty with my stone selection!

Although less floral, I really like Sholdt for smooth, flowing lines. They do custom and work with outside stones. I think they would be able to work within your price range:
http://www.sholdtdesign.com/

Mastercutgem's pictures aren't always great, but he has some nice sapphires:
http://www.mastercutgems.com/index.php?page=view&cat=301

If I were you, in order to stay within your budget, I'd go down on stone size to one that's roughly the size of 1-1.50 carat diamond... 6.5-7.5mm.

Great rings at that link, thank you! I dont see prices, so I am afraid I may have not gained any traction in price and budget, but I do like this one: http://www.sholdtdesign.com/Vashon/R4591D.htm

It isnt floral, but something about it... I dont know, I like the curve and the way the gem is held, its intriguing to me. I wish I knew the cost, lol.

Mastercutgems is new to me, thank you for the link! I'll keep an eye out. They have one right now that is this one:
http://www.mastercutgems.com/preview.php?cat=301&id=6923

Seems like a great price and the stone is pretty. I wish it was a tad bit bigger, but the pricing is not bad at all. I'll keep an eye out for a good priced 2ct I think so I can stay around 7mm.



Thank you EVERYONE for such great information. Ill be staying away from concaves then and keep looking at bands to remain in budget. I suppose its best to spend it on the nicest stone I can afford than on the nicest band.... I think....

Any more suggestions or findings, do let me know, I'll be posting my progress and questions for your help/info as needed

 

[mochiko42]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

If you're willing to consider a vendor outside the US, I can highly recommend Sally at Heart of Water (Etsy). She made my engagement ring, which was a color shift blue/purple sapphire in a lotus ring setting, it cost just under $2k for everything including gem (which she made a special trip to Bangkok to source), setting and shipping. You can see some pics here: [URL='https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/color-change-sapphire-engagement-ring.194042/']https://www.pricescope.com/community/threads/color-change-sapphire-engagement-ring.194042/[/URL]

HoW is linked on the CS vendors sticky.

 

[deskjockey]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

If you think she'd like an organic, leaf type design, I just stumbled onto this shop on etsy:

https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/doronmerav

He can customize and do side stones, too. It's a more handmade look than the maevona rings, but I thought I'd pass it on.

 

[MollyMalone]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

This looks to be still available -- there is no SOLD or SALE PENDING tag
http://loupetroop.com/listings/loose-stones-colored-gemstone/unheated-blue-sapphire

 

[chrono]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

This looks to be still available -- there is no SOLD or SALE PENDING tag
http://loupetroop.com/listings/loose-stones-colored-gemstone/unheated-blue-sapphire

+1. Please inquire ASAP or I might be tempted to get it myself. Beautiful unheated blue sapphire with a good lab brief and price.

It is best to inquire with Brilliant Earth to find out if they will sell their settings separately. It doesn't seem so when I navigated their website.

 

[indigoblue]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

If you see something at mastercutgems, contact them and ask for the best price. You may get a good surprise.

 

[FrekeChild]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

This looks to be still available -- there is no SOLD or SALE PENDING tag
http://loupetroop.com/listings/loose-stones-colored-gemstone/unheated-blue-sapphire

+1. Please inquire ASAP or I might be tempted to get it myself. Beautiful unheated blue sapphire with a good lab brief and price.

It is best to inquire with Brilliant Earth to find out if they will sell their settings separately. It doesn't seem so when I navigated their website.

GAHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!! Chrono!!!!! Don't play on my emotions like that!!!!!

 

[ilovegemstones]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

NKOTB's sapphire is even better in person! I would go for that one.

Chrono, you wrote:
"Depending on the colour quality you are looking for, it can be anywhere from $1000/ct to $5000/ct. Heated costs more than unheated, if all else is equal. Have you given treatment any consideration? Can you post pictures of blue sapphires that you like and hope to get?"

but I think you meant unheated costs more than heated, just to clarify for anyone new reading the thread.

 

[chrono]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

ILG,
You are absolutely right; it is an embarrassing typo.

 

[FrekeChild]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

Happens to us all Chrono. I'm pretty sure I've said that I hate gray in spinels before. We all know THAT would be a typo!

 

[ilovegemstones]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

It totally happens to all of us, not embarrassing at all! Heck, I just was just informed by my husband that I have been spelling vendor incorrectly - I was writing vendour all this time! I thought it was a US/Canada thing. Why didn't y'all correct me? BTW I live in the US for a while and loved my roommate from Alabama who said y'all all the time. Threadjack over, sorry!

 

[MollyMalone]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

* * * It is best to inquire with Brilliant Earth to find out if they will sell their settings separately. It doesn't seem so when I navigated their website.

Yep... unless Brilliant Earth has changed their policy in the past couple of years, they will not sell you just a setting/semi-mount. But reicaden, don't let that stop you from hopping on that sapphire NKOTB has listed on LoupeTroop! Folks here will be more than happy to offer additional possibilities for the setting.

 

[LeaD]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

I really like the original setting you selected Reicaden, as well as the brilliant earth. I like the combination of very modern and romantic feel of those.

Another design which might provide you additional food for thought is the following :
http://www.debeers.com/jewellery/rings/j1fw01b10p/adonis-rose-solitaire-ring#
the same one exists with colored diamond, pink or yellow, and it also looks fantastic (see below the ring in the middle of wedding pictures).
http://www.luxury-insider.com/luxury-news/2011/11/fairytale-wedding-karen-mok-radiant-in-de-beers
Do not look at the prices as they will exceed your budget. And I'm convinced they will not provide the setting with no centre stone.

 

[reicaden]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

* * * It is best to inquire with Brilliant Earth to find out if they will sell their settings separately. It doesn't seem so when I navigated their website.

Yep... unless Brilliant Earth has changed their policy in the past couple of years, they will not sell you just a setting/semi-mount. But reicaden, don't let that stop you from hopping on that sapphire NKOTB has listed on LoupeTroop! Folks here will be more than happy to offer additional possibilities for the setting.

Wow, you are correct, i dont believe they do.

That is a shame.

Another option I have entertained but I wish I could see in person first is this one: http://www.sholdtdesign.com/Vashon/R4591D.htm and this one : http://www.sholdtdesign.com/Vashon/R459.htm

No side diamonds, but it has a nice flow... And i like that you can see a bit of the gem from the side.

The gem on trouploupe is very nice indeed. It might be a bit bigger than I need and I wonder if I can find something in the 2400$ range that is a bit smaller but easier on the pocket book. 3,000 for a gem is a bit more than I had hoped (but it is also a larger than I was originally looking for gem). I dont know... do you feel that gem is worth the investment? I mean, cut wise and color and clarity all look very nice, but, is it 700$ more nice, hmmmm. This is such a tough decision! lol

 

[ilovegemstones]

Re: Should I get this setting for a sapphire engagement ring

I think it is totally worth it because it is over 2 ct and is over 7mm, and it's unheated. Also, it is round. It is really good value if you like the other things you mentioned (cut, colour, clarity). It really jumped out at me when I was looking at her other gems!

FWIW, I made a $400 jump in a sapphire I was looking at recently for a ring thanks to the great advice here. Now that the ring is in hand, I am so glad I did!