peach_tea_for_me
Shiny_Rock
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- Jun 22, 2010
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Ladies- I have a question... It's not one that most of you will want to fess up to, but I've been dying to ask for awhile. Do you snoop? I'm referring mostly to snooping for diamond related info or for the rock itself. But feel free to fess up to all your snoopings!
Just so you feel safe, I will kick off the confessions (eek!):
I'll preface by saying, I know I shouldn't do this, but...I sometimes will check my email on my BF's computer and since we have the same email provider it will pull up his email first since he doesn't log out. I'll do a quick scan looking for anything related to said topic. More of a hope to catch him doing something right rather than something wrong. I will say that I completely trust him with our relationship so I'm not looking for tom foolery, JUST anything maybe from a jeweler saying "Order confirmation". I would be really disappointed with myself if I saw this and of course I wouldn't be able to resist opening the email. Since I don't want to rob my boyfriend of the surprised look on my face, I stopped "checking my email on his computer" once I was pretty sure he was working with a jeweler to avoid being in the "I can't resist" position. So I guess, I'm a semi-snooper in recovery.
With that said, I did peek into his wallet the other day and saw a card from a jeweler with some notes about diamonds on the back and pretended not to see anything, that was enough of a tease to quench my curiosity for the time being. And yes, I feel guilty about even finding that!
That is ALL the snooping I've done. I'm not so proud, but glad to get it in check and not jump to full snoop mode.
Please someone else confess and relieve me of my guilty conscience! I know you're out there snoopers!!! It's a safe space to share, no judgements.
Just so you feel safe, I will kick off the confessions (eek!):
I'll preface by saying, I know I shouldn't do this, but...I sometimes will check my email on my BF's computer and since we have the same email provider it will pull up his email first since he doesn't log out. I'll do a quick scan looking for anything related to said topic. More of a hope to catch him doing something right rather than something wrong. I will say that I completely trust him with our relationship so I'm not looking for tom foolery, JUST anything maybe from a jeweler saying "Order confirmation". I would be really disappointed with myself if I saw this and of course I wouldn't be able to resist opening the email. Since I don't want to rob my boyfriend of the surprised look on my face, I stopped "checking my email on his computer" once I was pretty sure he was working with a jeweler to avoid being in the "I can't resist" position. So I guess, I'm a semi-snooper in recovery.
With that said, I did peek into his wallet the other day and saw a card from a jeweler with some notes about diamonds on the back and pretended not to see anything, that was enough of a tease to quench my curiosity for the time being. And yes, I feel guilty about even finding that!
That is ALL the snooping I've done. I'm not so proud, but glad to get it in check and not jump to full snoop mode.
Please someone else confess and relieve me of my guilty conscience! I know you're out there snoopers!!! It's a safe space to share, no judgements.