Sort of a dilemma...

[nicoleben]

Yes I totally understand that. It just breaks my heart to see her treating him like this, and him getting overly upset about it, then turning around and making an excuse as to why it was OK she did what she did.. ::shakes head:: I kid you not, 5 minutes ago he was crying about everything and asked for my opinion. I truly did not know what to say, I simply stated "Kevin you do what you think is right. Either way you will know what is right at some point."

 

[nicoleben]

I should also mention I see their relationship in shreds every single time because me, the fiance and FBIL have a temporary house we live in together.

 

[Dreamer_D]

Troubles don't go away when you get married. If it is this hard now, it will not last. Just my 2 c!

I am a big mouth and would probably tell my FBIL that he is worth better and they are incompatible. Maybe not if we lived together though

 

[iota15]

I thought I'd post a bit of a warning - It looks like your potential FSIL is a LIW. I think I recall something about a potential proposal in December?

Well... she might see this thread (as well as the others). You use a picture of yourself and your FI in your avatar. You also just named your FBIL, Kevin. I would consider taking some of this stuff down (and at the very least, "anonymize" your avatar.)

 

[nicoleben]

I'm not worried about her being on here. But, thanks for the warning