@Calliecake , that's so funny too about my girl looking like your niece. I get comments all the time from people saying"your daughter looks just like...." I guess she just has one of those faces.
Hi There,
I've been reading your thread with interest & look forward to seeing what you end up deciding on.
I came across a shield-like gem today & thought I'd post the link for you even though I don't suggest it for your wedding day jewelry. It's a soft colour but perhaps a rose gold setting will bring out the pink in the gem. The colored gem section can expand on the qualities of the cutting etc. I'm not an expert, but I do like the shape. I think would make a great sized pendant.
https://www.litnon.com/index.php?page=viewgem&id=10713